My boyfriend stares at me way to much I get nervous cause he just sits there and looks. What does that means?

[labeba]

I could be in the couch watching TV and I feel like he's staring at me and when I look at him he just looks into my eyes and it looks like he's day dreamimg I ask him why are you stairing at me so much and he says what I can't look at you and smile, it kind of creeps me out sometimes but what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

I've done that to my boyfriend a couple of times and he had the same reaction as you.

sometimes he just said ''why are you staring at me? Gosh! *nervous laugh* Stop it. you seem like a psycho!'' and I always do it even more when he starts to complain :P

It's like trying to know every single detail of his body, of his movements. admiring the awesome people I have in front of me... it's difficult to explain. Love is difficult to explain :)

[labeba]

Awwww :-) you I am right now here with him and I am asking him is he admiring my beauty and he's and says it none of my business.. lmfao

[SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ]

What kind of feeling do you get when he stares at you?

He probably stares at you for being attractive

But if it creeps you out, tell him. He won't know/stop otherwise.

[labeba]

I feel good at times but then again wen I ask him and he tells me not to worry it kind of scares me. I have never had anyone stare at me, I tell him sometimes that he scares me but he doesn't listen he just smile and tells me it shouldn't bother me at all.

[labeba]

Thank you sweetie :-)

[SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ]

You have never. had anyone. stare at you. before?

That's a lie. Maybe you just don't notice when someone is staring or checking you out.

He's just checking you out... Checking out your beauty and probs how lucky he is to have someone like you as a girlfriend lolz

[labeba]

Never seen anyone stare at me :-) I guys I don't pay attention to anyone else it's like I feel him staring at me I don't know if that's normal. But every time I am either watching TV or in the kitchen I feel him staring and when I look at him my feeling was right. Little by little I am getting use to it :-).

[labeba]

I meant I guess*** not I guys lol sorry I just woke up

[SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ]

He is probs just mesmerised by your beauty

[Anonymous]

it means he's admiring you and he likes the way you look

[labeba]

Thank you sweetie :-)

[Anonymous]

I did that with the only girl I was completely in love with. I could just stare at her and I would feel sheer happiness inside, it always brought the biggest smile on my face and lots of kindness toward her. When she was catching my eyes we would smile to each other. I think these instants of complicity were pure love.

Now, to be honest, if she was reacting like you do I would have been very crept out.

[labeba]

why would you? We all see things differently I have never had anyone stare at me like that and he know he and I sit and talk there's just surtain thing he doesn't tell me. if I knew the reason why he looks at me like that then I would of been OK with him staring at me. I have been in two other serious relationship were they didn't work out but I have never had a person stare at me that way. But thank you for your opioion

:-)

[Opinion Owner]

well, the fact you assume something is wrong is not good. When you love someone you see what they do with pink glasses so I'm wondering how much you love him, that's all.

[labeba]

I love him a lot its just we have been through a lot and and found out things I wish I never wanted to know, so I could actually say I love him with all of my heart cause I am still with him if I didn't love him I wouldn'y have been here for him or beside him. Its a lot more to it to sweetie

[labeba]

It's a lot to it I found out things I wish wasn't true and that's why I also think that way. I love him with all of my heart he is the only and only man I would do anything for he is my other half never felt like this for anyone. If I didn't love or care for him I would of left but my heart tells me to stay that maybe he'll stop what I found out, I know he cares for me and that he knows I am here but when he looks at me like that sometimes makes me wanna know what he's thinking about and it

[labeba]

scares me not like oh he's gonna murder me or anything out of this world, but it does make me think like he is doing something behind my back.

[Opinion Owner]

Can't help but think your head and heart are not quite at the same place and that you sound conflicted. And I don't like how you make it sounds that's his fault. He's doing something nice, you turn that into quite a negative thing and now you justify that behavior by saying it's also his fault because of "things" you found out. I've been in my share of relationships, and seen many others. Let me tell you all you say about yours doesn't sound very healthy...sorry

[Dylan1989]

He's probably just admiring your beauty and feels lucky that he's got a girl like you. And he probably enjoys your company and personality too. I guess it's safe to say he's in love with you and is just caught up in his happiness, hence the daydreaming. Nothing to be creeped out about.

And this is totally of topic but you don't look 30-35. You look younger, Just saying...

[labeba]

Thanky you yeah I hear that a lot :-). Thank you for help I mean it doesn't creep me out badly but it does a little :-)

[Dylan1989]

don't be! it's a sign of admiration. or a sign of ''look at who my girlfriend is!''

[labeba]

Thank you very much :-)

[Dylan1989]

Thank YOU for best answer :)

[MOZZY10]

If you show him it doesn't affect you he'll see it useless and eventually stop.

He obviously feels insecure himself to do this to an angel like yourself, so use this to your advantage . . .

[labeba]

thank you

[Ruiner]

Same reason I can't stop looking at the current girl I'm dating; she's the most beautiful person or thing I've ever seen.

[labeba]

Thank you Ruiner :-)

[Dharndy]

He's probably in love with you or just thinks your very attractive

[hungergames22]

I agree. Though, if it makes you feel uncomfortable... are you sure you like him?

[labeba]

Thank you but the in love part I know it's not that lol cause he always tells me he loves but he's not in love with me.

[labeba]

I love him a lot I just never had anyone look at me the way he does.

[Anonymous]

oh, nothing to get nervous about. He's just planning your death and wondering how he can hide the body properly.

Nah, he just loves you and he's thinking: I'm the luckiest guy ever.

[labeba]

Lol you got me a little nervous there :-) jk. But thank you I hope that's true :-) cause I'm not in ugly women lol

[Opinion Owner]

I agree!

[labeba]

Aww thanks :-) I feel gorgeous now :-)

[Anonymous]

you really shouldn't let it bother you. He's just admiring your beauty.

[labeba]

Thank you :-)