Are girls possessive & jealous?

[TonyMetal___1986]

In my gag journey which is extending for more than 16 years, i have noticed a common pattern in the majority of the girls who had followed me and supported me here, especially the ones who became close to me, they acted so much possessive and jealous as soon as they noticed that i was treating other girls the same way i have treated them, it's like they wanted this special treatment only to be exclusive for them, so as soon as they saw me treating the others the same, they took steps back and became mean and sometimes furious, i understand that it makes them feel less special, but i treat everyone close to me the same and each person is special to me in her own ways, if i treat another woman in a kind and nice way, it doesn't make you any less special...

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Girls, just be honest, i mean it's okay, when you admit it than we can talk about it...

[sage2021]

I can definitely see how that could easily happen Tony.

When you make a woman feel "special" you are conveying that "SHE IS SPECIAL TO YOU" only to read your other opinions to other women also making them feel like they are "Special to YOU" and so they realize that they aren't really very special to you because you are making other women feel special too. So they get their feelings hurt and don't feel like they are special to you after all because you are saying things to other women too.

Especially if you are saying the exact same thing to other women. That would go over like a lead balloon.🎈

Actually I remember feeling that way about you a long time ago and I am sure you remember when it happened.
Because you say certain things to me and I believe you, but then you knock me down a peg and then I get the impression that I am really not what you say I am to you. I wonder about it sometimes myself but it doesn't turn me against you or make me jealous.
It just makes me feel a little bit less special than I thought I was.

We have a different kind of relationship between us like a mother and son, period. Just for those who may be wondering about us. So I know Tony in a very unique way that's different than his other relationships. We've had this type of relationship from the beginning and it's been over 2 years now.

You are a very caring and loving man and you truly do care about other people and you show them too. You cheer people up, you want them to be happy always, and that makes YOU SPECIAL!

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks, tbh this question that i have asked has something to do with you and some others, just want to let you all know, that if someone is nice to others, it doesn't mean that you're less special or not special at all...

No one can replace the other, each person has their own magic and their own ways in being unique...

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're welcome 🙂

[LazerBean]

Some are, some are not. I think a lot of it goes back to their childhood and how good their relationship with their family and father especially is l.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I hope so miss lazer, because they do give me a hard time sometimes...

[LazerBean]

Some girls are just a little on the crazy side lol

[TonyMetal___1986]

Yeah sometimes i picture their pretty faces turning into a horned demon's face and yelling: "you're mine, don't you understand, you're ONLY MIIIIIIIIIINNNE" 😂😂

[LazerBean]

😂😂 you just never know! Stay safe lol

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks 🤞🏻😁

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'm not. I mean, i can't really control what others do so why get upset about it? I can be annoyed if that's what it calls for if they do something to annoy me, but certainly not possessiveness or jealousy on my end. I don't see a lot of maturity in people who get that way no matter if they are a man or a woman.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well said Bri Bri, if i treat another girl in a nice way, it doesn't mean that you aren't special anymore, it's just that this person treats everyone in a nice way, that's it...

[JazzieJanna]

Yes they are
But if we are trying to protect someone and our relationship and etc then that another level ballgame meaning we r not jealous we are not possivd but we are trying to do what right.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks for sharing

[NathanDavis]

some are either of these, some are both and some... are none at all

the same goes for me as it is not a gender thing

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks fke sharing

[Billlewis]

Jealousy is what makes the world go 'round. Almost everything that happens nowadays is either directly or indirectly driven by jealousy.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Right 👍🏻

[Billlewis]

Check this out: so, I'm working the overnight shift (10:00-6:00) and a customer comes in, young Black guy, probably early to mid 20's, and it's kind of slow that night, so we're just talking for a couple of minutes, and eventually he says, 'You're a cool guy, man'.'Thanks'.'How long you workin' tonight? We gon' find out how cool you are'. I told him I'd be there till sunrise, so he leaves, and an hour later, he shows up again with his white girlfriend, obviously trying to bait me into getting jealous, upset or giving him a dirty look, etc, not knowing that I can't white women. I just ignored both of them and petted her dog... lol

[Billlewis]

*Can't stand white women

[EmmaMary]

There will always be those who are, but I'm most certainly not one of them... I hope!

[TonyMetal___1986]

You aren't miss Emma Mary, you're always nice plus you're mature enough to know that a friend is a friend and a husband is a husband, you don't mix everything together, you're from the most members that i get along with, plus without you, me and Agape wouldn't be talking to each other, thanks kind lady 😌

[queenofcardio]

Some are, I'm not

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 👍🏻

[strateguy632]

you noticed it.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I surely did, a couple of them gave me a headache as if i was their husband or their boyfriend, they acted as if i was cheating on them while i was just a friend 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Agape93]

Im not, I don't get the concept.

[TonyMetal___1986]

You surely aren't witch 🧙🏻‍♀️ hehe

[jahaims]

Immature people are possessive and jealous

[TonyMetal___1986]

Sometimes it can be a mental illness...

[Iron_Man]

Oh they are for sure.

[TonyMetal___1986]

😄👍🏻

[choco-latte]

Yes, I am

[TonyMetal___1986]

The only girl who gave a 100% legit answer, thanks miss choco loco 😊

[Anonymous]

Most are, but many claim they are not.

[TonyMetal___1986]

You hit the nail, i guess that none of them will admit it or maybe they don't even feel that they are doing it 😄