Why do girls like introverted guys?

Question

I'm an introverted guy... I thought that would make me invisible to most people ( it's actually what most introverts want lol ).. especially girls , since most people think a man should be extroverted and stuff... but the thing is... it seems like girls are really into me... I literally do nothing and they're the ones who make the first move.. approaching , asking me out and flirting all the time... I just got curious about what makes me... an introverted lone wolf type of guy who avoids attention almost all the time lol... so attractive to them... I thought about it , kinda discussed it with a female friend... and I think I came up with a few reasons why girls like introverted guys... correct me if I'm wrong lol :

1- introverted guys are mysterious and that's kinda hot..

2- they don't simp lol

3- they're not always looking / asking for attention and validation and that exudes confidence.. plus it's pretty masculine

4- they often turn up to be passionate and intelligent once you get to know them..

5- they know how to make a girl feel special because they really appreciate the people in their close circle..

6- shy / quiet people tend to be secretly freaky, that's just a fact xD

7- they're less likely to be annoying and push or cross your boundaries , and girls really... really appreciate that from my experience...

Okay that's it... so , what do you think? and oh almost forgot , I'm a handsome dude... And I'm gonna be honest, it really helps with the whole thing... if you're introverted and pretty average looking... most likely you will do become invisible lol...

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

First off, it depends on the girl and what type of guy she's attracted to.

I'm an introvert, so obviously I'm going to prefer a fellow introvert over a loud, extroverted guy that takes me out of my comfort zone too much.

As for your list:

introverted guys are mysterious and that's kinda hot: No, not always, lol. Introverts just prefer to be left alone or only let the "right people" in their their lives- hence why they're seen as "mysterious." Doesn't really phase me to be honest. Either I want to get to know you, or I don't.
they don't simp lol: yeah, they can, lol (by the way, I hate that term). Any guy can be a "simp"
they're not always looking / asking for attention and validation and that exudes confidence.. plus it's pretty masculine: that's because they're introverted? Typically introverts don't go actively seeking validation and attention. They tend to do so in other ways
they often turn up to be passionate and intelligent once you get to know them..: okay, that's true! Once an introvert opens up about their hobbies and interests, it's quite amusing and attractive (at least to me!) to see what he's passionate about.
they know how to make a girl feel special because they really appreciate the people in their close circle: true! but that technically goes for anyone an introvert lets into their life. We tend to be persnickety about whom we trust and befriend.
shy / quiet people tend to be secretly freaky, that's just a fact xD: I can neither confirm nor deny that, LOL
they're less likely to be annoying and push or cross your boundaries , and girls really... really appreciate that from my experience: this is true! It does happen, but rarely. Most introverts are passive (unless you really push them), so they're more willing to go with the flow to keep everyone, including their partners, happy, than cause drama.

Anonymous · Answer

They don't really like them, they only like introverted men if they are handsome, the reason is that they see introverted men as easy prey to manipulate as they please.

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