Women ruin mens lives?

[dman342]

Its easy for women to ruin a mans life nowadays. How do we bridge the gap and solve this issue before it gets worse?

Should we make rape allegations a private thing between the accused and the accuser? Where heavy fines and charges are laid for making a public display out of the case before a guilty verdict is reached? All to often women ruin mens lives on false claims and i think that is the most fair way to go about that issue.

What do women think? Why do you hate men so much?

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+1 y

I need time to think, im just scared of getting fucking burned by a sadistic bitch.

[ibodi]

Actually, that is why I find girls in communism attractive. Especially two countries that are standput. I just wanna say may we learn all leasons that our ancetors go throught, walk hand in hand to future. You fille me up I fill you up. Live together long live our spirit.

[lightbulb27]

I'm working on it, big social shifts, gotta adapt.

rape is fixable on the men's side. exclude the mentally ill, othe rmen just need trained. Alcohol other part of it.
too much to write...

[lightbulb27]

It's a fair fear, girls have fears too. fear is a terrible guide... steer you right into trouble. There is better approach mentally... ask me after you think...
nothing perfect, these girls can trash you many ways. but they hold the keys to the kingdom of life and they can be amazing...

[dman342]

Thats quite reassuring.

[lightbulb27]

lol... I know a bit of reality and splash of hope. I know awsome relationships... it starts with a good stable strong women and guy who knows what he wants.
Choose wisely, hold good boundaries, be the man you are supposed to be and want to be... and find one that wants to go along with you.

[Anonymous]

So that means we could place heavy fines are charges on men for calling women liars too.

I mean, do you realize how ridiculous you sound?

[dman342]

Men accusing women habe nowhere near the same impact.

[dman342]

Has*

[Opinion Owner]

It easily could. But regardless, do you know how bratty and entitled that is? Not to mention unrealistic. I mean why stop there? Let’s make a law that women can’t lie about men but it’s ok for men to lie about women.

[dman342]

No it should be wrong and illegal across the board for either gender to slander each others personal lives.

[dman342]

I dont understand why this is a hard concept for women.

[Opinion Owner]

Gee maybe because you made it a point to define this by gender. Do better next time.

[bamesjond0069]

Lying is not the issue. Its lying to the police to initiate false charges. That should carry severe jail time.

[dman342]

Absolutely. But there is still the issue of slander if word gets out. There are plenty of stories about men getting fired the next morning after word gets out.

[Opinion Owner]

False allegations should be punishable by law, but trying to monitor and regulate hearsay is just not going to happen, nor should it because it’s unconstitutional.

[Opinion Owner]

Dman, is there someone in particular you think might be after you? Or are you just speaking in general?

[dman342]

In general.

[PondyPand]

No, keep it public, but make the sentence the same for false rape accusers.
Most women don't hate men.

[dman342]

And? Even if men are proven innocent they have already lost their reputation and jobs and may never recover.

I also simply can't believe you since most women end up taking these incentives to ether destroy lives or break up families with divorce and domestic abuse.

I do agree women who do this should be shamed and sent to prison as well.

[PondyPand]

Keep it public so that the false ones are shown to be false, have the one who falsely said so pay the victims way until they're back up to par.
MOST WOMEN DO NOT GO AROUND CALLING MEN RAPISTS. To say that most do is idiotic and shows a lack of intelligence.
MEN CAN BE ARSEHOLES.
WOMEN CAN BE ARSEHOLES.
NEITHER GENDER ARE SIMPLY ALL ARSEHOLES. 👍

[dman342]

I would like to believe that but the feminist media tells me i am a rapist as well as women in academia

I do agree that after a verdict has been reached that it should go public.

[shimmeryns]

Solid!

[shimmeryns]

That reply was meant for @PondyPand

[PondyPand]

Yes, extreme feminism is what reaches the media.
Again, believing what the media tells you is moronic and downright retarded. If a feminist news told you men need to jump off bridges would you? Take your glasses off and drag yourself out of the silly self pity pit.

[dman342]

Sure is but the media still has a wide influence in society as a whole.

[PondyPand]

And? Your point? You don't really have one, all the way through your answers to be fair.

[shimmeryns]

Oh wow another question generalizing all women hate men. As great as great can be. Wow.

[shimmeryns]

@mrbobz question like this is like daily occurrence, lol!

[mrbobz]

I would like to see evidence that women do hate men, as yes this is just hearsay and can easily be dismissed as ramblings. They are only preaching to the converted, the other chums on here... i picture them all meeting up after a good night of women bashing on here for a quick circle jerk.

I have to say i do wonder if a lot of these chaps are gay and seem to have a bone to pick with women for some reason. Its odd why they hate women so much. But every gay guy i know likes women, so it is a mystery.

Who knows eh? :)

[dman342]

Keep being part of the problem and trivialize the issue.

[shimmeryns]

@mrbobz i somehow imagine they must have some trauma during childhood, maybe abused by a female caretaker? If it did happen, I dont think they would admit it.

I doubt their sexual orientation has anything to do with their hate though.

[mrbobz]

The sad thing about it all is i know the type of guy it is. I almost became one years ago.. i hate to admit. I sat in my room every night playing games, getting fatter and not caring about anything, i couldnt understand why women wouldn't ask me out, i started to think it was because women only went for rich men or ass holes... then i realised.. no the problem was me, it was me all along, so i started to make my self do more with my life, i went out, explored, volunteered, lost weight, took pride in my self.. and guess what? girls were interested in me! ... oh yeah i also realised that if i liked them i should speak to them myself and not expect the world to come to me... i feel these guys did not quite get that far

[shimmeryns]

@mrbobz oh wow that is enlightening. Im glad you realized it before turning into one of those mgtow. I never hate men, i'd cry if all men gone from the world because i have so many male family members and male friends whom i love so dearly.

[dman342]

@mrbobz
There was some truth to that only i have taken those steps to self improvement and lost weight.

Thing is this still doesn't address the issue that there are incentives for women to ruin a mans life and women themselves dont call any of this out.

I am simply conflicted on whether i should persue a relationship and roll the dice risking my life or if women are not worth my time at all.

How can i trust and respect women if they can destroy lives and get away with it?

[shimmeryns]

Are all women in you life like that may i ask? You grandmother, mother, sister, friend, neighbour?

[dman342]

@shimmeryns i was never abused all the women in my life have been good to me so far. Its that i am having trouble rationalizing why i should even respect and trust other women given the rising hatred of men in the media and academia of tje newer generation.

[shimmeryns]

So if the closest female to you did not ruin your life... What are the odds other females would not have the intention to ruin your life?

[dman342]

Dunno, 80% of women do initiate divorce and tear apart families, taking custody of the children and making men pay for it. So i would assume it is in that ballpark of at least 60% of women giving into those kind of incentives at the very least.

[shimmeryns]

Where do you get your figure from? Cite the source and post the link?

[MzAsh]

How many of those men caused the need for divorce though?

[shimmeryns]

@dman342 yeah cite your source also giving us the stats how many of those men cause the divorce to happen. I would love to see some evidence and cited numbers/stats.

[dman342]

Would if the stupid app would let me post links.

Either way it still doesn't address the issue that these legal loopholes exist and that woman abuse them

[shimmeryns]

Well no source so it safe to assume you just make that figure up 😊

[dman342]

Fair enough

So why dont women call out toxic femininity then. You all seem to enjoy giving your silent consent to mens issues.

[shimmeryns]

Dont change the subject. Since you just make up that figure therefore... Whatever you claim about MOST women wanting to ruin men's life are not true.

[dman342]

So you deny women make false rape allegations?

Just because i can't show you the data doesn't mean that its made up.

[MzAsh]

You can post links on here. I do it all the time.

[shimmeryns]

I want just falsifying your statement saying ALL women hate men and out to ruin men's life. Close women in your life don't, thats one strong point. So if they dont i asked what are the odds other women out there have the intention to ruin your life? Well no cited source for your figure so I could tell you for sure not all of them would have the intention to.

[dman342]

A few women who have an investment to see me succeed is not representative of women as a whole who have generated anti male sentiments over the past decade.

[shimmeryns]

You really have a negative thinking, I dont feel bothered to fix that. I hope you're happy living your life with your negativity. Goodbye!

[unKN1GHTed]

Men need to give up on relationships, or move to a country where women don't hate everything about you.

[dman342]

That may be the case.

[AynonOMouse]

They need a false accuser registry so it will come up for the rest of their lives any time they accuse someone else.

[dman342]

Absolutely.

[Anonymous]

Men have been getting a shitload of bad press lately. The truth is women are every bit as bad, just in different ways, and most importantly, THEY DON'T GET CALLED OUT FOR IT. That is the part we need to change. We as a society need to start recognizing all the shit women do and calling them out for it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-X94TPrzWsI

[Opinion Owner]

By the way, while I agree with the sentiment that @PondyPand expressed about keeping it public so whoever is lying gets exposed, in reality it doesn't work that way because in a rape case the accused gets accused publicly while the identity of the accuser is legally protected. THAT is something that needs to change. Either the identity of BOTH are legally protected, or NEITHER! The law now is very sexist against men.

[MyExperience]

Any claim of a crime needs to be iFully nvestigated by the authorities. What do you mean by “to often women ruin mens lives on false claims and i think that is the most fair way to go about that issue“

[Dchrls78104]

The surest way to avoid car accidents is to avoid driving altogether.
The surest way to avoid incidents with females is to avoid females altogether.

[Rissyanne]

Start dating men... that’s your answer

[dman342]

Not gay and thanks for trivializing the issue and being part of the problem.

[Rissyanne]

Stop generalizing women. If you hate women so much then start dating men

[dman342]

That is not an answer. And i do t hate women i hate that there are incentives for women to ruin a mans life and that woman dont call any of this out.

[dman342]

Don't*

[Rissyanne]

I call these women out all the time

[MyExperience]

@dman342, What incentives do women have to ruin our lives?

[dman342]

@MyExperience

Community support, media attention, and they get off scott free or just a slap on the wrist if they are found to be lying.

@rissyanne that is great and i wish there are more of you

[dman342]

Oh and they get to ruin the life of someone they dont like as well as a power trip.

[MyExperience]

You’ve got a pretty fucked up way of looking at things dude. I truly doubt it’s an incentive for a woman’s sexual history to be broadcast throughout the media.

[malegender]

I have found the answer is to only have sex with prostitutes and only have male friends

[dman342]

Cool but what if i want to start a family?

[malegender]

get a girl from asia or mexico and a pre nup