Why some women like to humiliate men?

[Yeahhbro]

Well there is this girl who I picked up in class and she was nice, friendly and what not. But then next time she humiliates me in public? trust me I was never a bitch with her, but now I think I should be.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Is this an ongoing problem? If it is then I suggest giving her shit, and dumping her on the spot. Both very publicly. You have nothing saying you need to take that kinda shit from her or anybody else. However if this is a one time occurrence I suggest sitting her down in person and talking to her about it, to let her know how NOT it was. Try being stern, huffy and angry with her when you say it, and tell her you do not want her to do that again. If she is receptive then you should at least give her a second or possibly third chance (three strikes) and if she reacts badly to this then fuck her, you don't need her. Trust me when I tell ya there are plenty of other girls out there.

This is really the best advice I can give you so far based on what you gave me. If you prefer I give you better then I'll need to know a few more things. What did she do to humiliate you? What was the public setting? What was the damage? Is this a regular occurrence and ongoing problem? What have you done about it so far? All these things are important if you want clear answer. Sure it's cool that you kept the question brief, but it kinda leaves things vague too. Ah well. Anyway you have my answer so far. So to summarize it, it is as follows.

Regular problem? Give her shit for it in public and dump her and do it fast.

First time offense? Talk it over with her and maybe give her a second chance

[Yeahhbro]

Well I came to her just for a little chat while we were waiting for class and she just kind of gives

me the cold shoulder then at one point she just ignores me completely like I would be trying to talk to her and I will be facing her back she wouldn't say anything . then this guy comes and she just hugs him tight and leaves with him without saying anything. this was in front of the class where 50+ people were waiting. this was a one time thing, since then I just ignore her and look down on her

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

And this only happened the one time? Also how long have you been dating her? If it's anything under 2 months I say kick her to the curb regardless of whether this happened the one time or not. If you've been dating 2 months, and it only happened the one time, try talking it over with her.

[Yeahhbro]

I have talked to her like twice, this thing happened the second time I was just trying to get to know her I wasn't being pushy. she was acting shy but still what the hell?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Yeah man kick her to the curb.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I'm checking back on a lot of my old answers like I usually do. I wanted to do a follow up to see if what I told you was at all helpful to you. So did my advice help?

[Yeahhbro]

Well she made a move on me after 5 months. No I never talked to her I was really scared of something like that happening to me again

[smokeadmiral]

we decide how others treat us...react to it boldly and embarrass the hell out of her the next time she does this in public. Call her bitch card! Stand up and grow a set bro...never let anyone walk over top of you.

[queenb2000]

you shouldn't have to put up with anyone humiliating you in public especially if you did nothing wrong. just move on,cut your lossess.

[Anonymous]

explain how she humiliated you and I will try to give you an answer :)

[Yeahhbro]

Well I came to her just for a little chat while we were waiting for class and she just kind of gives

me the cold shoulder then at one point she just ignores me completely like I would be trying to talk to her and I will be facing her back she wouldn't say anything . then this guy comes and she just hugs him tight and leaves with him without saying anything. this was in front of the class where 50+ people were waiting. this was a one time thing, since then I just ignore her and look down on her

[Opinion Owner]

Oh...sorry that happened to you. what was your relationship prior to this incident? how long have you known her and how much time do you spend with her? she just sounds like a petty mean person from what you told me, don't worry about her.

[Yeahhbro]

I was just getting to know her, I have only talked to her like twice not even that much and for a short time too. I ignored her and looked down on her.

[Opinion Owner]

Does she talk to a lot of guys? She probably isn't a very nice person and is like one of those people who will talk to one person every now and then but is more cliquish and just wants to be around her friends and show off

[Gregs]

avoid letting women get away with sh*t like this, call them on their sh*t attitude

[Juliana77]

yes, now I think you should be