Ladies: Your takes on both "High Energy" and "Low Energy" men.

[Zodiac988]

By "H.E." I mean thrill seeking try anything once types; By "L.E." I mean easy going, mellow types (but not boring). Maybe comment on positives and negatives of each type?

[Anonymous]

HE Positive: They will chase you around like puppies, always push your limits and try to get you to do something. The sex is great. GREAT.

HE Negative: It's like being with an ADHD kid. The puppy-dog thing is cute at first, but often gets old. They have no staying power and easily lose interested in a girl who is not as active and crazy as they are.

LE Positive: They work well with me (since I'm sort of high energy myself, with serious mellow streaks baked in). They're slow to show you their true feelings, but can be very romantic when they do. The sex is...mellow... but often in a good, sensual sort of way.

LE Negative: If you're not REALLY patient, this is not the guy for you. He may take forever to tell you he loves you, or may make snap judgements and not let on because he's busy being his mellow self.

[Zodiac988]

Thank you. Very good answer.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. :-) Hope it helps!

[djbreal87]

what if you fall under both types? I am for the chase, being spontaneous and out going, and urging my partner to try new things, but also don't mind if they dont. But I also like to show my feelings in a romantic way and just slow down, stay in, cuddle on the couch, watch a movie, and have some reallt heated passionate sex, as opposed to the "20 min" romper. How would you respond to a man that is about equal in both areas?

[Opinion Owner]

As I mentioned, I'm in both categories myself. So you'd find somebody who is "your speed" and in both categories. The QA is asking for the general terms of both categories, which are extreme opposites in many ways.

Most people are a much more of one than the other, with some cross-over (e.g., 80% HE traits with 20% LE traits, or vice versa). It's not to say that anyone is 100% HE or LE...

[ilovemen]

this is a tough one. I can be quite "hyper" soi need someone who's a bit more calm. but I do want someone who plays along with my stupid spontaneous ideas :) trying everything once is totally my attitude, so doesn't hurt if he feels the same way...

[Camilus]

"By "L.E." I mean easy going, mellow types"

...and types that have such low energy they have to abbreviate short words.

[Zodiac988]

Huh? Wha?

[Prettygurl12]

haha :P

[Yeahhbro]

High Energy when they are young

Low Energy when they are old and they want to settle down.

[ilovemen]

yea true. problem is I'm still inbetween lol

[Anonymous]

Most people like a combination of both.