I think my girlfriend is too perfect?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has the perfect package she's gorgeous, hot, out going, smart. I just can't see any flaws in her, and I can predict her behavior always, she never does anything wrong and she's all I ever wished but I don't know why, I'm not happy. All my family and friends love her but I'm not sure. At first it was great but I'm getting tired of her always perfect ways.

My ex girlfriend was also gorgeous but in a more special way, she was really irresponsible and clumsy but at the same time she was careless and I loved that about her, she was totally crazy and unpredictable and she was always up to do crazy things. I learned so much with her besides all the fights I think I kind of still have feelings for her, but I only realize this now I though I would be happy with the perfect person but it seems I'm not.

My girlfriend loves me very much and I don't want to hurt her what should I do I'm afraid I'm making a mistake

[relationshipDNA]

It's not the fact that she's perfect that bothers you. Its that she's not your ex. The way you talk about your ex sounds like you haven't gotten over her. But there was something I caught about the fact that everything would have been great except for the fighting. What did you guys fight about all the time? It didn't work out for a reason.

A lot of us prefer drama in our relationships because easy, perfect and quiet is uncomfortable. It's not what we're used to and this quiet, drama less type of relationship seems boring. I say, rather than prefer drama, why don't you take the reigns and be the unpredictable one. Surprise her. Make things happen. Why is it just up to her?

I think you have a great girl and if the fact that she's boring is your biggest issues, then take the initiative to bring on the 'drama'...good drama. She'll catch on.

[Asker]

We figth mostly because I was kind of jealous about her having so many guy friends and she didn't see anything wrong with that so she sometimes did things to annoy me even more, but you are rigth I'm not over her

[relationshipDNA]

Oh...Mr Jealous and Ms Push Your Buttons. That must have been a fireworks relationship. I can definitely see how Ms Perfect can drive you crazy with all that good girl crap. lol!

This is a tough situation to be in. You can ride it out with Ms. Perfect, try to go at it Again with Ms. Push Your Buttons, or just chill out and not try to get so serious for now. You have to sort through your feelings for your ex before jumping on to the next or else you'll keep wanting to go back there. Sucks.

[Anonymous]

sometimes there being some friction can make things more interesting. Predictability is good for a car but it's not that exciting in a relationship. It's possible that NEITHER of these women are the one for you. Just because you aren't happy with the one you're with now doesn't mean that if the past relationship wasn't good or healthy that you should return to it. Perhaps you need to find someone who isn't irresponsible but is also unpredictable?

[nadiya]

It sounds like you never got over your ex. Your girl now could actually be perfect but its not going to matter if you're still in love with your ex. Sorry :[ Break it off, tell her why or don't, up to you, but you're never going to be happy with her cause you want your ex.

[Anonymous]

No offense intended but if she's the perfect package she would have 100 other guys waiting to fall madly in love with her. If your 100% sure then break it off but to be honest going to realize what you gave up when there's no chance of getting it back.

Good luck dude I hope there's a happy outcome to this.

[1000111001]

perfect is boring. sorry.