Do girls like introverted guys?

[jebkciv]

I am an introverted guy in college (18yrs old atm) and love to work out, study, watch movies with deep meanings. I'm so quiet that when I was a kid, my parents would yell at me for not making noise lol. Sometimes my close friends tell me that I am stuck in my own world, . In fact, I only talk to my friends openly, and only those of my friends that I deem as good people. When I am in the gym, working out/running, I kind of slip off into my own world, but I do notice quite a fair number o girls glancing at me/staring at me from afar. I don't know if that's just coincidence but...I have noticed many girls get on to the elliptical next to me, even if there are empty ellipticals that are elsewhere. I'm pretty sure I'm imaging this but... I guess that's the whole point of my question.

[htownkboxer]

just say hello, start small and work your way up

the gym is an interesting beast. girls say they don't want to be picked up all hot and sweaty but they'll drop that rule when they see a guy they like. they also never mind a little after workout romp (of course that's if you're dating them, don't get your hopes up yet)

i would say if what you're noticing is real, then it's the rule of proximity...they're getting close to you to hint. Green light...say hello. say hello the next day. say hello the day after. then one day amp it up and mention that hello is lame unless there's a name or a history. but again, because of their rule this will be a baby step (I've asked girls what they think about certain classes at gyms...kinda works but have a follow up)

HOWEVER, if this isn't the case and your inflating yourself, don't force anything if they don't say hello back. just leave'em be and get back to the stress relief of a good workout.

college is a plus because you can always talk about school. not what she does but what she plans to do with it. if there's ONE thing I've learned about girls it's that they start planning well in advance to guys so there's usually a detailed plan to their route. don't forget to smile uncreepily...scoping in gyms is somehow 'creepy' altho girls do it ALL the time

[jebkciv]

its usually different girls nect to me, though I have noticed this one hot blond girl looking at me from afar like twice

[htownkboxer]

maybe you have a mole on your face ha ha nah

experiment. I know it's hard for introverts, but that's more of a reason to take small steps. don't take on more than your brain can handle. let it get familiar with something and then up the ante. plus, as girls get older they suffer more bouts of heartbreak. this causes them to take lighter steps when dating...so usually they're on your level (altho this just means in college, they're still leaping buildings...crazy good time to be a guy!)

[Karass]

There is a type for everyone just get on with it you will someone who will be into you and someone you will be into. I was also very quiet and in deep thought I use to go sit in the tall grass and think about everything. I've found the main type of girl that have shown interest are the girls who are a bit more down to earth.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

I love introverted / quieter guys. Someone to be able to talk to and share another in depth perception would be quite enjoyable.

I'm introverted / extroverted interchangeably - I get caught up in my own thoughts ( little world,) too sometimes, ha ha and my friends say the same thing :P I actually get legit irritated when anyone interrupts me once I put my head phones in - because I get so caught up in the music and thoughts it represents for me :P

So yea - introversion is attractive - but not too introverted to where your like cutting everything else off for the sake of it -

[Skyler123]

No I would not date an introverted guy. Why? Because I'm an introvert myself! SOMEBODY has to be the life of the party. And it certainly isn't me! My boyfriend is a raging extrovert and loves attention I need that kind of person in my life because he's like the exact opposite of me in that respect. So we balance each other out. You sound like a very nice, kind handsome (based off of how much attention you said you get from the girls) guy. Plenty of talkative girls would definitely like to date you. They're the ones that needs the listening type the most. lol

[danaagirl]

YES! For me, yes. Because I like talking :) And I think quiet guys are a great companion especially in listening? Hehe :)

[Bluegameroyon]

go get a girl dude. I know it's easier said then done but try it out!

the way you typed out your question made me think that a lot of girls are interested in you. they probably even like you.

i wish I had a girl watching me like that. sigh.

you're lucky.

[jebkciv]

hahaha I'm not sure if its just coincidence though, really hard to tell

[Anonymous]

yeah, because some of them (if not the most) are much smarter then those extroverted and out going guys we see all around.

[Moloch]

Yeah they do, as long as you're confident and introverted, not shy and introverted.

[doctorwhofan23]

I am suprised the girls have said yes, in my experience girls don't like introverts.

[MikeK]

Most don't, I would think - guy has to do everything.

[YouMakeMeBitter]

I prefer them, honestly.

[ForeverYours39]

No...

& you seem a little full of yourself to me