Do guys not care if they hurt a girl's feelings?

[princess_for_life]

i notice a lot of times guys say things that will hurt a girl's feelings but don't seem to notice or care. today I was hanging out with a group of friends and one guy said, "hey sara, I saw a girl today who looked just like you, except she was hot and had huge t*ts" and then switched to talking about video games without even noticing that it made Sara sad. one time in college I did badly on an exam and was upset about it and a guy told me that's why girls shouldn't be in college, because we're too stupid to succeed. things like this happen to me and my girl friends all the time, and I'm wondering if guys don't notice or just don't care.

[bryanbueno]

there are going through a phrase to learn it the hard way or it could be changed by the girl telling him that it really hurt me (referring to her) when he said that. Any guy that does hurt her in any way (emotionally, physically, mentally) that doesn't even know how to respect & appreciate when something good she does for you.

I'm saying this because I want people and you to know this.

Not speaking of anything sexually or abusing or even aggressive

Because those who do talk like that don't have any sense of humor and don't know how to really love a women and tell her great things that you have found out about her.

[Voltaire]

Some guys say that sort of thing to be funny, or to impress their friends. But we that's how we act towards each other, if I were to screw up, I'd expect my friends to rip on me. It's all in good humor. Some guys don't realize that girls do the whole "feelings" thing, which leads to what you've observed.

[Anonymous]

That just tells me that the guys in question are insecure and say/do things like that to try to take the attention off their own shortcomings.

[kkandbb]

Uh! They sound horrible! I wouldn't associate with nasty guys like them.

[AnAnonymousPerson]

Those guys are considered by the general population to be "Douches". Not all guys are like that. Sure, I might joke around but there's a definitive difference.

[sa230e]

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. For what it's worth, not all men are rude trouser stains.

[Anonymous]

Not every guy is like that. There are a few who actually care.