haha I love how tons and tons of insecure shy girls come on these websites asking heavily biased questions saying things like "im shy but guys like slutty loud outgoing types" as if shy girls can't be "slutty" and being loud and outgoing are so incredibly synonymous with "slutty." cracks me up every time.
anyway everyone has their own types. I'm not a guy but I do date girls and I'm not into shy girls much and neither are most of the guys I have dated. I'm very outgoing and loud and sociable (I probably am what you consider to be "slutty" but that's just me lol). I like people who are similar. shy people seem so standoffish and having a conversation with shy types is almost never easy. its like pulling teeth, trying to get them to contribute to a conversation. its hard for someone to think you're interesting and want to get to know you for those interesting unique qualities if don't open your mouth or constantly avoid eye contact. also at times it seems like shy people don't want to be bothered so I know a lot of people who are just more than happy to let them stay to themselves. I try to talking to everyone even shy people because I know that you may be surprised at the people you can meet that are loners or sit in the corner by themselves or something. they deserve a chance too. I only have a couple shy friends but they are very open with me now. I had to carry the conversations for a long time but now things are more leveled off. having said that, talking to meet people and actually wanting to date someone are two different things. I don't know if I would want to date a shy girl because getting to know someone should be fun and easy and with shy people it tends to be tedious and maybe some guys see it as not worth the trouble.
there are lots of guys who prefer shy girls though! you don't have to completely change who you are but being more approachable maybe would help you and yes a little more outgoing or at least willing to say hello first or something. body language speaks volumes. you want to smile. you want to make eye contact, even if its in that coy way of constantly looking away but always looking back and smiling to let them know you're interested. I'm more of a blatant "come hither" stare type myself but to each is own. :)
a lot of guys like the coy thing though and that whole "innocent" vibe so that could work to your advantage. a lot of guys like that because they think they can be sure that you aren't cheating or you haven't been with too many other guys.
do you like shy guys? maybe the shy guys who love shy girls are waiting on some chick to show interest, just like you are waiting. lots of outgoing guys like shy girls as well but I'm just saying...it goes both ways. there might be guys into you but you don't notice them either or you are being a picky beggar. they can't be choosers remember that! xD
It's all about confidence. It's not that guys don't like shy girls it's that these particular shy girls don't have much confidence in themselves. If you have to ask why they don't like shy girls, you should really be asking 'why don't they like me?'
I'm a shy girl who has been through this before. I blamed the fact that I was shy and wouldn't put out on why guys didn't approach me but I would always see them with other out-going girls. But I found that the more I embraced who I am as a shy person and gained confidence in who I am, guys came up to talk to me a lot more.
For 1) Some of these guys could really just be looking for sex at the time, 2) Guys find girls who arn't confident in themselves unnattractive even if their looks say otherwise. 3) taking from point 1) they arn't ready for commitment and just want to have fun. When they are ready for a girlfriend to be commited to they will most likely venture over to the shy girl side.
P.S are you looking for a guy in the wrong places? for a shy girl a party would not be a good place to start. Try a book store (chapters? Indigo?), grocery store(guys who shop by themselves with a buggy full of grocery's show that they have responsibility meaning boyfriend material), coffee shop?
Okay,
How many "good-looking" shy girls do you know? No, I don't mean "aww, she's so pretty & cute", but "damn! she's hot!"? Yeah, didn't think so.
They're shy, for a reason.
So here are the choices guys have to pick from:
- Shy girl: hard to read, doesn't show her interest in me, comes off as playing games or playing hard-to-get, wants a guy to "work hard to get her" so she can comfort her underlying insecurities about herself and he can validate her self-esteem. So, more work, same or less benefits as any other girl.
- Outgoing girl: easy to read, shows her interest in him, comes off as more open and honest, doesn't come off like she's manipulative or playing games, doesn't have self-esteem issues, isn't trying to make the guy "work hard to get her". So, less work, same benefits as any other girl (though, usually better looking & sexually uninhibited than other girls).
So imagine you're a guy, and these are your choices. Do you want to take a wild guess which girl you'd naturally gravitate towards, and which girl you'd barely even notice or ignore?
Exactly.
I'm not too sure I agree with this. Shy girl doesn't nessessarily mean she automatically has self esteem issues. a girl can be totally comfortable with who she is and still remain shy/reserved. My smaller group of friends has really good looking shy girls. And I know a lot of out-going girls with more baggage and insecurites than anyone I've known. They use the whole out-going attitude to cover up their self-hate.
P.s it would have saved a lot of time if you had just said that out-going girls are more easy for guys to get them on their backs, since that was what I gathered from your whole speel.
All I'm saying is, it's not like the shy girls has three boobs or something. He's going to have the same kind of sex, if not better, with an outgoing girl. So I'm sure every guy is thinking, "gosh golly, to spend the next 1-2 months of my life without sex, or to not spend the next 1-2 months of my life without sex? THAT's not even a question" - Shakespear
I'd have to agree with NMMan.
I hear from girls all the time that "Guys only go for those slutty bitches! They're all shallow jerks for not noticing the shy girl pining after them!" Yeah, this is the female version of nice guy vs. bad boy scenario.
First of all, there are a lot of guys just out for sex. They get it from girls who are likely to put out, simple as that. The rest of this answer is ignoring those guys.
Despite what any other sources might tell you, a lot of guys are nervous about asking girls out. One of the main reasons for this is because asking a girl out is often taking a shot in the dark. If you actually talk/flirt with a guy and make it known that you're interested, then he is MUCH more likely to ask you out.
I hear from many girls that it is the man's job to ask her out. Some girls like it because it shows that he's confident, and some like it because "I'm too shy and scared of rejection". Well, if you're going to leave everything up to the guys, then that's an acceptable choice, but you have no place to complain when Prince Charming doesn't come riding up on his white horse.
Am I saying that it's your job to ask him out? If you really don't want to, then you don't have to. What I am saying is that you are going to have very limited success when you just kick back and wait for things to come to you. Show interest, let people know you're available, meet people, and actually be noticed.
Personally, I do suggest that you be more social, and I suggest that you let guys know that you're interested. You are going to have a lot more success, and you are going to have more choice over what kinds of guys you meet.
I like shy or reserved they usually unintentionally hit a lot of my weaknesses. First of is your shy you can come off as reserved and reserved people tend not to like being approached (they tend to keep to them selves and shut you down or bitch out if you try to approach). This become more and more true depending on how good looking you, guys find attractive shy or reserved girl very intimidating. You would benefit from just coming off less reserved, you giving off the wrong vibe. Make sure your language is reading "I'm approachable" and "not go f*** your selve". Also make sure you don't hide your flaws no matter how small, embrace them. Some girls try to make them selves seem perfect or close to it and turn them selves into highly desired object out of reach for the average guy, instead just another human being, perfect or close to perfect girl tend to scare the sh*t out of guys especially if they are shy reserved. Lastly not all guys like loud outgoing girls I personally do but a lot of guys find them annoying, obnoxious, and needy and the guys who sluts only want an easy and don't respect or care about you.
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Shy girls ar fine. Shy girls who continue to be shy despite every attempt to get you to talk is annoying. Also, loud girls aren't slutty. I know loud girls who make Mother Theresa look like a prude and quiet/shy girls who could make a porn star blush.
If you're really that shy when a guy comes up to you, tell him. Being shy doesn't mean that you can't open your mouth. A good guy will say "Okay" and keep talking to you, the right guy will have you laughing in 5 minutes. But if you sit in a corner and look all dark and gloomy, you send off signals that you don't want to be talked to. I've sat at a cafe just to get out and have a drink and had girls give my eyes but don't dare come up to me because I know I look moody (which I typically am if I'm out drinking alone). Same cafe, I sat down to do some work and had the bartender flirting with me even though I was staring at my laptop screen. Look interesting and approachable.
She had her interest piqued by me because I was writing, which corresponded with one of her interests. Like a lot of people said, shy girls are good at being passed over because you're also very good at pretending to be invisible. I'm not saying carry props with you every where, but don't look like you don't want to be there.
True I always try to fade into the background
Hehe. =] I like shy girls, and am also shy myself. Don't be put off if some guys don't like shy girls. They just don't want to make the effort to try getting you to open up. Sucks to be them.
Guys usually go for the more slutty, open girls, because they know they can easily get what they want from them. They're lazy. They make very little effort. If they see a shy girl, they move on, rather than try getting that girl to open up with them so that he can be close with her. I think that's pathetic, and hope those guys end up with someone as lame as they are.
So don't worry if you're shy. Look at it like this: your shyness keeps the trash away. If a guy is TRULY interested in you, he won't give up chasing you just because you're shy at first. Instead, he will try and get you to open up. If he just gives up without so much as trying, then he obviously wasn't worth your time anyway.
Its hard to tell shy girls from girls who are annoyed by the guy and want him to go away.
What shy girls don't realize is that if a an averaged girl does not like a guy, she will sit there, say almost nothing and hope the guys goes away. But if a shy girl DOES like a guy, she does the same thing, sit there and say almost nothing, only she hopes we don't go away.
From our point of view, it is almost impossible to tell them apart. The actions are exactly the same, the only difference is what's going on inside the girls head. Most guys do not want to waste their time on a girl who gives them no sign of whether they are interested or not. Especially if the room is full of other girls who clearly are interested.
You should start acting more out-going. Definitely. Guys like that.
you can only be who you are, loud girls are like turkey sandwiches, once you take away the bread and the fancy toppings your lift with boring cold, bland, dry turkey. shy girls are like turkey clubs, warm, layered, juicy, some what complex which can intimidate and can't be rushed to be eaten. what I'm saying is this, ain't nothing wrong with coming out of your shell as long as you stay true to yourself. I'm hungry...
Hah, this is brilliant! Turkey clubs, I laughed so hard.
Hahahaha this is amazing.
we do like shy girls actually... a lot of times more than the outgoing ones, depending on the girl I guess...
but the thing is that when you try to talk to or hit on a shy girl you get less feedback, and it can take a lot longer to get to know her, so we lose interest and get over it or whatever
...so being shy is cool but if were talking to you we like you so try to make an effort to open up, even if you end up saying or doing something a little weird... cause it can work with the whole shy personality and end up being cute
Guys don't like the loud sluts! There annoying as hell! You need to meet guys in the middle,dont make them always have to chase you. Make their approach easy or approach them at least once. Guys need to know that a girl likes them and want them bad,reassurance. So if your really shy,I would think your not interested at all. Are you sharing eye contact in prospects? That's huge. Again,nothing worse than a loud slut,when a slut is really loud and needs attention,I think I'm gonna put something in her mouth to shut her up! Ya guys want to nail them but that's it,they have no respect for them. Maybe you are intimidating so like I said make it seem like your looking for conversation or your not a girl that is gonna make them feel like an idiot. Make it easier for the guy to talk to you,those loud girls make it real easy. Your on track,don't change who you are,I'm sure your friendly just show it.
It's not that guys don't like shy girls; it is that more outgoing people are easier to read. You learn about them quickly, so you know if you like them or not. If you are shy, you just have to give yourself enough time to open up with the guy you like. Join a club where you could meet the type of guy you like and have enough time to get to know him.
If you're not getting hit on, I would practice establish eye contact with guys you think are cute and smiling at them. A lot of times, I would get a lot of attention from a guy after I paid attention to him.
I LOVE shy girls, under two conditions:
1) She smiles a lot. This tells me she's friendly and approachable, and it just makes me feel good to see a cute shy girl smile a lot.
2) She reciprocates my interest. Or else, how would I know she likes me? If she were showing no interest at all, I'd get discouraged and move on.
How would you want us to SHOW our interest though? I'm shy, and I'm terrified of coming on too strong, so I end up not coming on at all.
At least show me that you don't want to run away the moment you get a chance. If I ask you a question about yourself, give me a full answer and ask me one back. Try to find out more about me. Treat me like you would a friend, if you can't do anything more than that. If I ask you out, make moves, etc...be receptive to them with a genuine smile. These things would show me that a shy girl likes me.
Slutty girls are easy, and men are typically lazy. Shy girls are more of the type to have relationships with or even wife, but not till later in life. Shy girls aren't that interesting cause they don't do anything. If you're good looking, then guys'll approach you even if you're shy, but if you're a plain jane wall flower, you're outta luck.
Not all guys are like that. Shy girls have a mysteriousness to them that is sexy. What is hard is knowing what they think. Shy girls are in my opinion the best catch and make the best girlfriends. All we guys ask for are a few concrete hints that they are attracted to us, otherwise all we can do is guess.
Just give out hints to the guy you like that you actually like him. DO NOT avoid him, it will seem like you are not interested. SHOW that beautiful smile all shy girls have and make it clear that you like the guy. Other than that there is an allure that shy girls have.
I'm an introvert and hate people. I like the personality of shy women because they resemble mine as well. They don't talk a lot and aren't loud, which is what I like. But the reason why I hate being attracted to shy women is because they're hard to read. It's literally the opposite when it comes to flirting and attraction. They like you, and they hide it. I've been attracted to mostly shy women and they give the impression that they don't like me. So I move on, only to find out almost a few months later they liked me and wondered I never made a move or asked them out. That's the only reason i to away from shy girls now. I'm sarcastic and love to tease the woman that I like a lot.
So do yourself a favor and stop wasting our time when you like a guy. LEARN to get over your nervousness
I wouldn't say so much that guys don't like shy girls, it's that they often don't *notice* shy girls (which is pretty much the same trap that shy guys fall into when the shoe is on the other foot). Don't be afraid to smile, throw a few glances here and there, or start some conversation...it can only help your cause. I was a shy guy growing up, so I can feel where you're coming from - don't give up :-).
Why did you have to partner outgoing with "slutty"? Not nice.
So, yes, flashy girls do get a lot of attention, not necessarily the attention that leads to having a boyfriend, but it can. Shy girls and guys just require the other person to be a lot more outgoing to make something happen. It is hard to approach a girl that is giving off no vibes of interest and not giving any ins to starting a conversation.
Even if I do believe guys should be the hunter and reasonably pursue the girl, I don't agree that they can do this without any help on the part of the girl. If you go out and pretty much appear like a lump on a log, don't know how many guys can work with that, unless you are amazingly beautiful and a player comes along.
I wouldn't say most guys don't like shy girls - a lot actually do. Its not that you're intimidating at all, sometimes its more likely that you beldn into the wall too well, and don't stand out.
Most young fellas are more interested in sex than relationships, and the slutty chicks are an easy target, even if you know they've been nailed many times before.
As for being more outgoing, its not always that easy if you're a bit quiet. Nothing wrong with it at all, but yes, sticking your head out of your shell won't hurt. People will see you, and from that, you'll catch a few more eyes than you would otherwise.
Good luck, and feel free to ask for more details.
Men like shy girls, but I think men like the more slutty one and outgoing ones cause there easyer to open up.. As we shy girl's aren't and it's to much work for most guy to open us up. But if a guy likes you for you he won't give up just cause you are shy, you shouldnt have to change just to get a guy.
So...don't change and continue to be shy and quiet? Let the guy chase you down and work on opening you up? If this was the reverse situation and we were talking about the shy guy the advice would be to become more confident, outgoing, open up, etc...
So girls don't have to do anything and guys have to change and do all the work? Sounds like a sh*tty double-standard
JakeLongOT is right. Being more outgoing isn't changing who you are, but just getting you to interact. If you actually go out and meet guys, then you'll have a much better chance of finding one.
I believe that going from shy to outgoing is changing who you are. if you're shy you can't just flip a switch and become outgoing. It's all about your comfort zones. JakeLongOT I'm pretty sure what Bubbles said can go both ways. If you're a shy person, it's who you are. What people should really be saying is not to be 'more out going' but just build confidence.
It takes more effort to get to know a shy girl. In other words, it easier to talk to outgoing people. Some guys prefer shy girls though and will try to get to know them better. As long as you don't keep to yourself when that happens, you don't need to "act" more outgoing.
Most guys like the shy girls, but are intimidated by them. The loud slutty ones make easier targets because the girl rarely turns the guy away and the guy doesn't feel the fear of rejection from his target. Guys do want to be with a shy girl but feel afraid that he won't be good enough in her eyes and she will turn him away, which all men fear.
I like shy, polite, girls, you're probably much more well rounded then the slags you see hanging around with all the guys, be proud of yourself and the right guy will come along in good time. I have a hard time finding girls like you, don't make a rare species even rarer!
when out of a relationship we kinda try and split sex and love. we''ll either go out with girls becuase we really feel for them or becuase, tbh their easy. guys don't dislike shy girls they just normally take everything seriously, the loud shouty types often give off the image that they can have a good time and know it doesn;t mean anything.
if you want guys to like you seriously then just be yourself and someone special will come along. if you want to start to muck around a bit, then just show them you won't fall head over heels in love with them after a bit of flirting.
i think it's because loud slutty men seek loud slutty women. you notice them because they are loud. I'm sure the quiet guys are interested in you, they're just too quiet for you to know.
there's this girl at my school who I see every once in a while, always alone, but not sulking; just alone. I'm naturally quiet too, but I want to talk to her so bad. I just need the opportunity.
mysteriousness is truly sexy.
i think it's the other way around. Girls don't like shy guys unless they are just perfect 10 guys who look like god damned edward cullen. Otherwise we are just considered creeps or weird or just not talkative at the best. Shy girls on the other hand are seen as innocent and sweet, even if not very attractive. I do think though that it's hard to talk to shy girls, but girls naturally have it easier.
Lol, poor guys. Edward Cullen set the bar WAY too high. I'm surprised you know who that is actually. It's usually just girls who are into that sort of thing.
I would rather date a shy woman then a loud slutty woman. However the problem for me with shy women is that I'm quite, and reserved. And I would rather be with a cute woman that's hyper and spontaneous. I think being with a woman that's shy would be too boring.
The shyness is only at first get to know her she won't be shy liitle time with her also 2 shy people will bond a very tight bond there eep and trust worthy so you will have a huge spark love trust me I know :) its worth waiting on
As a guy, I can tell you that it has nothing to do with intimidation. I dont know a single man that finds shyness intimidating. The problem is that shy girls do not realize how uninterested and uninteresting they make themselves come off to be. Contrary to romance novels, a lot of men do not like the thrill of a chase. Most men like to know that they stand a chance from the beginning to the end. This is an area where more brave and outgoing women win. Brave and outgoing women are the ones who say "Hey you, I think you are hot/cute/fun/etc. I know you want this, so come and get it before you lose it". That exhilarates a man to go after her because he doesn't feel like he's going to get flaked on. With shy girls, its different; its a big guessing game that gets old fast. You dont have to be an extrovert, but you do need to realize that shyness is a fear, not a condition. If you want to get what you want, you have to take a risk and be bold.
And by "be bold" I mean, flirt and ask him to do something together. Stop waiting for him do every little thing in the dating process. A girl who know how to flirt can usually get the guy that they want because men want to feel like they are wanted. When you just sit back and wait all day, he never gets to see your interest level.
I'm a shy girl too. But, if a guy comes up and shows interest in me and asks me a question or something, I will answer him. I just don't like to make the first move and talk to him first. Sometimes if I am attracted to a guy, I will smile at him from across the room or glance at him every so often. They may be subtle hints, but at least they are hints. I say just wait it out and see how it goes. A guy will come up to you and if he talks to you, you should talk back :)
I know what you mean! I can't stand those types of girls. I say the best thing for you to do is just be yourself and if going out more would make you happy, then go for it.
But, the reason guys might seem to not like "shy girls" might be because they don't know whether the girls is interested in them, so they probably don't want to take the risk of being rejected.
Also, the reason some guys like the loud-mouthed easy pray, is because they are, well, easy and guys are just dumb about commitment so they always go with the easy girls who go from one guy to the next.
If you really like a guy, just take a chance and say hey and strike up a conversation.
If you're flat-lining, you can always say you forgot to pick up your dry-cleaning, or something.
In this era, you are seeing more girls asking guys out. Its starting to be more common for guys to expect girls to take the lead. Guys want girls that are able to step up to the plate and make his friends laugh and not be afraid to have conflict on every day decisions.
the loud/outgoing types are most likley complete sluts BUT they have one thing that youdon't...CONFIDENCE. A shy girl can have confidence and attract many guys...but when you're just shy and no confident...it comes off as a weird situation for a guy to come and approach you.
well guys tend to go for the more confident girls because they think they are gonna get more out of them sexually. Also I think shy guys tend to go for more confident girls because they will find it easier for a conversation to happen because they leave the girl to do the talking and confident guys tend to go for the more shy girls so they can take care of them. This is because opposites attract. I don't think you should change the way you are but maybe be more flirtatious and then you can get boys attention and when you get to know them then you will find out if that guy is confident and he will find out if your shy and you can see if you like the connection between you and they will know what they like and so will you. hope this helps :D
Personally...I find shy girls EASIER to approach. They're just there, waiting to be talked to. I'm a sociable guy, so I just walk up to her & start chatt'n about random things.
A more outgoing girl...she may be into being close-knit with her friends circle, & therefore the rejection odds are higher. A shy girl seems to be waiting for a guy like me to break her out of her shell.
To the guys; shy girls are NOT AT ALL intimidating. :)
I think everybody has said it, shy girls are too damn difficult to figure out because they are always so defensive to guys, even guys that they like. Your chances get better when you are good looking, but if you are shy must of the time we assume you are a bitch. I love shy girls because I am pretty sure I would never have to worry about her cheating on me.
Truth be told, a lot of guys do like shy girls. Its not that were intimidated by you but just like the other guys here have mentioned, shy girls can be really quiet and we don't notice you girls at all. Its like the diamond in the ruff... Unless we really look we won't notice and see your girls at all.
So guys tend to drift to loud outgoing type of girls because to them they are the most fun to hang around, talkative, interesting and are not afraid to show their affection
One word: confidence. If you are quiet and shy, it's because you are afraid of something, or because you are insecure. Girls who are shy usually don't have very good self esteem (usually. I'm not saying this is how you r) which can mean she has baggage and will be drama, or a lot of work.
being a shy guy myself I was once attracted to a girl who was shy, she gave me the hints but when it came to iniating, I was doing all the work, sometimes its like talking to a wall no response or anything. then I would wonder if she liked me, I finally asked she said yes, but never even wanted to hung out with me, she never even rejected me until I had to end it
The thing about shy people is that they're usually practically invisible. You don't notice them because you have to look hard to find them amongst the crowd. They're like ninjas. It's part of what being shy means.
actually for any relationship...it's a guy who has to take initiative (Almost Always!)...and if they get some interaction from the other side they take it as positive response!
most of shy girl fail to form a good interaction when we first talk to them...so we think that girl is not interested in us and just move on...and many times in life that we move on and then realize that some xyz shy girl used like us and then we scream in mind "Hell that stupid girl...why the fuk she never told me"...
Same reason women don't like shy guys. Not so much because you're shy, but you never know where you stand with them often. Are they interested and like you? Often they are too shy to say it or show it, where the outgoing ones will make it obvious. There's no doubts.
I personally prefer a girl that will chat non-stop about nonsense that a girl who I can't get a word out of. Why you ask? because it gives me less opportunity to say something stupid and p*ss her off...
Ahahaaha your so right! guys suck at communicating :P I once put my hand over his moulth and just told him to "shut up & dance with me" lol
We like them, but they ignore us, thus making us feel like creeps for chatting to a girl who seems to want nothing to do with us..
I'm the shy type too and I agree with what you're saying, highschool is so stupid, and it does seem like what you're saying... about the slutty loud ones getting it all... difficult thing it is!
Cos your less noticable if there's another girl in the same room making lots of noise and such. Being louder would help get you noticed. But guys like shy girls once they get to know them.
I prefer shy girls actually but I'm kind of a shy guy. Loud slutty women suck ass I don't even want to be in the same room with them they are embarrassing to be around.
because it's easier to hold a conversation with an outgoing girl
Cause bit*hes give good love...
If he isn't looking for a girlfriend, he wants a bitch.
If he wants a good girl to date, he wants the shy girl.
Basically outgoing girls who share their feelings take some of the pressure off the guy... and girls who act like a "sure thing" mean we have less fear of rejection.
I prefer shy girls...so... WRONG! Just be yourself. A guy will like you for who you are as corny as that sounds its true.
Shy girls are my favorite and I hate loud sluts... So yeah don't think its all guys...
In my experience the shy girl ends up being worse than the loud slutty girls, sumtimes sluttier, sounds crazy but I've met a few
I know! all of my friends are like this!
Lol, true dude, a shy girl ended up breakin my heart lmao
I don't mind shy girls, sometimes its cute tho loud/outgoing girls just seem like more fun
Yes. You should come out a little more. Especially when the opertunity to be friendly where you are comfortable with the guy talking to you. :)
you have to be friendly or else they assume you don't want to talk to people.
They do like us just not for too long because they lose interest
its a lot harder to even get a hint tht there interested in u.
I think it depends on how shy are we talking about. too shy girls makes me uncomfortable around them. because I keep doubting if she really likes me. I think being shy is cute, but not too shy to show her feelings
Be yourself. Shy people take longer to get to know, if he really likes you he will spend the time
u got it wrong. guys prefer the loud slutty girls when it comes to getting some very easy sex. guys would prefer the shy good girls when it came to finding a gf.
My point of view slutty loud girls are just for fun thers reasons why...nd shy gurls are the good kind I prefer them for dating nd hav a cool sweet relationship witout drama :)
Because young guys want it quick and easy, they look for the most 'open' girl.
I like shy petite girls if your cute and within the 15-17 year old range. you should message me.
Guys like girls who aren't afraid to put themsleves out there! It shows confidence!
Most of us Guys love Shy Girls, Because they usually more easy going and more Willing than Confident Girls.
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