Being blackmailed for nudes? Ever happened to you?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I used to like this girl, and we used to sext and stuff, and we sent each other nudes.

We promised each other we'd delete the nudes after we got them, so I deleted them all.

Anyway, this went on for awhile.

We stopped talking for a bit, and we started talking again a few days ago.

She wants to sext again, but I don't really want to, because I'm not interested.

But she said she still has my nudes, and if I don't send her nudes, then she's going to post mine online and show them to everyone :(

What should I do? Should I just give in and send her more nudes?

And has this ever happened to anyone else?:/

[CrazyCece]

Hell no don't send her more, If she is already black mailing you with the one's she has, your just giving her more on top of them one's to do it again later. So wait a few day's and send her a text and let her know you actually saved a couple of her's on your phone, you thought you deleted all of them from text, but you saved a couple for later use, or whatever... This will make her think, "Does he really have them or is he screwing with me" She won't know for sure unless she see's your media card... But it will make her think and most likely she won't post your's online, but she probably has shown them to her friends, if she is blackmailing you, it seems like her personality type. :)

Also if she is a minor, just tell her that your going to let her Dad know you guys were sharing nude pictures, and YOU thought a few pictures later, that is was going to far, and told her you wouldn't do it anymore, and you deleted her pics, but now she has all yours on her phone, and is blackmailing you :)

You have to be as vindictive and manipulative as she is being.

[LoveLayne]

LMAO... this bitch is a f***ing boss(: Anyways, is your face in the pics? If not then who cares cause she can't prove it's you. And if your face is in them tell her you still have her nudes as well so if she posts yours you'll post hers. (hopefully she won't call your bluff.) But honestly, she probably doesn't even have them still she might just be threatening you... tell her to f*** off and go watch some damn p*rn.. OH and P.S: Why would you trust someone saying they will delete a naked pic of you after they have it? I mean what's the point of asking for the pic just to delete it? Either way if you send her more then she will just threaten you again when the same situation comes up so that's not the way to handle it. Plus if she really still had nudes of you then why would she need more? Oh and you can also tell her that if she releases the supposed pics she has of you then you'll report her to the police (some guy In my old neighborhood faces tons of charges because of this.) WHATEVER you decide to do.. don't be a p**** and just man up.

[mia92]

yeah threaten to take it to the police. it's not legal and she could get into a lot of trouble. make sure you don't delete any of her messages if you really do need to take it that far you can use them as proof.

[kairon156]

she says she has nudes but she want's more? what comes to my mind is she doesn't have any and just want's some nude pic's of you. personally I wouldn't care if nude pic's of me went online it might get me some action if a girl see's them and likes it.

you can tell her if she put's them online you'll sue her ass for everything she's worth. sometimes that might be enough to detour her from doing that because if she does it than she's automatically guilty and hopefully will go to jail for being a bitch.

you can go a different tact and say you still have her pictures and if she put's yours online you'll put hers online too, if she asks you to send them to her as proof than you can tell her off for not having pictures of you and that you don't believe her than block her from contacting you.

[Phoenix1991]

Call her on her bluff, say this " Okay, So show me what you are wearing ;)" send something like that, when she does reply with pics, then hold on to them as back up.

Tell her that you have no interested in continuing and if she releases your pics online, you will do the same with her, and say " Remember, its worse for a girl to be online naked over a guy, a woman naked spreads like wildfire on the internet."

[kataloso]

You're dealing with a chick here, so I'd suggest the reverse psychology tactic.

Tell her the pics you sent her were actually of her dad's ding dong, and if she were to post those online for the world to see that would be a pretty jacked up thing to do.

[HeroOfVillains]

You dug your own grave mate. Do you know her personally and in real life? Cause if you don't then you are screwed. If you do you could treaten law suit. Or try to sneak into her house and destroy them. Also you could bluff saying you also have some of hers.

[raerawr]

I guarantee that she really doesn't have your nudes still. Ask her to send you them to prove she had them. If she had them, then ya give in for a little while until you get one of her, then hold that over her head. =/ Sounds wrong but its probably what needs to be done.

[brandonlee1234]

if she does that, that invasion of privacy. tell her if she does do that, report her to the police, and you could take her to court. the worst case scenario, take a phone or camera and delete them.

[Honeybaby]

Blackmail is a crime, you can always remind her of this and threaten to go to the feds if she being so childish.

[sawno]

Certainly don't send her more there is no reason why she will delete them this time and then not confront you with the other ones aswell.

[Browneye57]

Never send pics you don't want to be shared with their friends, or end up on the internet at some point. Either gender. :)

[adamfam1990]

Don't give her any more, there's a high chance she's bluffing about having nudes and even if she isn't she won't stop blackmailing you even if you give in to her demands, just don't reply to her from now on.

[Anonymous]

lol, this is a blatantly obvious troll post...post a picture of your fat ass beer gut to shut her up...ya damn troll

[p_star7]

If your face isn't in the nudes your fine. If it is... your fucked

[Anonymous]

Ha ha! Sorry, this is kinda funny. Just get a reason to have her phone delete them from it, and don't send her anymore. Simple as that.

[Anonymous]

Get nudes of her fist for levering or sjeay just be bullshittin. Was your face in the pictures?

[fbubbles]

tell her parents ! or the cops !

[britters85]

Id tell her you take it to the law enforcement!

[sephora]

is your face attached to these pictures?

[lcr01]

Ye i just blocked them

[Anonymous]

Post that text message online - or threaten to