Have you ever denied having feelings for someone?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever made yourself not have feelings for someone you are attracted to? If so how do you do it? How could you communicate with someone on a daily basis and not want to tell them how you feel? Is living a lonely life worth possibly not getting hurt again?

[Anonymous]

I think this is something men are much more practiced at ,but in the end they end up with much more regrets than women do.

Almost every girl I've ever known has let it known how she felt about a guy simply because we're much more emotional and in touch with our emotions.

guys seem to feel safer if they can learn to reign in their emotions and conquer them it almost seems make them feel more powerful and strong but time builds regrets as they realize "wtf was I doing that really served no purpose but to hurt myself"

[pj411985]

Denying myself means lying to myself. I deserve better, expect better from myself for myself. If I feel for someone, I may usu don't recognize it at first, my rule is never denying the truth. But if it's forbidden love, I made myself a list why I SHOULD not fall for him. Not worth getting myself hurt, at least That's what I do trying to convince myself that I'll meet someone else new to love and he truly loves me back.

[Anonymous]

yeah few times,because I hate rejection so I rather not knowing the truth.Living lonely is much better than being with an jackass but if you found the right guy there is nothing wrong to give him a chance.

[iNeedYourAdvice]

In a way yes. Not telling them was the most painful thing I've ever done. I would constantly tell myself, "she's too good for you" or "you don't deserve someone that perfect". In answer to the last question, no it is worth every chance you get to tell someone you love them. Because you won't know otherwise unless you try.

[stevo2]

Yep. Denied how I felt /bc I didn't care for her to know at the time. I was younger, and this was some time ago. Doesn't matter now as she's married and I haven't seen her in quite some time. Still a regret, though.

[Jager66]

its easy to do once you get a little practice.

[Olya363]

everyone.. lol