okay, sweetheart, you are gorgeous and clearly have a sexy as body and definitely do not need to lose any weight, this boyfriend however, you could afford to lose. any prick who thinks he has the right to drop shitty comments like that, can go and fuck himself. he sounds like a blinded control freak with really big insecurities about himself that he is pushing onto you. and that is NOT healthy in any relationship. online relationships are always kind of risky, how long have you been seeing him? be careful about meeting up with him cause he sounds like an absolute ass. you really need to do sth about him, or it could go on to grow into an even bigger problem. you're beautiful and i am LOOOVING ur piercings! xxx
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1. You are gorgeous.
2. A boyfriend should be supportive and like, then love you the way you are. You haven't even met this guy in real life and he's already trying to change you? He sounds sick and manipulative, please dump him right this second.
3. Don't let anyone change the body image you have of yourself. What counts is how you feel about your body, and that is amazing you feel good at such a young age - some women take 50 years or more to learn that lesson.
4. You have a fit body in no way are you fat.
5. I'm repeating myself - but dump him - you will find someone amazing who appreciates you for who you are and how you look.
You're not overweight, you have a healthy, beautiful body. I think it's really, really low of him to ask that of you, especially given your past relationship with your body & weight. I would break this off before it even starts - you deserve better xx
Your boyfriend is a piece of shit. Your value as a person is inherent within you. It has nothing to do with your weight, or your looks, or whatever else you can think of. By our very nature of simply being human we are all equally valuable people, you included. I highly encourage you to seek some form of therapy and to stop talking to your boyfriend. He will only bring you negativity and you don't need or deserve that. You look like you're at a healthy weight and I genuinely mean that. I wish the best for you.
he's a fucking idiot, you're certainly not fat, not even close.
to me you look like an attractive girl. i have to wonder whether he's trying to make you anxious about your appearance to control you or something.
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You look fine chick. I can't believe that guy said you needed to lose weight. Like WTF? How could he even begin to think you are overweight? I like a woman with a little bit thickness. You got curves. I'd be weary of this dude. If he keeps bugging you to change your weight, then I'd leave him the dust. There are guys that would love to date a woman with your physique.
I'd be your boyfriend... You're hot even if you gained or lost weight... You look perfect as you are now! I go for personality more but I only look for personality in gorgeous girls like you. Who wouldn't want to wake up to your hotness every morning.
He's an asshole. It's your body, do what you want to do, but it's fucked up for him to tell you that you should change yourself for him. No guy is worth it. If he really cares about you, he'd love you the way you are. Only lose weight if that's what you want to do. I think you look beautiful, but I'm not your boyfriend so my opinion probably doesn't matter much. You look like you're at a healthy weight, you don't need to change anything if you don't want to
Not only are you a perfectly fine weight and quite attractive, but regardless of that, what he is saying to you is horrible. I would urge you not to continue your relationship with him. His comments are insensitive, manipulative, and borderline abusive. It's absolutely not a healthy relationship, and it is an especially dangerous situation for you since you have a history of an eating disorder.
you don't look fat to me. But you shouldn't go just for ur boyfriend's word about losing weight. If u want, u can ask ur physician whether u r overweight (which u don't seem to be), and what is the healthy weight range for ur age n height. U look fit n fine by the way...
Ok gurl ur body is perfectly perfect like it’s not skeleton but not overweight u look healthy and in good condition. And ur waist is tiny af it’s smaller than mine and I’m still in early teens lmao I should rlly exercise but break up with that stupid boi ok?
You're very beautiful, but everyone has their own opinions on who they like. No person can tell you change, or how to change. Just be you, don't change because someone tells you, keep your body the way it is. Maybe, find a partner who doesn't judge about what you look like and focuses on mostly your personality. Good luck, mi'lady!
You have a really nice body and you aren't fat at all. Your boyfriend is either blind or just being a jerk. I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Keep loving the way you look and don't let a guy like him tell you otherwise 😊
dump his ass and get a real man. You are too beautiful to let anyone say that to you! I think you have a beautiful body and look too sweet to be treated like that!
That's sad; I'm really sorry you're going through this. No you don't look fat at all. He sounds like he just prefers a girl being very petite. You do look a bit nervous in your pic. Him having that attitude with you I don't think has helped.
You don't need to lose weight, you need to lose your boyfriend.
Your new boyfriend sounds like a dick. It sounds like he is very critical and unhappy with the way you look. You look fine in the pictures but if your unhappy just exercise a little more don't make yourself throw up.
Ok i am not trying to be mean but lets break it down.😊 first your face, the stud above your right side of your lip is meh thats person preferences. The eye liner is kinda too dark for your skin tone. Gorgeous eyes though. Now body wise. You look beautiful i mean your a bit thinner than i prefer but again personal preference. The stressed look in your face is just the tones of your make up with your light skin tone if you prefer dark make up the find a medium bronze foundation.😊😊
Measure your BMI. If it's too high, try to lose weight. If not, don't try to lose weight. Don't listen to him. Based on your pictures, it doesn't seem that it's high, so you should be OK.
Um.. interesting posing. You're fine though. You got nothing to worry about, except finding a decent guy.
I'm prepared to give you a hardcore answer if your prepared for it I don't mean any malice just honest opinion and advice if your looking for a critical answer and not some basic answer I got it
I'm sorry your boyfriend is feeding your head with lies.
Your gorgeous and you deserve a older boyfriend who would
love you to no end. <3 :-P :-D -Hugs-You look great, the only thing you need to lose is him!
1) your too young
2) No you shouldn't be posting your pictures you look like your 12 years old.
3) again No your not fatYou can find better men out there who will not call you fat, will appreciate You, and who will treat you better. Your boyfriend is an ass hat
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