After I asked her out, she stopped texting me, why?

[Anonymous]

I know we have a thing for each other. We've both told each other. We where going strong, and all off the sudden she stopped. I asked her if she'd ever heard of this hiking trail, and she said no, and I said, "Lol, we'll have to check it out sometime." but she didn't respond to it. All of the Messages before that where responded to in less than 3 minutes, but I sent that last one 20 minutes ago. Is she still interested in me? Why isn't she saying anything? Did I come on to strong?

[Prilee1992]

''Lol, we'll have to check it out sometimes''
Comon' man,
First, you took away the MYSTERY for women, do you wonder why many women buy so many romantic novels, that's the case, you need to let them WONDER what you're doing next and slowly reveal your cards.
Second, TEXTING/CALLING is simply used for setting up DATES. Talking/Spending too much on these things are going to be detrimental for your dating progress- Simply set the dates, and GET THE HELL OUT FROM THE PHONE!
You asked whether it is coming too strong? Probably, hold back!
Best Regards.

[Thatguy321]

Prob busy. Haha i can think of times where i had a little time to reply back. I think of the reply I'll then click the button to my phone and later on wonder "why didn't they reply?" I look back and i realize it haha

[gingerrr]

Relax man. She is probably busy or thinking about it. 20 minutes and you already assume she doesn't like you? If it were like 3 days then I'd start assuming. you're getting irrational and clingy.

[Asker]

Yeah, yeah. I am not trying to, I just am not very experienced with all of this. That coupled with the fact I'm pretty insecure and nervous about this whole thing makes it much harder for me. She JUST replied anyway, so it's cool.

[gingerrr]

See! You panicked too quickly. Good luck :)

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Rusty83]

20mins ago?
If she hasn't replied in a week then she's not interested!
20mins! Hahaha

[anon1116]

Maybe she is just busy, or thinking.

[anon1116]

Sometimes I will read a message, and then have o think, give her a chance, be patient, and most importantly, let her come to you. If you continuously text her, that will be coming on too strong.