I confess I like her but she replied "idk"... what does that suppose to mean? Yes or No?

[shycat]

met a girl, become friends, go out together sometimes and I like her... when I confess I like her she say "idk"... what does that supposed to mean? yes or no?

i don't like unclear answer, I prefer straight forward answer... should I asked her again and demand yes no answer... I don;t like to be confused... what do you guys know about this? what does it mean by "idk" and should I asked her again?

Updates

+1 y

And why on earth she still trying to get my attention and not avoiding me. she even plan a go out picnic with me.

[elliesaur]

Well she said she doesn't know, which can either mean she's not sure yet how she feels about you because it's too early to tell/ she might be into someone else/ whatever other reason or she doesn't like you but didn't know how to tell you.

Next time you go out observe a little: if she's being more distant and avoiding touching you/looking at you she probably doesn't like you that way but if you see no change, maybe she just needs some time to make up her mind about you. Good luck (:

[shycat]

i did observe her awhile. she seems like trying to get my attention for eg. like trying to start conversasion with me, stumbled across me, mimic my actions, delay time so that we can spent more time together. by the way we've known each other for the past 6 month.

[elliesaur]

Well since she already knows how you feel, back away a little and try to not come off as clingy ( trust me it happens even if you're not doing it, because once girls know you like them, they over analyse everything you do ha ha ) play it cool and let her make the next move. If she doesn't and you get friendzoned, at least you've done your best, brave solider!

[shycat]

Thank you. I think I'll stay observent for awhile and see how it goes...

[anony84]

I don't know means no. If she was interested, she would have said yes.

Re your update, perhaps it is just your imagination that she is trying to get your attention. Just because she turned you down doesn't mean she will automatically avoid you - some women are mature enough to not want to lose a friendship completely. That's probably why she's going on a picnic with you - as friends or to be polite.

[shycat]

Makes sense. I'll observe a while and see how it goes... probably just go for the picnic and ask her for the last time.

[rudy37lee]

I don't know means no, but I don't want to make this awkward or hurt you by saying no.

[Cryostatic]

If she said "idk", that's an acronym for "I don't know".

In a situation like this it means "I need more time to figure out how to turn you down nicely".

[Cryostatic]

It also means "Hopefully, you'll take the damn hint and not make this any more uncomfortable for me than it already is".

[Matrim]

Means "no but I don't want to say no because that's really awkward so idk"

[CestLolaVie]

I don't know means no. This is a rule in life, when people don't know it generally is a negative answer.

[dracr]

idk means I don't know.