Girls, have you ever met a man who truly met your standards?

Xper 5 Age: 36

As a man who meets the standards of many women.

Whatever your standards are, you have to understand that men have standards too.

The higher your standards for men, the less thede men are. And these men qualify for a lot of women. So competition is fierce. And these men also have high standards for women.

Greatness attracts greatness, slop attracts slop.

Basic standards for men are. In order of most importance. Sexual purity (virginity), femininity, fertility, youthfulness, curiosity.

We dont care at all about your income, your career, achievements, travels, independence or etc. In fact most of those things are a negative/red flag.

CaribbeanPrincess91

22 h
Why would you expect a grown women to be virgins? They are adults. Girls are more likely to be virgins.

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Bianca_Italy

22 h
Why do you think you meet the standards of many women?

It's not a loaded question, I'm genuinely curious.

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Mark_Est

14 h
@Carribean

Everything stems from that. A woman with morals and high self-respect will live her life accordingly and not devalue herself or chase some empty feelings or emotions. Women who are virgins for their husband understand that family values are important, not getting f'd by some randoms. And to instill same values onto their children, of respect and worth. Women who are virgins for their husband show devotion to their husband, their dedication that lasts decades. And it is also rooted in basic biology, mate selection and pair bonding etc. The health and outcome of the child, along with the values and stability.

A woman who isn't a virgin lacks all those mental traits/values. (Unless her husband died, and she is single again).

You thinking that being and adult is to be an std farmer just shows how messed up your mind is. You also think that kids should have sex. Nuts.

Normal women are virgins into their 20s. You aren't normal, you dont qualify.

This is not what men do, we aren't cucks.

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Mark_Est

14 h
@Bianca

I have gotten approached by more sober women than most women have been approached by men. About half the women in my climbing gyms, even by 3/5 female receptionists there, in gas stations, even have developed random spots on the street where i have gotten approached more than once, tinder test showed that many young women around 23 message me first and we hung out, etc etc. So feedback shows it must be something they like and perhaps i dont have a troll face.

I am also really fit, average height, stylish clothes, clean, also a chef, mechanic, engineer, welder, it tech by trade, decently smart, read a lot, speak 4 languages, play instruments, do extreme sports, ride motorcycles, fly a tiny plane, have traveled all of Europe, i am loyal, well off anf pay for the woman and the life, i have a house, i dont drink a drop, nor smoke or etc, i like animals and they like me, etc etc i also have a D that works and can find the clit.

So, most likely i do fit the standards of mant women.

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CaribbeanPrincess91

10 h
As a woman, this reply is unattractive

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Mark_Est

9 h
Dont care, you dont qualify/aren't even wanted. And it is clear that your position comes from butthurt.

You are to men what broke weak dudes are for women.

How much do you care that a weak bum finds your standards of a strong provider man unattractive?

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CaribbeanPrincess91

9 h
Lol, ok bud.

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Mark_Est

8 h
Funny video about women like you. And what what men think.

https://youtu.be/DJRRXURyWyM?is=a30ItX5s3xt9qLM4

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Bianca_Italy

5 h
@CaribbeanPrincess91 The reply in which he explains why he's attractive?

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CaribbeanPrincess91

5 h
@Bianca_Italy What do you mean?

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Bianca_Italy

4 h
@CaribbeanPrincess91 You said that you found his reply unattractive, were you talking about the reply in which he explains why he's attractive?

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CaribbeanPrincess91

4 h
@Bianca_Italy Yes, and his whole attitude towards me.

"You thinking that being and adult is to be an std farmer just shows how messed up your mind is. You also think that kids should have sex. Nuts." The way I never said any of that. Just making up stuff.

"Normal women are virgins into their 20s. You aren't normal, you don't qualify." He thinks that women who aren't virgins are sluts. The way he views women is disgusting. "Normal" women have sex with who they want.

Also, do you as a woman see the issue with his reply?

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Mark_Est

4 h
@Caribbean Nobody is stopping you to have sex with who you want. Your freedom. However it is a mans freedom not to pick such women as yourself.

Little pic for illustration. That is not men wife.

You are just butthurt about being disqualified for your own actions.

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Bianca_Italy

4 h
Of course I do.

I don't exactly promote the hookup culture and I'm actually disgusted by it, but he doesn't understand the nuances; unless a woman is a pure virgin, he thinks she's automatically a slut. Unreasonable.

And notice how he never talks about his inner qualities when he explains why he's attractive; he says he flies a plane, he says he speaks multiple languages, he says he has a house. Lol.

Yeah, cool stuff definitely, but what about inner qualities? Also, I'm a woman and I own 3 houses that I inherited from my dad, I'm not sure why I would be impressed by a man who has a house. 🤣

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CaribbeanPrincess91

4 h
As if I would ever audition for a man. Men come to me, women pick their partners in nature and in the human world. I have options, I have never been rejected, just not approached. You implying that I'm a slut is hilarious. I guess I'm a slut then, you don't know me, lol. Who's butthurt? not I. Just sick of SOME men wanting pure women while having had multiple bodies themselves.

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Mark_Est

4 h
I see you two have issues.

Lets look at it. What or who is a "slut", or what makes one.

It is rather simple. A woman who lets some random dude f her who isn't her husband.

That is it. Simple.

Now there are bigger and smaller ones. And you can argue among themselves who gets the awards.

Men dont expect a lot from women. While you expect us to be ready to die for you. The least you can do is not jump on some random D.

And there is no point in listing BS that anybody just makes up. By the things i am doing and have done, people can see that i am hardworking, dedicated etc etc..

And i built my house. Not get it like you.

That is the difference with men, we build our value. You have it given to you. But since you get it for free it is also really fragile and shortlived.

Life is nicely balanced.

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Bianca_Italy

3 h
@CaribbeanPrincess91 Do you agree that he has mental issues?

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Mark_Est

3 h
See, you have no accountability for your actions yet want to vote and be taken seriously. What a joke😅

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CaribbeanPrincess91

3 h
@Bianca_Italy I was thinking narcissism..

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CaribbeanPrincess91

3 h
Who are you talking to?

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Bianca_Italy

3 h
@Mark_Est What actions?

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Mark_Est

3 h
Definition:

Narcissism is a self-centered personality style or trait marked by an excessive preoccupation with oneself, one's own needs, and self-image, often at the expense of others.

Key Characteristics

Need for Admiration: A constant craving for praise, validation, and attention from others.(you constany post yourselves everywhere, even here you have profile face pics, and dress halfnaked outside), tons of makeup )

Lack of Empathy: Difficulty or inability to understand, recognize, or care about the feelings and needs of others. (You clearly dont care what men need in women)

Sense of Entitlement: A belief that one deserves special treatment or privileges without necessarily earning them. (You clearly want special treatment from men jusr cause you are a woman)

Sounds to me that is clearly you, and most western women in general😅

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Mark_Est

3 h
Accountability is the state of being responsible for your actions, decisions, and commitments, and being willing to explain, justify, and accept their consequences.

Your choice to be modern. Yet you expect traditional treatment or men.

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Bianca_Italy

3 h
Modern women, traditional women, traditional men...

what the heck are you talking about? Only ignorant and mentally ill men use such stupid labels.

I simply want a normal society in which women aren't slaves or possessions; that's not being modern, that's being normal and healthy.

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Mark_Est

2 h
So normal and healthy is to be ftoys for fboys? Rack up stds. And to kill your own children by the millions. 73million every year, that is one every half a second.

And somehow men should want to marry into that?

Again, do what you want.

Yet you think that you doing what you want obligates men into wanting you, or women who do what they want.

Ultimately it is up to men to pick a wife. No matter how much you kick or scream you won't get picked by a traditional man.

Traditional is traditional values, loyalty, respect, honour, protection, providing, chivarly etc etc. Something all women want.

Modern is modern values, which are mostly just based on selfishness.

Traditional relationship is marriage. Modern relationships are hookups, flings, onenighters, etc etc.

Not really rocket science.

And again, you are butthurt just cause you have disqualified yourself from men.

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Mark_Est

2 h
Currently on reddit. Look how modern women act and then expect a good man at the end. What a joke😅

Original Post (u/hejsajeghedder):

"Where do single men (30+) go out in Copenhagen?
We are two single women, both 33, who would like to meet some nice single men in their early 30s (+-) this Friday. We don't go out much, but we want to know where to find you? What bars do you like in Copenhagen?"

Comment (u/vindogvejr):

"It really depends on what clientele you want to meet. Right now, as a bartender, I can tell you that women in their 30s and up are desired by young guys, so be prepared for a lot of 18/19/20-year-olds wanting to come home.

Recommendations: Old Irish karaoke (I believe there's an age limit so you won't meet really young ones there) - Sams (same concept), The Drunken Flamingo, LA Bar, Hovsa, Heidis.

Something that can't be recommended - Museo, Søpavillonen (chlamydia party), Tyrolia, Proud Mary."

OP's Reply (u/hejsajeghedder):

"Thanks for the reply!

My friend wants to find a place where she can meet her 'future husband.' So I think we will elegantly skip the spots that are popular with 18-year-olds. Maybe if the 'future husband' plan falls through, we can use that as a Plan B."

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Mark_Est

2 h
can't wait to be the future future husband. What a joke😅😅

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What Girls & Guys Said

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Mark_Est Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 31%

22 h

As a man who meets the standards of many women.

Whatever your standards are, you have to understand that men have standards too.

The higher your standards for men, the less thede men are. And these men qualify for a lot of women. So competition is fierce. And these men also have high standards for women.

Greatness attracts greatness, slop attracts slop.

Basic standards for men are. In order of most importance. Sexual purity (virginity), femininity, fertility, youthfulness, curiosity.

We dont care at all about your income, your career, achievements, travels, independence or etc. In fact most of those things are a negative/red flag.

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27 Reply
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  22 h
  Why would you expect a grown women to be virgins? They are adults. Girls are more likely to be virgins.
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  22 h
  Why do you think you meet the standards of many women?
  
  It's not a loaded question, I'm genuinely curious.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  14 h
  @Carribean
  
  Everything stems from that. A woman with morals and high self-respect will live her life accordingly and not devalue herself or chase some empty feelings or emotions. Women who are virgins for their husband understand that family values are important, not getting f'd by some randoms. And to instill same values onto their children, of respect and worth. Women who are virgins for their husband show devotion to their husband, their dedication that lasts decades. And it is also rooted in basic biology, mate selection and pair bonding etc. The health and outcome of the child, along with the values and stability.
  
  A woman who isn't a virgin lacks all those mental traits/values. (Unless her husband died, and she is single again).
  
  You thinking that being and adult is to be an std farmer just shows how messed up your mind is. You also think that kids should have sex. Nuts.
  
  Normal women are virgins into their 20s. You aren't normal, you dont qualify.
  
  This is not what men do, we aren't cucks.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  14 h
  @Bianca
  
  I have gotten approached by more sober women than most women have been approached by men. About half the women in my climbing gyms, even by 3/5 female receptionists there, in gas stations, even have developed random spots on the street where i have gotten approached more than once, tinder test showed that many young women around 23 message me first and we hung out, etc etc. So feedback shows it must be something they like and perhaps i dont have a troll face.
  
  I am also really fit, average height, stylish clothes, clean, also a chef, mechanic, engineer, welder, it tech by trade, decently smart, read a lot, speak 4 languages, play instruments, do extreme sports, ride motorcycles, fly a tiny plane, have traveled all of Europe, i am loyal, well off anf pay for the woman and the life, i have a house, i dont drink a drop, nor smoke or etc, i like animals and they like me, etc etc i also have a D that works and can find the clit.
  
  So, most likely i do fit the standards of mant women.
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  10 h
  As a woman, this reply is unattractive
  
- Mark_Est
  
  9 h
  Dont care, you dont qualify/aren't even wanted. And it is clear that your position comes from butthurt.
  
  You are to men what broke weak dudes are for women.
  
  How much do you care that a weak bum finds your standards of a strong provider man unattractive?
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  9 h
  Lol, ok bud.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  8 h
  Funny video about women like you. And what what men think.
  
  https://youtu.be/DJRRXURyWyM?is=a30ItX5s3xt9qLM4
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  5 h
  @CaribbeanPrincess91 The reply in which he explains why he's attractive?
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  5 h
  @Bianca_Italy What do you mean?
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  4 h
  @CaribbeanPrincess91 You said that you found his reply unattractive, were you talking about the reply in which he explains why he's attractive?
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  4 h
  @Bianca_Italy Yes, and his whole attitude towards me.
  
  "You thinking that being and adult is to be an std farmer just shows how messed up your mind is. You also think that kids should have sex. Nuts." The way I never said any of that. Just making up stuff.
  
  "Normal women are virgins into their 20s. You aren't normal, you don't qualify." He thinks that women who aren't virgins are sluts. The way he views women is disgusting. "Normal" women have sex with who they want.
  
  Also, do you as a woman see the issue with his reply?
  
- Mark_Est
  
  4 h
  @Caribbean Nobody is stopping you to have sex with who you want. Your freedom. However it is a mans freedom not to pick such women as yourself.
  
  Little pic for illustration. That is not men wife.
  
  You are just butthurt about being disqualified for your own actions.
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  4 h
  Of course I do.
  
  I don't exactly promote the hookup culture and I'm actually disgusted by it, but he doesn't understand the nuances; unless a woman is a pure virgin, he thinks she's automatically a slut. Unreasonable.
  
  And notice how he never talks about his inner qualities when he explains why he's attractive; he says he flies a plane, he says he speaks multiple languages, he says he has a house. Lol.
  
  Yeah, cool stuff definitely, but what about inner qualities? Also, I'm a woman and I own 3 houses that I inherited from my dad, I'm not sure why I would be impressed by a man who has a house. 🤣
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  4 h
  As if I would ever audition for a man. Men come to me, women pick their partners in nature and in the human world. I have options, I have never been rejected, just not approached. You implying that I'm a slut is hilarious. I guess I'm a slut then, you don't know me, lol. Who's butthurt? not I. Just sick of SOME men wanting pure women while having had multiple bodies themselves.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  4 h
  I see you two have issues.
  
  Lets look at it. What or who is a "slut", or what makes one.
  
  It is rather simple. A woman who lets some random dude f her who isn't her husband.
  
  That is it. Simple.
  
  Now there are bigger and smaller ones. And you can argue among themselves who gets the awards.
  
  Men dont expect a lot from women. While you expect us to be ready to die for you. The least you can do is not jump on some random D.
  
  And there is no point in listing BS that anybody just makes up. By the things i am doing and have done, people can see that i am hardworking, dedicated etc etc..
  
  And i built my house. Not get it like you.
  
  That is the difference with men, we build our value. You have it given to you. But since you get it for free it is also really fragile and shortlived.
  
  Life is nicely balanced.
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  3 h
  @CaribbeanPrincess91 Do you agree that he has mental issues?
  
- Mark_Est
  
  3 h
  See, you have no accountability for your actions yet want to vote and be taken seriously. What a joke😅
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  3 h
  @Bianca_Italy I was thinking narcissism..
  
- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  3 h
  Who are you talking to?
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  3 h
  @Mark_Est What actions?
  
- Mark_Est
  
  3 h
  Definition:
  
  Narcissism is a self-centered personality style or trait marked by an excessive preoccupation with oneself, one's own needs, and self-image, often at the expense of others.
  
  Key Characteristics
  
  Need for Admiration: A constant craving for praise, validation, and attention from others.(you constany post yourselves everywhere, even here you have profile face pics, and dress halfnaked outside), tons of makeup )
  
  Lack of Empathy: Difficulty or inability to understand, recognize, or care about the feelings and needs of others. (You clearly dont care what men need in women)
  
  Sense of Entitlement: A belief that one deserves special treatment or privileges without necessarily earning them. (You clearly want special treatment from men jusr cause you are a woman)
  
  Sounds to me that is clearly you, and most western women in general😅
  
- Mark_Est
  
  3 h
  Accountability is the state of being responsible for your actions, decisions, and commitments, and being willing to explain, justify, and accept their consequences.
  
  Your choice to be modern. Yet you expect traditional treatment or men.
  
- Bianca_Italy
  
  3 h
  Modern women, traditional women, traditional men...
  
  what the heck are you talking about? Only ignorant and mentally ill men use such stupid labels.
  
  I simply want a normal society in which women aren't slaves or possessions; that's not being modern, that's being normal and healthy.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  2 h
  So normal and healthy is to be ftoys for fboys? Rack up stds. And to kill your own children by the millions. 73million every year, that is one every half a second.
  
  And somehow men should want to marry into that?
  
  Again, do what you want.
  
  Yet you think that you doing what you want obligates men into wanting you, or women who do what they want.
  
  Ultimately it is up to men to pick a wife. No matter how much you kick or scream you won't get picked by a traditional man.
  
  Traditional is traditional values, loyalty, respect, honour, protection, providing, chivarly etc etc. Something all women want.
  
  Modern is modern values, which are mostly just based on selfishness.
  
  Traditional relationship is marriage. Modern relationships are hookups, flings, onenighters, etc etc.
  
  Not really rocket science.
  
  And again, you are butthurt just cause you have disqualified yourself from men.
  
- Mark_Est
  
  2 h
  Currently on reddit. Look how modern women act and then expect a good man at the end. What a joke😅
  
  Original Post (u/hejsajeghedder):
  
  "Where do single men (30+) go out in Copenhagen?
  We are two single women, both 33, who would like to meet some nice single men in their early 30s (+-) this Friday. We don't go out much, but we want to know where to find you? What bars do you like in Copenhagen?"
  
  Comment (u/vindogvejr):
  
  "It really depends on what clientele you want to meet. Right now, as a bartender, I can tell you that women in their 30s and up are desired by young guys, so be prepared for a lot of 18/19/20-year-olds wanting to come home.
  
  Recommendations: Old Irish karaoke (I believe there's an age limit so you won't meet really young ones there) - Sams (same concept), The Drunken Flamingo, LA Bar, Hovsa, Heidis.
  
  Something that can't be recommended - Museo, Søpavillonen (chlamydia party), Tyrolia, Proud Mary."
  
  OP's Reply (u/hejsajeghedder):
  
  "Thanks for the reply!
  
  My friend wants to find a place where she can meet her 'future husband.' So I think we will elegantly skip the spots that are popular with 18-year-olds. Maybe if the 'future husband' plan falls through, we can use that as a Plan B."
  
- Mark_Est
  
  2 h
  can't wait to be the future future husband. What a joke😅😅
  
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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 33%

20 h
2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

I've never a met a girl who presented me with a list of standards to meet...

but I've read quite a few on this site... and about 80% of that list is just the basic human decency that should be there by default and not as a "high standard to meet" lol

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ElenaLena Follow
Xper 6 Age: 31 , mho 47%

21 h

I don’t have specific standards because this makes things difficult.. but I have certain things like for example he’s not bisexual 😄

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MrChinaski Follow
Guru Age: 46

13 h

What are your standards? Now I'm curious whether I meet them...

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- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  9 h
  Why do you want to meet my standards? Lol.
  
- MrChinaski
  
  2 h
  Definitely!!
  
Nikki1989 Follow
Mentor Age: 37 , mho 32%

13 h
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Honestly, there was only one, and I married him in 2010. Quality men are rare.

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Abbycado Follow
Master Age: 21 , mho 40%

22 h
1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yeah, it I wouldn’t be dating him.

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Agape93 Follow
Master Age: 34

20 h
2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yeap

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LazerBean Follow
Master Age: 26 , mho 41%

18 h
847 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yes, my husband

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CarolineWhizz Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36 , mho 36%

21 h

Yes -

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Paige2006 Follow
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7 h

Yes I have

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Anonymous
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Have u?

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- CaribbeanPrincess91
  
  16 h
  No, but I've also never dated.

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