Guys: What "turns you off" in a girl? (personality-wise)

[Anonymous]

What are the things/ qualities that you would really dislike or get turned off by in a girl?

for example:

-crazy spending habits

-arrogant/ thinking she's all that

-mouthy/ bad manners

-clingy

-unemployed

-uncaring

-insensitive

[animalwithin]

-All around party girl. If she likes getting drunk every weekend, hitting up parties, bars, and clubs, I don't care how hot or beautiful you are, that just turns me off like crazy!

-Definetely arrogant and bitchy

-Isnt understanding. I"m a busy guy, she needs to understand my time constraints.

-Lying is absoutely not tolerated.

-Cursing definetely turns me off in a woman

-Talking crap about other people

I could go on forever lol.

[Asker]

sounds like what most guys would dislike if they were looking for a stable girlfriend or future wifey

[animalwithin]

Yea I'm a one woman, relationship kinda guy haha.

[TheRealAttila]

It really doesn't matter as long as she's genuine. Listing things off is just a way to limit the people that'll come into my life. Of course I have a vision of what my perfect girl is, but I also know that the first girl I fell in love with was roughly...the exact opposite of that vision ha ha so you never know. As long as she's confident and owns her qualities (both negative and positive) I'll give her the same chance as anyone.

[Asker]

ya true - nobody is perfect and everyone does have their flaws. To be though personally, Lies, Secrets, and Cheating would be the biggest turn -offs for me _ I would expect my man to be sincere and honest with me (which he is and I'm lucky for that)

[Asker]

*me

[TheRealAttila]

Oh well I mean of course there are core traits that need to be there before I start a relationship (trustworthy, hygienic, not a psycho), the things like overspending, etc are things she can usually work on. As long as she doesn't have like some horrid, core belief like racism or I don't know something else ridiculous I'll still get to know her to see where it goes.

[htowngeorge]

I don't care if a girl is unemployed or not, if I like her I like her. Things that turn me off though.

Her trying to make herself sexy to me instead of letting it come natural, tattoos, sleazy acting, slutty looking, pierced tongue, nose or pretty much anything but her ears, being so high strung or hyper she gets me nerviness, insensitive or arrogant.

[htowngeorge]

Oh yeah, and pretty much everything as animalwithin said, and I don't like girls that get around or been around for sure aka sluts.

[Vandoza]

-laziness / sleeping in whenever possible / lying in bed for no reason.
-furthermore, unproductive
-lack of attention to time / lateness
-argumentative / circular talk
-selfishness
-"I'm fat!" Guess what? Nobody cares. Confidence is the sexiest thing you can carry, regardless of a few extra pounds
-talking like a trucker
-cluttery and chaotic
-me me me me me my feelings me me me me
-excuses, excuses
-fad following
-political correctness. Yuck.
-anything resembling Chelsea handler. Everything about the way she presents herself I find nauseating and whorish.

That's enough.

[ihatetakingcharge]

obviously, the list of things, traits, that turn girls off is insanely, way longer than the list of things, traits that turn guys off, for me, nothing at all, as long as she is hot, that's all that matters

[bellybuttonlint]

Spending habits, thinking she's really pretty (even if she is) all the time, not being committed to her job, and bad job status.

[Anonymous]

is too busy, has too many things going or to do, if you have too much of a life then you don't have time for dating and relationships