Why do women think every guy wants them?

[michael32]

Don't women know that not every guy is gonna like them even if they're hot

[Phoenix1991]

Its all ego , same thing with guys who act like hot sh*t in the locker room. I know what I'm capable of in the dating world, but you will never hear me say I can get any girl in the world or in this city/town/state,etc.

Everyone has different opinions, in society how socializing goes, women don't really have to do anything in the dating world except say yes or no. There is a song called "Women are the new dogs" which is accurate, and he goes on to say in the song "90 percent of this is the dudes fault" which is true.

Men have too much low standards, we turn on our animal like instincts when a girl gives us a look, we become like a dog begging for a treat. We as men need to take back our pride from off the ground and back on our chest where it belongs and watch that little issue with women who think they are perfect go away like a bad case of crabs.

[michael32]

That is the truth

[ToyStory]

Fascinating question. 5 stars my good man! lol

[ToyStory]

Thanks for best answer. never got one b4. lol

[michael32]

No problem

[lolli]

Funny how the BA didn't even answer the question.

[ToyStory]

i did. I said it was fascinating. lol

[cun7n1nja]

Lol what? I've never had the illusion that every guy wants me. In fact, I know I'm not most guys' cup of tea. Few men show interest in me, compared to how I see other peoples' interactions go. I'm not a girl that the majority of men would hit on or be into. I mean I've been with guys and have a boyfriend, but I get very little male attention on average, unlike most of my other female friends. I know not ever guy wants me, that's stupid. And I'm fine with it, I have a guy that I'm happy with now so it doesn't even matter.

[ToyStory]

exactly. same here. it don't matter bcoz not every1 was meant to be same you know!?

[cun7n1nja]

I agree completely.

[rachel05]

haha umm I sure don't.. ya sometimes I might feel great about myself ,... and other times feel awful about how I look due to getting sad about something and questioning myself and doubting myself.. but I try to keep optimistic.. definitely don't think every guy can be into me.. everyone has their own likes and dislikes.. not all men are gonna be into me haha.. so far not many are even into me like that anyway.. so ya.. we don't think that way.

[Whatdoithink]

the ones that do that(myself included sometimes) need to get over themselves. Because there is 475937589347524385098340548 people in this world and thinking everyone wants you is wasting time because everyone in fact DOES NOT want you.

[AnathemA381]

It's pretty simple: An ugly girl can act like a total slut towards an insecure, average looking guy... And the insecure guy (who is in most cases a virgin) will be with her, just 'cause she's a slut. This doesn't apply always, but in most cases.

I've seen it hundreds of times. Women use sex to have guys who are way out of their league, so they think that they're hot.

[Sersha]

haha you may have a point there! its funny cause the girls you just described that were in my school all have babies now.

[AnathemA381]

It's definitely true... It happened to me once, but I got out of it before getting into anything serious... :)

[michael32]

Your answer is the absolute truth

[myspacemybroke]

Yeah, it kind of seems that way eh? I've seen a few questions on here that were basically "I'm attractive, so why isn't every male I come into contact with tripping over his own tongue to serve me?"

[mimiperson]

But then there are those of us who look in the mirror and are like "Why the f*** would anyone want to hit on me?" Then when they go outside, they get hit on. I don't find myself very attractive, but guys keep grabbing at me and asking me out so I guess I can't be totally hidious can I? And I do appreciate those few who don't try to shove their hand down my pants.

[myspacemybroke]

Yeah, well I suppose it's just women who get used to that or see it happening to other people so they think it should happen to them 24/7 as well.

[Alanaaa]

It's probably like a sex thing. I don't know. Most guys have low standards for sex.

[Alanaaa]

I'm surpised anybody knew what I was talking about LOL.

[Dakotagirl900]

okay there is no way that I have ever thought this.. Not all women think this way, if anything we worry if guys don't like us at all at times.. I think you are surrounded by shallow women, pick better female friends..

[Kain6th]

I think you and your friends should live near me then. ;-P

[Dakotagirl900]

haha nahh we're good

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure, and I enjoy telling woman who think I'm attracted to them, that I'm not (when I'm not).

It's like watching a balloon deflate.

Some people are just really insecure

[mimiperson]

Lmao I would be relieved if a guy did that to me. I wish it would happen more often.

[Opinion Owner]

As a side note: I only do this when they think EVERY GUY thinks they're hot. I would never & haven't done this to a girl who is more humble then that. That's just uncalled for.

[lananoel]

LMFAO! Because girls think that all guys like one type of chic. Too stuck up and stupid to notice they aren't the center of the universe

[Anonymous]

i think you're just surrounded by shallow egotistical young girls.

go somewhere else to socialise.

[Anonymous]

Hell yeah. Not everyone likes me. And nyone who doesn't like me, can go suck it. I don't care lol. But I do believe a lot of guys have crushes on me. It's more a fear than a ego-thing though lol.

[michael32]

You sound really stuck up

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao that's fine. You don't have to like me. I don't need approval from others. To be honest, it's nice to not have a guy all over me lol. I don't think I'm supremely attractive. In fact, I think I'm physically below average on the attractive scale. But guys don't seem to think so. What would you think if almost every guy you knew kept grabbing at you or asking you out or flirting with you? It's not my perception of myself, it's how others' view me that has brought me to this conclusion.

[michael32]

I'm not a girl so I wouldn't know what's it like

[Opinion Owner]

Well imagine if every girl you ever came into contact with wanted to sleep with you or date you or marry you. You can't be so ugly can you? Or maybe you have an awesome personality. Obviously you're doing something right, right? Not that every guy has chased me lol. But it can feel like that sometimes. And that's not a good thing when you don't want to date or have sex.

[michael32]

I wish at least one woman would hit on me during the day but I get squat Smh

[Opinion Owner]

We should trade places.

[DocClassic]

"I don't need approval from others" was the only statement I had an issue with. it really doesn't matter if you think you're the sh*t or not, but the fact of the matter is that it DOES matter that others approve of you. I mean if you KNOW you don't have sex with dead people, but everyone else THINKS you do, its probably gunna be a rough life

[michael32]

Yeah we should but I want to stay a man lol

[Opinion Owner]

@DocClassic: Let me rephrase myself. I mean I already got friends, so I don't need more. Enough people like me for who I am. I'm fine with who I am. And if everyone thought I was having sex with dead people, that's fine with me. I don't need approval from other people anymore because I am confident with myself and my abilities.

@QA That means I gotta grow a penis. I'll get right on that.

[michael32]

Lol no you stay a female and I'll stay a male when we trade places

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds good to me. Sorry for sounding superior before by the way. I didn't mean insult you somehow.

[DocClassic]

i get what you're saying and I'm sure some people like your "dont give a f*** about no one" attitude, and I have plenty of friends too but I still don't want people thinking of me as that guy who f***s dead people haha

[Opinion Owner]

Oh. Well you see, if anyone was f***ing dead people, it probably WOULD be me lol. I'm pretty morbid and dark but no one realizes it because I am so hyper and smiley. I don't really believe in following social norms, although I do follow the law.