I agree with most answers here...but also some people are just genuine and they just naturallyhave the energy and wanting to be so outgoing , and be good listeners and show true concern...you can't be fake...i think to be ccharismatic you gotta love respect and be confident with yourself ...you gotta be genuine in being that kind of person...you gotta have that character that inspires... but someone who is charistmatic is a CONFIDENT person who move intelligent yet carefree , someone who knows what to say when and how to say it and how to move in situations, you gotta be open minded and not judgmental cause how will most people think you are charismatic? ...their are so many details to say to say how and why someone is charismatic and you hav to hav that ability within yourself... there are just some things others cannot teach you which has to come from within yourself
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In my opinion, charisma has a lot to do with being open minded. Charismatic people also fall into flirtacious and endearing habits. Whether it is endearing things such as a little smile.after.they say a certain word,.or.commenting.someone when they.can. being positive is a huge one too,.and being.confident, or being able to fake confidence. Having a great smile. A sense.of humor. Being able to poke fun at themselves. People who can.be both sympathetic and.empathetic but still bring.the mood.back up. Who are the most charismatic people you know? This may sound.creepy, but watch them.
Being able to capture others' attention, interest them and hold their interest. Making people feel good is a part of that. Being pleasant and interesting to be around makes one charismatic. Think of a public speaker... If they gesture, are passionate, engaging, smart, interesting, if they appeal to you, you'd consider them to have charisma. We are all essentially public speakers in daily life.
1)Some peoples outward look will be charismatic but the insight will not be the same and its a turn-off
2)Some peoples are just opposite to as mentioned above
3)Some are really charismatic who posses both looks and attitude and its fine, we can be a part of their company
End of the day what really counts is their insight, and we need not worry about how we can be charismatic. We just need to be our-self and if we try to loose our individuality for the sake of it then it becomes a joke as hell.
If you really want to be charismatic however, you should know how to interact with them depending on situations and most importantly you should be productive in your work or any other field say sports, entertaining etc. :)
What is it about club music that makes people want to dance?
Such questions can't be answered in words. Next time you feel the charisma of someone, focus on that feeling. What are it's qualities? How did they make you feel that way? What about them do you ascribe it to? Do this enough times and you'll have some understanding of it, but you won't be able to answer this question, not really. Some things, you know... They're vibrations, they're astral, they're abstract concepts - any attempts to describe them in the English language are mere poetry. This is the original mystery of magic. Ever wonder why someone who's very charismatic can be described as 'spellbinding'?
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It means three things. Being:
-outgoing
-talkative
-humorous
Things which can help but are not required:
confidence - it can be easily forged and practically indistinguishable from "original"
intelligence - it's inferior to being humorous but can make you seem more interesting
coolness - stylish clothes and swagger can leave an impression but can also backfire
People respond much easier to those who actually approach and talk to them.
Yes - it's that simple. No secrets or magic.
On the other hand - introverts usually are seen as less charismatic.
Because they don't just go at strangers and talk to them.
So others think they're either stuck up, boring or shy.
It can be some of them, all three or none of them.
But despite the popular belief, introversion is not social awkwardness. Introverts also can be loud, funny and charismatic, they just require more "encouragement" from the beginning instead of getting it to start easy.Charismatic people are people who have the right amount of confidence, self respect and pride AND who can also know how to make others feel important, heard and understood.
They know how to appeal to others not by being forceful, loud, arrogant or by playing games, but by being true to themselves and showing keen interest in people. Also they're usually people who have their own opinion, while respecting what others think and who don't judge their worth based on what others think of them, or expect of them. This lead them to live life in a way that can be inspiring to others.I'll keep it simple, in my opinion: charm, wit, modesty (believe or not). It's about them not you; you already know what you're about.
People don't like to hear others boast so I don't (naturally); I don't manipulate people to be befriended by them.
I choose who my friend's are; if I think they're a**holes or only pretend to be a friend I let them know (that I don't need them around).you can't fake it if that's what your thinking..
charismatic people are open, honest, listen to people and treat them really well.
Its nothing tricky or deep, just very few people actually live like that.Inspiring attitude. Confidence. Being able to express themselves with detail and clarity. You have to believe or believe in the person for them to be considered charismatic.
People say I'm charismatic when I stay quiet for a long time and then out of nowhere I say something that makes the whole room laugh,noone imagined I could produce something like that out of my silence and they want to discover me more.:-)
It's simply a skill in a type of manipulation. It's basically a form of advertising. Figure out what motivates people to be comfortable and pleased, then play upon it.
As far as my experience with this, you say "captivate everyone in the room". I'd be the one exception in the room. This doesn't work on me.Confidence, Well spoken, great body language. Could go on forever. Just picture James Bond. That is the definition of charismatic.
They master body-language and are extremely good at lying.
Being bright, friendly, engaging, confident.
Confidence is definitely key.friendly, social, confident and getting to know others and connecting with ppl
I don't know. But they sure can't be drop dead gorgeous. Very hot people intimidate others in some way I can't really understand, so they can't seem to captivate others instantly, in fact they get defensive and self-conscious.
observe bill clinton. Preach.
al pacino in the movie scent of a woman.
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