How can I level up my life and grow while happily staying single?

[Anonymous]

I’ve reached the point where I’m content being single

I prayed so hard for a spouse, was longing so much for a boyfriend, but now that craving is gone and I get the ick whenever I think of men romantically. Anyone experienced this?
I do crave children still.

Can anyone help me in my growth phase?
Would appreciate tips in these areas:

- I’ve started a business and hoping it works
- trying to clear acne
- trying to lose weight
- reading up on my med school notes to sharpen my mind/knowledge
- learning to cook
- I paint and draw and want to take professional courses
- would like to make more quality friendships

Etc.
Anything more?

Things I’ve already accomplished :

- lasered off all my body hair
- completed a BS in biology with distinction and an MBA
- grew my hair out
- still a virgin
- traveled the world/well traveled
- trilingual including fluency in English and
French

Where does all this put me? I have such bad luck with men. I now just want to focus on my own life.

I feel like focusing on being more worldly, poised, prim and proper, work on “upper class manners” (I don't know how else to put this) etc could help. Any tips?

[DryGermanGuy]

Concentrate on your profession and a potential career. Also your hobbies, if you have them. Both should also offer plenty of new opportunities to meet men. And I find it weird that you seem to put the onus for relationship failures solely on the men you met so far.

[Mark_Est]

Nothing fulfills a womans life like having a family. You can try to mask it however you like.

You have been poisoned by the feministic garbage to value some meaningless worker bee consumerism. Just to help the rules to get richer. You are a slave to the system.

Having a familiy is normal. You "icking" about that just shows how F'd you are in the head.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you’ll be as happy as you think you are. What you ultimately wanted didn’t happened for you. A lot of women say they’re happy being single, but they’re really not. A lot of men I could say would be fine being alone. Men tend to not need as much attention as women. Men like dealing w things, not people.

[Asker]

I don’t agree. I’m genuinely happy following God and his calling for my life, whatever it may be. Don’t need anyone to validate my life for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok than why even ask this question?

[Anonymous]

Men don't care about most of what you listed. You can "level up" for whatever reason, but you could just be narrowing the field of potential field into nothing.

[Asker]

Yeah the whole point was being happy without a partner.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry. English is not my first language. Hope it has worked out for you.

[slatyb]

By not getting married.

[MasterKS]

still a virgin ruin things.

[Asker]

Why tho

[MasterKS]

@asker your age shown 25-29 and you still virgin? wasted good young age.

[Asker]

I’m waiting for marriage I guess! One and done sorta lady

[MasterKS]

@asker even that idea is old, waiting for special, fairy tales all vanish one day.

[Asker]

I have very realistic expectations of what I want in a relationship and what they entail - it’s why I won’t just lay with anyone !!

[MasterKS]

@asker i dont like the idea but your life your choice.

[Mark_Est]

No, her being a virgin is not only a huge plus for men but also a minimu requirement for a wife. You are just a cuck. Or an fboy, trying to get more women to std farm, to make your life easier.

What you are saying is complete nonsense. Traditional men, who have the values women want only date traditional women.

You can take your low value modern dude BS, to other low value modern women. No man will wife up Temu Bonnie Blue's.

[Anonymous]

That is a good list

[6942Dantheman]

Marriage and kids.