If you hurt a girl how long should you let her cool off before she loses interest in you?

[Anonymous]

I hurt a girls feelings, we still talk but she's more cold to me. I let her cool off a bit and its getting better but not where I want it to be. How can I get her interested again and how long to let things cool off so she won't lose what ever interest she had in me? P.S. were not dating just talking.

[vmw2008]

Have you apologized and done something to make it up to her? or have you just backed off so she can cool down?

I can't speak for all girls, but I hate when a guy does something wrong and then just backs off and does nothing to make up for it. It makes me feel like he doesn't want to take the time or work to make it better, and that he's trying to avoid any negative consequences for it. Like he'd rather just back off a little so I can get over it on my own.

[HidingMyHeart]

this.

[Asker]

I mean I brought it up and she said shell get over it I never said I'm sorry. She won't give me the time to tell her. And she said she's over with it anyway why should I say sorry again?

[vmw2008]

When you mess up, it's your job to push an apology if you want to keep seeing her. If you're not willing to do that then nothing will probably get fixed between you two.

[Jay30]

I tried to apologize and she said she didn't want to hear it she said I lost her trust I even wrote her a letter apologizing for what I did to her and her mom and delivered her favorite flowers and still nothing