My boyfriend said I'd look sexier if I lost weight but I'm not overweight in the first place?

[Anonymous]

I am of average weight, I mean I have abit of extra weight but I'm not overweight. Do you think I should lose some weight for him?

[Brick_]

Ok for everyone who is saying to dump him, stop! From what it sounds like, I don't think he was calling her fat or not sexy. I believe the choice is up to you. If you want to lose weight go for it! I know I try to workout more when I have a girlfriend because I know it'll make her happier (but it is my choice to do that). So, I would say go for it if you want! however, if you get the impression that he was saying you aren't pretty right now or that he is forcing you to change, you may want to reconsider the relationship. However, it sounds like it was a passing remark. I personally would workout more to feel better personally + make my girlfriend happier. You can do what you want. Just make sure you don't feel like he is forcing you to look better.

[coachTanthony]

If you agree with him in some fashion then do it... but do it for yourself. If you think you look fine as is then dump the boyfriend and find someone who appreciated you for you!

[AggresivelyYours]

sweetie.. being in a relationship means both partner accepts and love each other.. and if he really loves you, he would accept your body weight regardless.. you would be beautiful in his eyes.. I had an ex.. he said that I looked ugly wearing glasses and it really hurt. but I didn't give a shit cause it's my body. never change yourself for someone else..

[VictoriaVille]

That's an awful thing to say to you.

You should lose a little weight , get in better shape them dump his ass. Tell him if you weren't good enough for him with a few extra pounds , then he's not good enough for you now you've shed those extra pounds 😜

[JulieXO]

If you want to look your best for him then yeah. If you feel comfortable in your body and think you look good enough, then no.

[scooogy]

Tell him the first bit of weight you'd lose would be him

[scooogy]

Thanks for MHO :)

[BellePepper]

No you should tell him to fuck off and keep his unwanted opinions to himself.

[soccerchick4eva]

your body so you made the deicision, dont let him guilt you into something because in the end your living the body not him, you can take his opinions though but he can't force you

[Princeofanons]

Nope. never lose weight for someone else. He's not worth your time.

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

Your body. Your choice.
Does he have anything you want him to improve upon for you?
I mean would he look sexier if he had bigger muscles?

[notallthere98]

What a dick. You don't have to change for him. If you want to lose weight, do it for you. But don't do it just to please him

[Anonymous]

for yourself = yes
for him = no, he's too immature and focused on how your body affects his dick and what your body can do for dick

[therealshubhank]

try working out to gain muscles and if it still doesn't makes you look sexier to him then the problem's with him

[Anonymous]

Then tell him that he would look sexier if he had bigger muscles, or something along those lines.
You shouldn't lose weight for anyone but yourself.

[Anonymous]

Question:
How exactly did the conversation go down?
Was it like: "You should lose weight." or "You'd be sexier if you lost weight."?

[Lethrblakaa]

Never do something because of someone else. You put yourself and your desires first.

[Lilou123]

Don't lose weight 😊 You are perfect as you are.
If you want to lose weight because you think you will feel better, do it. Don't do it for someone else ☺️

[__Kayla_Burke__]

No, If he loves you, he wouldn't make you change. I suggest talking to him about it, figure out why exactly he wants that. I don't think you should have to change for anybody.

[Anonymous]

You could lose some weight for him, but I think the better option is to find a decent boyfriend that won't ask you to lose weight to look sexier.

[Anonymous]

No! If you want to ever do something like that you do it for yourself. Not him

[manish_swami]

just go for jogging... he likes that u r talking extra efforts

[Anonymous]

It is so obvious he cares your physical apprearance, rather than the soul.

Leave him !

[Ayshea]

Kick him to the curb.

[Garkrum91]

tell him to go fuck himself

[Rockstar06]

Fuck NO! Lose the boyfriend instead of the weight

[Neverrrmore]

No. If you want to lose weight lose it for you.

[Anonymous]

haha your average is normal person fatty lol

[Anonymous]

No I think you are good just the way you are

[cupidkisses]

he likes thinner

[Anonymous]

Yes.