If a girl you just met rests her head on your chest (while talking)

[shesaladyround2]

You know, when its loud in bars and you already get close to talk into their ear...i always end up with my head on their chest, I don't know why.

Does that make me clingy? And guys if you like that girl would you mind that behavior ? What would you think of such a girl?

[Konnour]

Entirely depends whether or not the guy likes her or finds her attractive.

I have no problem at all with that if I like the girl, it's even welcomed, but if I don't like the girl.. I would go away/push her away/think some random excuse or something like that.

[shesaladyround2]

ok. juwst a question: if a guy approaches me does that mean he likes me/finds me attractive?

or is it not enough?

[Konnour]

The odds are higher towards 'yes' than 'no'

As I personally don't know any guy who would approach a girl he doesn't know without fancying her.

[shesaladyround2]

yay that's cool! so I can keep doing it? :D it happens automatically anyway lol

[Konnour]

Well.. do you really need my permission for that?

[Joshbgosh]

If I liked the girl and she did that...I'd be pretty f***ing happy. I would think it's cute to be honest, so I would have to disagree with the first female answer, however, I am sure a lot of guys would disagree with me.

[shesaladyround2]

thanks for answerig! :D would you still think it's cute if it happens at a bar?

[Joshbgosh]

Uh, I'd think she was a bit drunk to be honest and I need to get her home or something. If it was something like just hanging out and we've been talking for a while, then she puts her head on my chest, that would be cute imo. But at a bar, yeah, I'd assume alcohol influenced her decision lol.

[shesaladyround2]

aww too bad. I do it whenever I've talked to a guy for a bit, we got closer and it "cllicks"

[Joshbgosh]

Yeah, I'd figure that she just can't handle her liquor.

[shesaladyround2]

even at a concert?

[Joshbgosh]

If you were stoned or drunk, then yes. Or I would think that you were just in the mood from the music.

But I'm paranoid. The only way I would really not question it is if it was just the two of us and we had been talking for a while.

[shesaladyround2]

hmmm OK :)

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

if a guy is talking to you and he wraps his hand around waist - what are you going to take that as? Same thing with her randomely putting her head on his chest.

[shesaladyround2]

i like it when they do that. it's cute and it makes me think that they like me :)

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

well there ya go lol that's exactly how he probably feels. Or weirded out / uncomfortable if he doesn't like you like that

[shesaladyround2]

they do ike me "like that" if you mean in a romantic/physical way

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

oh well then your good :)

[thisGUYknows]

how soon is "just met" like that day?

it might be a little weird but id go with it just for the hell of it probably. I'd ask her about it tho lol. just to be funny

[shesaladyround2]

Yes just that night...if you asked me why I did it id probably smile and say "because I like it :D" and hug you tight lol I know I need to stop acting like a little child but I can't help it :p

[Tacoman113]

Well I would assume that the girl probably likes me and I don't really find it annoying at all.

[shesaladyround2]

even in a bar?

[Tacoman113]

Yea I don't know about in a bar I don't drink sorry :/

[shesaladyround2]

ok, thanks for answering!

[Tacoman113]

yep any time :)

[Anonymous]

Would be tempting to kiss you lol. I would think its cute. and I could smell your lovely hair too. ;)

[shesaladyround2]

thanks for answering :)

[yopyopyop]

If I had just met her, like this very evening, and it happened to me, I would wonder if she's not a psycho.

[shesaladyround2]

ok I guess I am one lol. thanks for answering! :)

[yopyopyop]

Well you have to admit that this kind of "privacy invasions" is not really expectable after only a few minutes talking from a regular person.

[shesaladyround2]

depends on the culture I guess

[yopyopyop]

Cultural thing, maybe. But since you are in the "invading" position, you have to conform to the other person's culture, and not the contrary.

I have friend who's dating a greek girl. She's all touchy, hugging and close in her interactions with me. Well I am extremely comfortable when she's around me, and she's a friend.

If it was someone I don't know, I would just push her away and demand a little space.

[shesaladyround2]

ok. ha ha I don't think I have such a thing like "personl space". I just don't ike when people's faces are amost touching mine when they talk to me. its too clowe lol. but touch I don't mind. I think I touch a lot too lol

[yopyopyop]

I meant uncomfortable in the former comment, not comfortable, sorry.

You are how you are, but I wouldn't talk to you a second time, and I would probably talk to my friends about this weird, abnormal girl that gave me the creeps when talking to me.

[shesaladyround2]

if you give off that vibe then I'd never even do it in the first placec lol

[yopyopyop]

I don't emit the anti-promiscuity wave. Anyway. Well your call. Once you've been raped by a guy, you'll probably stop acting as if everybody was a childhood friend.

[shesaladyround2]

wow.

[shesaladyround2]

I don't like you lol

[yopyopyop]

Shit happens :p

[shesaladyround2]

You're still not the most empathetic guy ever...

[yopyopyop]

I don't understand what calls for empathy in your question. I think you don't realize that your behavior could get you into serious trouble if you came across the path of a weirdo. Anyway, no hard feelings.

[shesaladyround2]

the comment in your answer. but nevermind

[risted]

I'd be thinking how much more comfortable it'd be with her doing that in bed with me tonight...

[shesaladyround2]

So it makes me look easy?

[risted]

no, that's just a passing thought that would run through my head. I like that feeling so I'd think it's cute

[HeroOfVillains]

She is flirting with me.