My ex girlfriend comes to complain about her new boyfriend, why?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex like 2 months ago. About a month after that, she was dating a new guy. Now she comes back to complain to me about how had he was to her, that he got mad very easily and that he is not as considerate with her as I was.

What does this mean? Doesn't she realize that this might be hurtful for me -and it is-? Does it mean she starts to realize what she lost when our relationship ended?

We are in college, she waited in her car for me, during the night, outside of the building where she knew I was working at the lab. She asked me to come in, and we went to have some food it was like a date and we even kissed at the end.

Did I do wrong by accepting? She hurt me a lot before by cheating and being very demeaning towards me through our entire relationship. Should I better avoid this kind of encounters? I'm really confused now.

[Arwens-Fire]

Run from this situation as fast as you can.Dont allow her to make you her garbage disposal. She didn't respect you the first time around,and I doubt that she will if you guys try again.No one else is on her radar at the moment,so it's normal for her to try and keep you in the picture somehow. All in all,she is using you.

[GetExBack]

Yea.. you're too much of a nice guy stuck in the dreaded friend zone. Tell your ex that you'll get back to her because you just got set up with a hot russian girl and you got to get ready for your date tonight.

[Asker]

I arranged it for her to see me with my new Gf. It was hilarious. She came afterward asking who she was, and many many questions. She even asked me if we were having sex together. I wrote a question about it earlier: link

[Hades]

Sounds like she has Histrionic personality disorder. You would be wise to distance yourself from her.

[Asker]

What is that Histrionic thing?

[Hades]

Here you go, champ - link