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You sound like a mix of pathetic and stupid are you seriously this daft to think it's a singular gender issue if so I can see why people leave you.
Women that do that are just horrible
You are beautiful
Thank u
It should never be done for fun. You shouldn’t generalize a group as a whole. Destroying someone else for fun is psychotic.
Because it gives them a higher purpose in life, for females that's like their for of meditation.
Girls destroy boys. Women hurt men for fun or revenge but some of us prevail in the end...
They don’t have a high regard for people.. They hate themselves
Yes, I don't understand why anyone would enjoy playing with someone's heart/emotions.
it's a revenge/power move, broken women lashing out at innocent men
Because you have ran into horrible women who are garbage people.
Vice versa.
You cannot blame everyone for those who have ruined yours.
I've spent the last 25 years trying to figure this out & I have no answer other then they just seem to really enjoy it
Because they enjoy it... duh... lol
Not all women are good and not all men are good. Both are good in their ways
Check the last two words of your question and you have your answer.
Why did he destroy me?
That's what Chad does.
@Brittanyroseee Right, it is not limited to just one gender destroying the other.
Chads don't destroy women, generally speaking. They just fuck around. Hook up culture my man.
If am being honest, I was screwed over twice. The second time gave me notorious PTSD. Now I can care less of other men’s feelings. Once I see something or they give me any type of bad vibe. I treat them like dirt or cut them off.
And that's exactly the problem. Nobody is good enough to be the bigger person. We get destroyed and we become the destroyer. A story as old as time.
Anonymous... You were screwed over by two Chads so now you take it out on regular men. Good one.
Found the Amber Heard!
So, I watched the video but I still don't know what you stand for?
GODS word will come to pass
Op... meaning what? Women will be less destructive?
wow do you not have common sense
Op... I guess I don't. I asking how your original post is relevant to the question. I agree that hell is filled mostly with ungrateful women.
they reject GOD they prefer evil
it's because in both of our genders we have ass holes who go figure walk around being ass holes
key word fun
Because many gag guys only choose crazy immature women just because of their youth and beauty but reject nice women due their age.
I have seen guys on gag telling me that women over 30s are leftovers and it does not matter if she is nice. But majority of women ain't in their early 20s. So i dont understand why the same people say that women only 20% of men but they also want 20% of women aka young women
Whatever unfortunately some women are toxic. So i am sorry as a woman if any guy get abused by these toxic women
It's demonstrated that women are perceived as most beautiful in their early 20s. It's really frustrating and unfair, I get it, but asking men to overlook it is like asking you to overlook whatever your key attraction to a guy is--usually I'd expect that it would be his confidence, assertiveness, and not being needy.
These standards we have for each other suck. Both Older girls and timid guys are hung out to dry. But these standards are stuck in us on a very basic level, so we shouldn't use them to morally confemn one another any more than we should use gender as a way to condemn.
Then dont complain when women only want 20% of men
I dont care what you prefere but i can't stand the hypocrisy
I have seen often how guys complain about it when women only want 20% of men but they justify their their excuses about wanting 10-20% of women. I can't stand it when whine when young women they meet tend to be immature, modern etc. Then date older women instead of whining because of young aka modern women. This entitlement annoys me so much
I have the same standard between men and women:
Yes, the unfair standard absolutely sucks, but we all want to date someone special. It's normal to be upset that you're not is the special category, and yes it sucks. But it's just not going to work if someone dates you out of pity--nor should it.
Look. I admit thar i tend to be a little shallow. I never ever have complained about 20% of men who dont want me but i can't stand it when guys on gag complain about 20% of women who dont them.. i prefere tall men and i get a tall boyfriend but i would not complain if a tall man did not want me
I agree with people just needing to complain, but I would like to add some context. Men saying that 30 are leftover is the same way you might have a certain view on short men (not worth your time) and you mentioned that you don't complain if 20% of men or a tall man doesn't like you, I believe you but also note that as a woman you have that privilege to set those standards of not wanting a short man because at the end of the day you have options, and if the 20% of men don't want you well there will probably be 80% that do want you (even if you don't want them back), see men don't have those option as much as women think, men are lucky if they even find one person that is actually interested in them.
And I don't think men want 20% of women if anything it's been statistically proven that men are very versatile when it comes to dating and are more likely to date someone that is not considered as attractive. That's why there is that saying "a rich man can change a broke woman's life, but a rich woman won't even look a broke man's way". The problem isn't that women only want 20% of men, we get it, it biology for women to be picky, what upsets people is that women only want 20% of men and when they meet those men and they get treated wrong they go into this "men ain't shit" "all men are the same" when you are basing it off a 20% of men that most likely has options while the 80% doesn't even stand a chance.
In my experiences majority of guys on gag want young women who are the minority. So majority of guys on gag does not want the majority of women who are 30+ years old. Majority of women ain't young. This means many guys dont want 80% of women because of their age. I actually dont care. It is perfectly ok if you prefere pretty women in their 20s but do not complain when women want tall men. My problem is the hypocrisy and the entitlement and not the shallow preferences. I really dont care if you want super models but i really dislike it when women get backlash for prefering tall men for example but nobody say anything to men in their 50s wanting young women. Both young women and tall men are the minority
I agree to an extent. Women also should not complain when they get treated bad by 20% of men aka by bad boys but they also prefere bad boys. Even the 80% of men would not want me if i was over 30. T
Maybe i am wrong since gag guys dont really represent majority of men
I am just told that no man want women over 30s
Well actually young women make up about slightly above 50% and as stated men tend to like about 60% of women which is statistically proven. But I agree there is so much hypocrisy that can also be said with women claiming they don't accept "body shaming" but instantly body shame men for their height and to be truthful I don't think women get "backlash" for it, there are multiple women out here that openly bash short men and get away with it if anything they are praised, but the moment that a man body shames a woman for being thicker or let's say age, they get cancel for that kind of stuff and get label like misogynist, toxic, etc. so obviously there is a double standard.
On youtube i have seen a lot how much hate women get for prefering tall men. What? So 18-25 make up about 50% ? Do you you also include kids aka girls under 18?
www.statista.com/.../
Young women make up about 10-20 %.
I am talking about 18-25 years old women, and not minors or kids
@hi_it_is_me123 The majority of women 30+ have been run through long and hard. Partying hard in your 20's has consequences. Also, that now 30+ woman had p-l-e-n-t-y of options of good men when she was younger, she just thought they would always be there while she took Chad's sausage.
Then dont complain if women want minority of women
See you complain how women only prefere so called chads who make up 20% of men but also whine when 20% of women aka young women dont want you or treat you bad. You are not entitled to date young women
Then dont complain if women want minority of men***
You just prove my points.
Men who want 20% of women aka young women have no right to complain about women who want chads aka 20% of men
@Novacane
www.statista.com/.../
No, young women dont make up 50%. Women at 20-29 make up ~20%. You probably include kids too which i dont understand. I hope majority of men dont prefere kids/minors under 18 since it is pedophilia or illegal for a reason lool.
So do not include minors
or do not include anyone under 18. I am talking about young women you legally can date
@Asker so you expect from young women aka even teenagers to find their soulmate although their braint ain't developed till in their mid 20s. Therefore their personality tend to be unstable. Expecting from people with unstable personality to find a good husband is unrealistic and unfair. Why dont you marry then in your 20s then?
I mean it blows my mind that people really think anything past 25+ is old? so no I wasn't taking into consideration anything below 18 but now it's based on what you consider "old" because I don't think 30 is old, touching close to 40 is "old" also if using statists you can see that men are likely just 1% difference which is not a significant difference.
We also need to understand that men and women age differently and attain different things, as you mentioned women are judged by looks hence why its "rude" to ask a woman for her age because they know an older woman is considered "less value" and man are judge financially so as a man if you have no type of money, no women will take you seriously. Young women are at the peak of their looks because everyone knows the older you get the less attractive you get and other younger women will come in. Rich men are very hard to come by hence you typically find richer men when they are older due to having to obtain a great job etc so it's rare to see younger men with lots of money, that's something men obtain when they are older. Hence why you see older men with younger women because its all about the $$$.
I agree. I can't take any woman who want rich man serious since it is extremely unrealistic. Only very very few men are rich. Probably 1% of men are rich (?). I dont know.
@hi_it_is_me123 Someone is super-triggered LOL
You are the supper triggered here lool. I am just pointing out your hypocrisy. You could prefere who tf you want but please dont complain about your toxic girlfriend who you prefere due to her age, beauty etc. I would say the same thing about women prefering so called bad boys or toxic chads (?) Lol.
I really did not mean to offend you. So i am sorry for it if i offended you. I hoped that we could discuss but whatever. Have a good day
And for the Youtube things you mentioned yes I agree with the women getting backlash on that but also know that is fairly new women have recently been getting backlash because there has always been this double standard so no we are seeing this "red pill" movement of higher value men trying to hold women accountable, but for a long time when got away with body shaming and financially shaming men, most still do today, you can go on social media and see women slandering men and they get thousands of likes and retweets and they get praised for it. But let a man talk about a woman's weight, age, look, etc. and that man will get so much hate
Two wrongs dont make a right. Just because some women bodyshame or shame men for any reason does not mean all women should get hate for having preferences without being hypocritical. I mean women also get slut-shamed for centuries. Nobody slutshame men as a revenge. Twitter is also very biased against conservatives for example.
I am also 22. I dont know what happened 10+ years ago. I dont if a young woman without daddy issues seriously shame on men for being poor. This is cringe for me.
I personally think people should be allowed to have preferences as long as they ain't hypocritical and dont bodyshame anyone What i mean is if a girl prefere tall men she should not complain when a guy want a thin girl or if you prefere tall men, you should not bodyshame short men
Twitter is a very biased plattform. It is bunch of people in their bubble
Then Asian/middleeastern countries tend to have very materialistic women. So i know how it is expected from men to be wealthy. I dont know america but america ain't civilized as everyone think since i see so many similarities with turkey (a middleeastern country when it comes to dating, marriage etc.
In Europe i have seen some doctors marry poor men -at least where i live. I dont see many materialistic women. It is kinda interesting that there are many materialistic women in america-it is probably because of immigration from second and third world countries like latin america or east Asian countries
I mean I agree with you but let's no honest a lot of shaming goes on more than we notice. But how many women get hurt by one man and start blaming all men for his mistakes, nothing is fair but it happens.
The slut-shaming is a different topic if a woman really wanted to slut-shame men I would respect it, the problem is that what men and women want is different, I agree with the shaming part shouldn't happen but if a man doesn't want a woman that's promiscuous is that not also preference? The difference is that women don't want a virgin guy. If given the choice of a virgin man vs a man with a lot of experience women will choose the guy with a lot of experience, compared to men the answer would be the complete opposite. So it always shocks me that women say "her body count shouldn't matter" but is that not you just telling men what they should and shouldn't find attractive? That's like a guy saying "His height shouldn't matter"
I agree Twitter is very biased but it's one of the places where people will speak what is actually in their mind, compared to the people who lie because it's politically incorrect for them to say it out loud.
I think it's worst here in the states, especially with social media, a lot of people here only see love as transactional and nothing else, and the amount of women that shame men for being short and not being financially support happens a lot more than one may think.
Preference and slut-shaming is not the same. I prefere virgin men but i dont slut-shame promiscuos men
Yeah like I said I agree that people shouldn't be shamed of their body count but it's fine to not want to consider them as potential because of it. I believe you that is what you prefer and I applaud you for that but a lot of women don't think like you women would want a man with experience because they usually think that if other women want him is for a reason, and view virgin men as someone who cannot get women so there must be something wrong with them.
Both virgin and slut-shaming is not ok. As i said it is perfectly ok if you prefere women with low bodycount or virgin women as long as you dont slut-shame any woman.
I'll be the first one to tell ya I love older women. If she's nice, kind & respectful to me, she takes care of herself, and gives me a hell of a ride in the bedroom, I would have no problem dating an older woman. Even if she approaches 50.
Op... wives are found in their 20's for sure. By definition of you are a female 30+ and unmarried, you are left over.
They are evil bitches.
Some are very cruel and evil
because women are above the law
They enjoy it and also get victim status for it.
Lack of confidence and lots of anger
Lack of confidence and self-worth in women is a reallly big issue, I'll admit that. That's why so many flirt with men just for attention and validation, to feel desired. It's not okay in any way, shape or form to use men for that purpose though, but it's an issue.
Anger is manageable. Either go to therapy or channel your emotions otherwise. That's not an excuse to be a ratchet with other men (probably good men too for that matter) that have nothing to do with it.
I don’t. That is fucked up.
Kudos to you for being kind and not go into a crusade against men then.
Because they are angry.
Then they should go to therapy.
I had anger issues in the past, and I did what I had to do to be able to function properly. But it's in no way shape or form an excuse to treat people like shit.
Why do so many men beat and abuse women for fun?
because of sporting sense.
Women don't like to see men happy
Bad people do bad things
Provide proof. at least some study?
Those type of women are evil 😨😰😱
This has been your experience, I think.
Because men allow them to.
You can't detect hypocrite eveytime
True. However, there are red flags most men ignore or just don’t see.
I agree with your point
@mzash. This is a good point. Men need to be taught to trust that little voice.
'' Because men allow them to. '' -> THIS right here.
A woman that is called our on her BS and lack of respect might be offensed and irritated at first, might even leave the place, but after a few days (from what I noticed from my experiences when I called out BS) they usually come back and apologize. Even give you make you a meal or give you the best session of indoor olympics you ever had.
Women HATE to be held accountable, but when they are forced to face it, they do acknowledge they're wrong (for the most part). Bottom line is just that most men won't call out the BS right away and make themselves respected. Why? By fear of losing the girl / woman. But you know what? Big deal. If a woman prefers to end it instead of taking accountability. There is other people that can take it and apologize when it's due. That's the most basics of respect.
The outcome of calling out bs depends on the technique. A lot of guys don’t call out bs effectively and in a way that keeps the woman around, and they know it. They can learn of course. It must come from a place of humility and a desire for a stronger connection, not because he’s pissed off. Not because he wants to prove himself right and her wrong. And not from a place of control. His approach and delivery is make or break.
I agree, but yet again, a man's job is to stay centered, and not getting butthurt at the first occasion. I agree with you on that part. The delivery is important.
But the important part is, women NEED to take accountability for their BS behaviour when they are called out on it. Many women (not all, but many) can't stand that accountability part. There is no need for the guy to be angry or butthurt, but when called out on a calm and relaxed manner, women have to know to respect the guy's boundaries.
I don't like being upset or angry because it brings nothing good. I call out BS calmly, and I let her know where she stands. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect me, and therefore will never love me like it should. So there is no point in going further.
Either you talk to me like a grown ass adult, admit you're wrong when you are and apologize, or I'm out. And I expect the same exact thing too, if I have BS behaviour.
Always be kind, and treat other people the way you want to be treated.
I agree that men should not trust women at all.
Shitty people are just that, in both genders
You will get what you tolerate.
For the same reason men do it to women
Never sent it happen.
Seen*
It happens.
@Qdbrown I know. Still rare.
Because we are better than them
Because society and the courts let them.
That's what you get for being "nice".
Some people just are like that.
Because the majority of them are insecure
Your probably dating toxic chicks
Funny innit
It's funny
Why does anyone?
What do you mean?
Why do trolls exist?
Psycopathy
Narcissistic