I love my boyfriend so much more than anything in this world and he's such an amazing man, but recently he's gained a lot of weight and i tried talking to him about his weight but he isn't doing anything about it and I dont find him as attractive as I did when he was more fit, am I shallow for feeling this way?
I don’t think it’s shallow. You started dating him because you were attracted to how he looked, if he’s let himself go, I think he’s probably going through something. Try to figure out what that is and if you can help. Maybe get a gym membership and encourage him to join you. Or start hiking or biking?
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No you are not wrong
Every person must put effort if they want to be attractive/ presentable
Plus being in shape not only helps in being attractive , but also in being healthy
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Why has he put on weight? What's changed in his life?
I have gained weight and my guy has lost attraction with me
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