Do girls like it when they hurt a guy's feelings?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I think girls take this sadistic pleasure in hurting a guys feelings. so do you like it?

[slepmef]

Okay I'm just going to be completely honest here (even though this is not the answer we get taught to give by society).
I consider myself a good person, I'm very empathetic and I overall don't like hurting people, even strangers. I try to always make everyone feel comfortable/their best.
But I've met a lot of guys who hurt me really, really bad. Who had me crying myself to sleep multiple nights, dragged me down, made me incredibly insecure etc. And if I get to hurt them back, yes, I do enjoy it. If you cross a certain line, I will not feel bad hurting you and it might even make me feel better.
Yes I know this is not an ethically correct answer but I'm just aknowledging my feelings and being honest (and sometimes I will try and tell myself to calm down and just ignore someone instead of acting on these feelings ;) ).

[kdizzleforizzle91]

I try to always be honest. But I can't help if a person's feelings get hurt. I just try to always say what I mean and mean what I say... hoping that it comes out in the right way and still get my point across. If anything, I'm the type that distances herself from a guy to try to avoid hurting him when I'm going through a rough time. I'm kind of going through that now and I hate it, because he thinks it means I don't want him anymore.

[Billlewis]

I think it's more a case of some women wanting to put guys down a little bit, and revel in rejecting a guy who isn't in their class. I think that's part of being a woman to begin with -- having the decision making power to either accept or reject every (or almost every) guy who approaches her, and there's nothing wrong with that.

[may04]

No I do not like hurting people's feelings, however that won't stop me from saying things if they need to be said. There is a difference between honesty and just plain nastiness, which I do not partake in the latter.

[karenirving307]

no of course not I don't like hurting peoples feelings and I have hurt guys feelings but I don't feel happy about it I feel bad for him and sad and guilty about it.

[cheesesilence]

No.. We actually get worried if we have offended someone, boy or girl.. Even some egoistic girls will sadden by conscience if they have offended boys unless they have mean personalities..

[Catie101]

i would never enjoy hurting anyones feelings, regardless of how much I dislike them. I don't see the fun in seeing others hurt...

[eatitgud]

No only if we're evil but not really we actually feel sad

[skittledittle]

if he was a douche, hell yes.

[calialltheway1993]

No...