I don't find my boyfriend very handsome, should I stay with him?

[Anonymous]

I definitely love him.. but I love the way he talks, his character ,that he's so ambitious,romantic, funny..

We are together 3 years and he's like a part of me now, he's my best friend and someone I feel happy with, I feel so safe with him.

But I don't find him very haddsome, I think he's average..i would give him 3/10 only .

I dream about other guys who are handsome and attractive.. but I know they are not so good people like him .

Do you think I should stay with him? is this real love ?

[lynielyn]

from my experience i dated numerous of guys... from hot to ugly... Often time I feel that the hotter the guys ; the less they would have to do to impress the girls since they know that girls would be throwing themselves at them. "most" of these guys don't really treat you well. These are the guys I avoid. However; not all hot guys are jerks. I dated a really hot guy for 6 years because he treats me really well however he was very uneducated and I had to move on. i was physically attracted to him but eventually the "physical" attraction wards off and what's left is the emotional connection and I suppose that wasn't strong enough for me to remain with him. In the end the "physical attraction" does ward off and what is left is emotional connection between the two of you.

[QueenBeatris]

wow...seriously..if he's that good to u,forget the others...just because someone looks good doesn't mean they are...good looking guys for the most part attract many women cute and not so cute,they don't make good boyfriends...just like a beautiful rose has thorns,he may not be handsome but he has inner beauty so that makes up for the 3 of of ten,which brings it 8 out of ten,the rule is if you have a guy in your life who meets at least 80% of your needs(not counting looks) then why would you trade it for the other 20% he is lacking,count your lucky stars that you met your prince charming early in your life,sometimes it takes a long time to find that one you can count on...he is a keeper.

[Ashley8282]

So you feel emotionally connected to him but have lost you're physical desire for him.

You are already looking at and thinking about other men.

If you could improve him physical what would you improve?

[DrakeEdward]

You don't need our advice, read your question and you will see that you already have your answer...

[kespethdude]

Yes, you should, you should NOT be shallow, be a good person for a change and stay with him.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't stay with him, because you are incredibly shallow, you don't deserve him! Seriously, who are you to judge and rate someone who loves you and treats you well? Shame on you. I bet you aren't great looking either. Why else would you be dating someone you consider less attractive than you. Perhaps you don't deserve someone more attractive than a "3" I doubt he's really unattractive. I think you're just shallow. Once you leave him, you're going to find a jerk who you consider handsome and probably isn't really and you're going to want him back. Then he's going to find a girl 10x hotter than you are, and you're going to want him back ...and he won't want you. Girls like you give girls genuinely care about someone's character and personality a bad name! And don't say you do...otherwise you wouldn't be asking such a ridiculous question!

[Anonymous]

1. you love him

2. he's your best friend

3. you feel happy/safe with him

who cares if he's some hot hunk of a guy or not?