My boyfriend's fantasy women are all skinny, does that mean I need to lose weight because I'm fat?

[Anonymous]

[AaronKrieger]

No, he likely still finds you attractive, since he is with you. People can find those who aren't their usual type attractive, as I know from experience. If he communicates that he wishes you to lose weight, then I would consider it. It's fine to change for your partner as long as that change is genuinely healthy and reasonable.

However, I would try incorporating healthy habits in your life if you haven't already no mattter what the case is. For yourself, I don't think you should focus on the number and looks aspect so much. Instead, prioritize putting in the effort to do healthy things. It doesn't mean you should have a completely healthy diet and be pushing yourself to the max with exercise, but just incorporate some of it.

[StrangerSwotto]

Kinda depends tho. I mean if it works out for the both of you then feel free but however if it is only due to him, then don't.

You should not change yourself to the way which your boyfriend likes but he should be liking you as the way you are.

[Asker]

Thanks! I want to lose weight for me but I'm not going to lie to say that he is an influence a little bit. But I know bottom line I should be losing it for me and I am for the most part.

[strateguy632]

wrong reason ask doctor if you should lose weight.

[Asker]

I'm sure the doctor would say I need to lose weight at my size for my height.

[MementoMori777]

no but your boyfriend cuffed you for a reason tho, seems like he overlooked the weight no?

[Asker]

Yes I guess so but it just feels weird to me that his fantasy girls are Christina Aguilera and Eva Mendes which I look nothing like. It makes me feel like he settled.

[MementoMori777]

well lets be foreal, many men have celebrities as fantasy girls but thats why they are fantasies because it meant to stay that way, he got himself a girl tho and im sure he is happy, its like you drolling over a celeb crush, not meant to be anything else, its not for you to get self conscious about it

[Asker]

I guess you're right. Thanks.

[MementoMori777]

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[Anonymous]

No, just find a more compatible man.

[jjj101010]

Hard to say without seeing you