Why are douchebags and jerks so successful with women?

[Yeahhbro]

I know a lot of women say that is not true at all, but every time I go downtown or in college, I always see the "jerks" with the most beautiful women, or rarely alone at least. On the other hand the guys that would probably make good husbands and boyfriends are always left to the side, even if they as well, show interest.

[Anonymous]

theyre successful with INSECURE women and even then, that success doesn't last long, the woman will wake up one day and realize she has compromised for someone less of a man and she will go out and find a real man. it happens all the time. nice guys may finish last but the reward is greater because all the women eventually will turn to him to marry and have kids with. jerks just are good at trapping women and you get sucked into the games and it takes a fighter to get out.

[Opinion Owner]

nice guys will get married and build a family, jerks will get old and be lonely.

[circlebill]

I'm sure all the genuine nice guys are just thrilled with the idea of being women's last choice after they've screwed a long line of jerks!

[toulouse]

im blockled by the user below. just wanted to say I disagree with looks are what you see first. you pick up, through their affect a sense of who they r.. their essence.

that's why a very aesthetically pleasing guy, can be a complete turn off, before you even say two words to each other. unless you're into sh*t heads of course. then, you might be attracted to one.

[Anonymous]

Girls think they changethem over time but few do

[CasaNorba]

because women react with their emotions... so they see jerks/douchebags as strong men with lots of confident, but like I said, "they react with their emotions" not logic, so they have a hard time seeing through them and analyzing that jerks/douchebags are just insecure losers trying to portray a hard image. you know? when you react with your emotions you never see the consequences of things so you go after that thing no matter what

[beastman88]

simply because their is no challenge in coming together with someone you know who likes you. there is no chase, thus no game to be played. I suggest you find a real woman and not some immature girl who likes to play head games. good luck

[Anonymous]

In all honesty...

1. They tend to be so much more physically attractive; in shape with a nice body and a cute face.

2. They tend to have this confidence about them that is so magnetic. A lot of girls can't resist it.

3. They usually have this charm about them.

Overall more attractive on the surface and the surface is what we see first.

[CasaNorba]

but do you know what they have is not "confidence", but "insecurities"... but thanks for being honest

[Opinion Owner]

casanorba197, you can't speak for every single jerk out there. You don't know what's going on in his soul and you are in no place to say what's really going on deep inside of him

[ihatetakingcharge]

why does confidence turn you girls on so much?

[Opinion Owner]

Confidence means you don't have to worry about some insecure guy clinging to you or just the frustrating traits that can often come with an insecure guy. Plus confidence is just sexy

[adamcdavis]

Maybe you're just attracted to douches. I'm pretty sure I'm better looking than many douches I see at my University with chicks but you don't see me with girls. Flip your number one and 2 around.

[Opinion Owner]

lol, no I'm really not. I just think that's an excuse guys use when they can't get girls and I'm tired of guys saying "I can't get a girl because I'm nice." whatever, that's bullsh*t. If a guy can't get a girl, it's usually because of something that's missing with him as an INDIVIDUAL; not because he's not a jerk.

[circlebill]

A man is never sought after by women on physical appearance alone! A man can be tall, athletic and very handsome. Yet, if he is genuinely kind and truly cares about others, most women don't want him! But a pushy, loud-mouth, ill mannered, disrespectful jerk who is not that handsome is what women respond to. Simple boorish disregard creates the illusion of supposed "confidence".

[toulouse]

They certainly are not , with this Woman.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Confidence, looks, & charm,

[PANDAmonium]

They have confidence and swag

[ihatetakingcharge]

this topic will never end