Why do guys like it when shy/quiet/bashful/meek girls get feisty?

[Anonymous]

The girl gets this way because she is provoked. Either by:

-Constant teasing from the guy (even if it was in fun)

- Getting feisty because he is flirting with another girl in front of her

- Gets feisty with the girl that constantly interrupts her conversations with him.

-Feisty if she has to keep in check to make sure she is respected. *the guy became remorseful and timid when she did this*



Why is it that the second that you do this or let your temper or emotions go, the guy actually LIKES this behavior. That suddenly they become more interested. WHY?!

[HeroOfVillains]

I guess it is is the same for women as well, when a guy stops being chill and shows a temper.

A) It shows interest, and the pereson cares for you. Or else why would they get so upset?

B) Feistyness is an alpha male/female characteristic. Holding your own is considered postive isn't.

Anyway this girl I was seeing LOVED me when I got fiesty. I think she intetionally would piss me off and make me jealous so I would get fiesty and then we would have angry sex.

[Asker]

for the most part, this guy I like freaks out when I get feisty. He becomes quiet, looks down ashamed, awkward. LEERY. I'm normally a very happy yet shy person. I'm NEVER mad! But when someone goes well & beyond themselves, I WILL show my feistiness, especially to the girl I mentioned above that keeps interrupting. I think he likes her yet when I put her in her place, he did nothing. Just timid, awkward, quiet. Kept glancing at me all worried as I sat there trying to cool down! What do you think?

[HeroOfVillains]

That is cute I guess... I dunno?

[Moloch]

AHA people feel the same way when I get feisty too, I'm always level-head, and I guess they're not used to it.

[Asker]

the response I get is "oh CRAP! we pissed off the happy person?! Abort! Hide!" Seriously, after I blew up (well for me anyway, most people would have found my way meek anyway) he was nicer to me, leery yet nicer, intrigued, more interested in the fact that I had to act the way I did before. Just 24 hours later too.

[Moloch]

Word.

[Asker]

I'm hoping it means that he cares...and tht he won't try to provoke me again!

[Anonymous]

Guys have to be noticed before they go about the actual task of getting a girl to like them. So when a guy sees an emotional response that is not the norm for a certain girl, he knows that, whether positive or negative, she notices him.

Plus sometimes it's just plain cute when some girls get all feisty haha.

[Asker]

SOmetimes I don't think he necesarrilly means to get a rise out of me. It's actually other people (like the girl I mentioned) that gt under my skin. Rather than defend HER (afterall he was flirting dirtily with her), he was very quiet, looked down, leery to do anything.