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Well found out she looks at the girl and says you think her boobs are better than mine,what,but my pet hate is beautiful girls and some limp dick ugly fat guy,about 90% porn,raaaar I'm big so I want see the girl enjoying herself crazy style,makes me want make a film,dough to late
,but my pet hate is beautiful girls and some limp d*** ugly fat guy
--------->OH MY GOD MINE TOO!!! I HATE THAT!!!! guess it's for the guys to be able to identify with but come on, gross!
actually I would get p*ssed off if my girlfriend orgasmned over another guy's dick.. I guess its acceptable. Anyways I'm not a big fan of porn I only watch it like once a month. No joke.
See that's exactly why girls feel threatened when guys watch porn. you nailed it.
Boy you got some serious insecurities smh -_-
Okay, it's kinda gross. But, I wouldn't hold it against you as long as it didn't continue after you started dating me. Get it? It sort of makes a girl feel like she's not enough for you. Especially if you have time to look at p*rn, in between dating and the other things you could be or should be doing.
i honestly don't know! I look at my ex boyfriend...he was very very inexperienced, and he watched some p*rn one day and was amazing. Men in general are visual learners...i think that if a man watches p*rn, then he is actually learning something from it...
because when it starts to affect our sex life and the quality of sex I'm getting from him...it's a reason to get mad. when he would rather sit in front of a computer and wank all day while I'm at work and then only give me sex 2 or 3 times the whole 2 weeks he is home it's a problem...when he used to f*** me everyday...2 or 3 times a day sometimes...
ha, I don't know I'm not one to get mad about it
i used to feel like it was downgrading to women and like my guy wished I looked like that
but I don't anymore, I would much rather a guy satisfy his needs by watching porn than groping all over me when I just don't want him to be
and I can honestly say its a lot better when I hang out with a guy when they watch porn before we hang because then theyre usually more for like snuggling and being cute instead of trying anything they possibly can
I'm sure it makes most girls feel as if they are not good enough. I know that's how it makes me feel. But then again, all girls are different. A friend of my has a porn collection and she likes to have "porn parties" and just stay up all night watching pornos...
If you don't want your boyfriend doing it then don't do it to him.
I don't understand myself.
He can look he just can't touch.
If he wants to stare at beautiful women then that's fine, I know he can't touch them (even if he wanted to in most cases)
And I think strip clubs are funny. They get all excited over a lap dance and they can't even touch her because he's sitting on his hands.
On the other hand if my boyfriend was extremely jelous and wouldn't let me look at other guys then I would be mad over the double standards.
I guess the initial problem is that it is usually hidden. I mean I'm not gonna do some of the wild things that those actresses do. So by all means feel free to watch. I think they're funny and tend to do artistic critiquing on them so I don't really watch them. I do have a problem if he'd rather handle his and and just tease me, I will be mad.
it's not a big deal to me at all. as long as it doesn't affect the relationship in any negative way. for example, create unrealistic expectations of sex in real life or acting like some guys do in porns in behaving degradingly towards women. as long as the guy isn't addicted and can keep a reality check on what's real & what's fantasy then everythings cool. I think it would b fun to watch together or create a home-made porn video. sex should be fun & experimental not uptight and serious.
I rarely get mad unless it is homemade porn with an ex. That and excessive watching (you watch porn for hours everyday or every other day ) is where I draw the line.
I watch porn with my boyfriend and have no problem if he watches it solo. I think some girls don't like it because of insecurity or because of the objectification of women. I couldn't care less.
Yeah, the homemade porn with an ex would probably set me off. HAHA
Reminds me of a story.
Friend of mine at uni (Jill) had a digital camera with a video function, and her housemate Sam borrowed it and 'forgot' to delete his homemade porn... solo homemade porn. Turns out he was left handed.
Revenge was sweet however. At his 21st Jill busted out the video for a very very embarrased Sam.
You're my type of girl.. I completely agree. I think that it's stupid to get frustrated and worried about something that guys have been doing for centuries (I guess haha)
That goes for ALL guys including the hot ones lol
right.i don't see anything wrong here..when he watched porn?it gives me smile,cuz I know I am about to get laid..
girls that are fat and low self esteem are the ones who feels so bad about this...
Lmao. xD
They're uptight. The day I yell at my guy about watching porn is the day I become a hypocrite. Porn is amazing and I love watching it with my guy. One of us will see something nice and then try to reenact it. It is awesome!
Haha my boyfriend and I do the same thing....it seriously spices up ur sex life lol
Would you get a little offended you were out with your boy and he checked out other women? Most women do. It's on the same level-maybe worse since he's actually masterbating and fantasizing about other people...I guess that's why some women have a problem with it.
I thinks its because most of the girls in porn tend to be really appealing to the viewer, more so than his girlfriend. (only in some cases) and when the girl sees him watching porn she gets self conscious, tends to think that she has competition and that makes her jealous. its kinda like "why are you watching porn...am I not good enuf for you .." kinda thing.
i wouldn't get mad. most women think the reason why the guy is watching pron means that they (girls) are doing something wrong. like they have failed as gf's.
see guys need it. I don't know why.but they can't jack off to us all the time. I don't mind guys watching.
i infact watch it with my BF. its fun, and we get so horny that sex is amazing!
What if he's imagining doing it with the chick he was watching and not you??? well I guess you still get the benifit of feeling good anyway
To tell you the toroth I love it. It turns mo on and I don’t see why guys can't do this to. I like to watch it with my guy we both get so turned on we can't stop once we start we turn it off and just focus on us. But I just watch it by myself to just the sound to the other girl mooning dues it for me. I don’t know why people get mad at porn.
I don't.I myself like porn,and I enjoy watching it with my guy and trying new things.But what would bother me is if he becomes dependent on it and can start only being turned on by porn and only comes to me so I can finish him off.And like the 2nd male answer said,if he were to compare me or my skills to porn stars,it would make me feel insecure and not good enough,and make me feel infereior in a way.
I watch more porn than my BF, which he was startled about.
I personally don't mind it. I think girls should either get over it, or just be more open to sh*t.
Obviously I'm a very very sexually oriented person...hence almost-addiction level porn use, so my Boyfriend usually prefers me. Although it can be fun browsing porn to find something you're both interested in...or even something to laugh at.
Seriously people. Porn is ancient. It's sometimes...a little odd or extreme, but whatever floats your boat floats it.
Besides...you can get some pretty .enjoyable. inspiration from a good old bit of porn.
i honestly don't get mad when guys watch porn, my guy friends talk about it all the stinking time together and it doesn't bug me. all guys watch it so you gotta expect it .
although, if you're in a relationship it might be kind of different .. if you don't feel you're being pleased enough with the person you're with, why are you with them ?
I totally agree. I see no problem at all with porn. And frankly if I did I'd be mighty hypocritical. I watch it more than my boyfriend does. And just because I watch it doesn't mean I think any less of him. And I NEVER picture the porn stars when we are having sex. Actually I sometimes, put our faces on the porn stars when I watch. But that's just me.
well a lot of girls seem to take it as there not good enough to get you horny or something...then they get mad.
Simple solution: Don't watch it?
It's worked wonders for me.
And no, I'm not joking.
Lol my boyfriend did the exact same thing, so that there wasn't any dramas with us.
good thinking :P
@what-do-guys-want Drama? Why would there be any drama? He was watching porn not sleeping with one of your bff's!! smdh
i personally don't get mad because its just a fantasy and it arises them just as to women. but I can see how some women may feel threaten by their partners watching p*rn and seeing beautiful amazing women in naked and the way they satisfy themselves in bed. it may feel like there not enough for their males.
I believe it because they think that we do not find them attractive anymore, and some women need to always know they are beautiful and wanted.
LOL Not "some" women, dude... ALL women need that. Some are just more insecure about it.
I think girls get jealous too easily... Although it could also be because it is a bit like a fling when you masturbate over porn...
Meh... Porn is kinda boring really. I'm not sure what the attraction is, nor do I see the reason to get jealous over it.
I'm checking back on some of my old answers. Doing a follow up.
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PLEASE WAKE UP... Whom is able to understand? It is not what the country could do for you, but it is what you could do for you country! BEING SELF-SATISFIED... SEEKING FOR ONLY FOR ONE'S INTERESTS... I FEEL THAT IT IS HOW ROME COLLAPSED. Do you know what your asking?
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Wtf man get the f*** off of her with that shit man you stupid
Haha, I get it.
Hes talking about how the CIA is using the War on Terror to destroy aliens hiding in Afghanistan and how John F. Kennedy went back in time to Rome and started boffin all the chicks there......
Yep, now it makes sense.
i think you answered the wrong question
Well I know my girlfriend doesn't really mind me watching porn and I only do it when she's not around. Really though the only reason I do it in the first is because I need to release sexual tension, lol if it was ever an option between doing something with my girl or porn it'd smash the computer, well turn it off anyways, and jump into bed with her no question.
The girls that get mad are scared that the guy will be more attracted to the porn star and want the girl to do what the porn star does. Don't lie, it's the cold, honest truth.
Probably for the same reason some guys get mad when they find out their girlfriends have dildos.
Yeah! I realize they'll say "it's not the same", but the reaction is the same. It's hurtful, and you feel like you're not enough for the other person. Great example!
I whould think finding out a guy has his onw 'toy' is the same thing.i feel like that when my girl checks out other guys..so I told her don't cehck out other guys if you don't expect me to check out girls...so girls watching porn is same thing as guys watching it
Guys who get mad over that have no imagination and "me have little penis" complexes. come on, now. I would love to find a dildo in her sock drawer. "Put it in! Put it in!!!!!!!!!!"
Ha ha, interesting....Girls, what would you do if you found a Fleshlight [Google it] under your bf's bed; Guys, what would you do if you found a bunch of gay porn in your gf's room [dudes fing dudes].
Heehee I'd beg him to let me watch him use it. But he's too shy about that kind of stuff.
yo girl don't like it when you spend time on stuff like that but I like a girl that would let me watch it with her on the real dog girls think that you should spend your time watching and taking care of them so just try to reson with her
Not sure ... maybe it's because it would make me feel like I'm not enough to satisfy his needs.
I just know I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be watching porn & if he does, I don't think I wanna know about it.
Although I'm not completely against it, a lot of people are because it often objectifies women.
its mostly because its juss perverted to watch naked girls that you don't even kno.
they think its gross to have fantasys about girls private parts.
i for one have no problem if my guy if he wanted to watch porn..its what they do and I'm okay with it. and if he wanted I would gladly watch it with him, because who knows we could have some fun together.
In the end we end up thinking that we aren't pleasuring him enough therefore we get mad; I on the other hand don't give a sh*t either way. If he isn't pleasured by me who care? I'll dump his ass and find another boy toy~
First of all, pporn is gross. Second, I don't think we, as girls, should let our men look and fantasize about other women. This could possibly lead them to cheating on you! They should be happy enough with you!
because we would much prefure him looking at us then another girl.
i mean, if e really wants a video to watch when his girl isn't there, then both make a porno.
but most girls don't like the fact that he is getting off to another girl.
Some people just don't like porn in general. Some people are insecure in their relationships that they think porn might ruin it. I think it's because the community here is highly religious and the religious type tend to be more conservative.
As noted down below.
because you want the guys to fantasize about you and not another girl even if they are just on a movie or whatever we want them to just want us and no one else specialy if your dating the person!
Most of us do.
I don't think that would ever happen... Thoughts come about whether you or him like it or not, but we wouldn't like it either if you fantasized about other guys. haha
I agree. xD
I don't know about other wives- with their rolling pin bats and what not- but my husband ans I watch porn together! It gives us a little nudge with our sex life and gives us new ideas to try. It depends on the relationship and the "type" of porn being watched. For example- I would worry a little bit of I caught my husband watching gay porn or some kind of female torture hard core BSDM. It all just depends on the situation and circumstances.
i don't get mad when my boyfriend watches porn...its normal so... I don't know why anyone would get mad about that ^^
well. I have no problem with it. Girls aren't the only ones with needs. If the guy watched pron like every day, it'd start to get irritating. but, its totally normal for them.
In short
When it's ok:
99% of the time
When it's not ok:
If he wants to watch p*rn but not have sex with you
And the later only applies to a boyfriend
Well honestly for me I don't care if my boyfriend uses it to masturbate, but just the fact that he's watching another girl get f***ed, and him pretending he's f***ing her upsets me...like it feels like he's cheating on me because he's imagining f***ing another girl...ya know? I can't compete with a porn star.
Maybe he's imagining he's f***ing you
A) they might think it's sexist.
B) They might be jealous that you are watching it instead of having sex with them.
C) It might make them feel insecure.
But personally, I watch it myself sometimes, and I really don't care if the guy I'm with, watches porn. As long as it's not an addiction. But there really isn't any thing wrong with it. If it means my boyfriend will stay true to me, by watching it, instead of having sex with some girl, then that's fine with me.
I don't get mad when my boyfriend watches porn, I just feel a little worthless...like I'm not enough, but I guess that's natural. Any other guy, I just laugh.
I might be strange but I have told my boyfriend to watch porn. I like to encourage it. When he dose he comes to me with new things to try and he becomes better at things by watching what the guys do. MAYBE ITS JUST ME
I don't get mad about guys watching porn, I have even watched porn with my husband and found him some.
Those women have major trust issues or they just don't know how to look at the big picture.
Im a guy but I think a girl would get pissed off because you won't find the girl you like attractive.
Usually girls feel insecurity about them selves when their partner looks at it. Really shouldnt be such a matter
I wouldn't because I like porn and I'm secure enough with myself to know that its just some stupid girls and guys have fantasies.
I love that about my girlfriend she doesn,t. She does not care if I look at it or not. But some girls do because they get jelous there man is looking at other women.
thank you.
girls don't like it when there man it watchinmg another girl having sex.
i think all guys do it and guys will be guys.
I don't get mad about porn. I watch it with my guy. I have even sometimes looked at when I am by myself. Every girl is different though.
As long as he's not looking at kiddie/teenie porn or gag brothers type stuff I don't care. As you can tell by the jargon I use I know a little about porn myself teehee. Maybe I don't care because I watch it myself who knows.
If the man is not getting any he will try to watch porn or if he feels lonely. He will try to hide it but when a girl caches the man he will be embarrassed and the girl will be mad because its not her he's looking at.