Its not superficial lol. The sexual attraction is the whole thing nearly. The personality and that is just the embellishment not the other way around. Its the plain and the ugly trying to convince all the young ones that sexual attraction is just the sideshow and the main event is the feeling and all that shite lol. It ain't. Listen to you body and what it tells you coz it's right. Okay you like the guy might even love him but if you don't want him there's little point. He'll start becoming an obstacle and you'll end up resenting him, especially when you meet somebody you do want
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im so so sorry, but I got to respect the guy, anyway, attraction, what are we talking a 5/10? 4? lower? coz a 5 or whatever can be down to how he dresses, take him shopping then and make it a shopping date or something. but otherwise, I dunno
Don't date people you aren't attracted to, you do not love him you are 16, also if you loved him we wouldn't be having this conversation, you just feel guilty for not wanting to be with someone who probably is just trying super hard to snub a pretty girl, he might not really be nice, kids these days.
Any girl who doesn’t tell her superficial friends to fuck off when they say something against her boyfriend doesn’t deserve him.
You say he’s sweet and lovely to you, extend him the same courtesy instead of letting people bad mouth his appearance
Whenever you get sick of looking at his face, just lay him down, climb on top of it, and go for a ride.
#problemsolved
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Try not to let it bother you. Same thing happened with my now husband but his personality and our love for each other far outweighs his looks. Looks fade. Don't pay attention to what your so called "friends" say.
Well, you love him.
Are you not attracted to him because he's ugly? Or because of what other people say?
If you find him ugly (or not your type) - there's only so much you can do about it. Up to you if you want to hang on or leave. And for me, leaving a relationship because your partner is no longer attractive to you physically is fine.
If you find him not attractive because your friends tease you - then don't listen to them. What matters is you love this guy.You could know someone isn't all that handsome/pretty and still be attracted to them because of who they are as a person. What's more important to you? And who cares what other people think about him, do you like him or not, you're the one dating him.
Try to mitigate your lower instincts. We can't force ourselves to be attracted to someone, but we can train our sense of what we find attractive.
In our culture there is such a huge emphasis on sexualizing our partners and the instant gratification of being with someone attractive, but in our culture relationships are generally short, rare and miserable. Break the mold.I think that you should follow your heart and not what anyone has to say. It really shouldn't matter about looks, because you could find a guy that has the perfect looks and body but his heart doesn't matter. It's important in a relationship to do what makes YOU feel happy and not what people say. Good looks is very easy to find, but to find a heart that matches is very rare.
Doesn't his personality make him attractive?
If you don't find him attractive in anyway but you "love" his personality and you have him like a best friend, you should break up.Jesus Christmas the cringe I can't even answer this because, like God damn what if it was me..
I Don't Think This Is Even A Problem, Your Friends Opinion On Him Shouldn't Even Bother You If You Really Love Him For Who He Is And Not What He Looks Like.
Hmm move on, make him not like you if you feel sad about making him hurt. Just use the i have a lot on my mind card.
This is why i make sure sexual attraction is established first before I even think of being with a girl this is why hooking uo first is important in my eyes. I never want to be in that poor man's position.
He can still be Ur best friend. You can still love him but not be attracted to jim
If you break u with him for someone more attractive you run the risk of being treated like shit.
Well u can talk this with him, I'm sure u can settle this nicely with him...
Just give it more time and don't listen to others listenbto your heart
If it really bothers you don’t do it trust me I’ve done it before and it didn’t end well (if it’s soemtjing that really bothers you)
You should be single then
I am single
Could be something sweetStop listening to your friends. Listen to your heart
Then break up. You're leading him on.
Get better friends.
Break up with him
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