Polls: Girl's Behavior

Enjoying the sun today wearing a flowery sundress with spaghetti straps.

I'm 45. I go bars and clubs by myself because there are not any women my age that want to. They prefer afternoon coffee shop or mediation class 😒

I spent my 20's in a relationship with an older man with drinking problems so we travelled the world but didn't go bars/clubs.

I had some time after thar relationship in my early 30's going out but had younger mates in their mid-20's to go with.

Then I was single mum raising my kids. So didn't go out at all for like 10 years.

Now I love it. And I'm way more confident at my age.

background info: I (24yo F) started at my new job over a month ago. I’m new to the area in general and have 0 friends up here. It’s really hard to make friends in your 20’s I’ve found. I feel like I’m missing out on girlhood and I’m worried that I won’t have any friends to be bridesmaids/share big life goals with.

this girl started at my work a week ago and I’ve only said a few words to her. She seems sweet but very shy, however when I had a little scroll on social media, she seems the opposite, she loves to party and has a lot of girlfriends who she makes cute videos with. She seems really close with them and I would love to have friends of my own.

so the question is: would it be weird if I messaged her and asked her for coffee? What would I even say?

i was out shopping the other day and this woman was crouched down and exposing 2-3 inches of her crack. At first, I got embarrassed but then, I had this impulse to keep looking. I didn’t tell her and just watched for a bit before walking away. So my question is… would you look, walk away or tell her?

First guy was gay
2nd guy was too young (found out his age)
3rd guy blocked me, we worked together so never got speaking again
4th guy moves to Dublin to be a priest!!!

Okay I'm trying to figure out why do many people say short dresses and skirts are sexual and revealing. I want to get men's opinion, because something isn't right. Because whenever a woman dress modest she is still sexualized too. And something isn't making any sense.

If there is something wrong with it. Please comment down below of why you think something is wrong it.

And comment below if you don't think it's not inappropriate nor sexual.

Because as a woman myself. I don't wear short dresses and skirts to please others. I only do it for myself and I don't see nothing sexual about it.

I know, a controversial question, and perhaps even a stupid one, but I've come across this claim often enough on GAG and it's about time we settled this once and for all. I do know, however, that I myself am not in any way irresponsible. I don't owe money, never use credit to shop (always cash), don't gamble, have a lot of money saved up just in case, never date losers, avoid potential mugging spots (not that there are any in this town), and generally behave like an adult. I don't whinge and complain when a decision that I made backfires, nor do I try to shift the blame onto others. I own my mistakes. Can you say the same?

I was a teenager but I never hit anyone or verbally made insults but I used to put my backpack on the seat next to me so this girl won't sit next to me. I also used to move my whole desk an inch away from her. And I would have a rude tone with her. I acted like this for a few months with her. I never hated this girl, just I thought she was annoying and a know it all, like she acted superior with people. But I think she had no intention of humiliating others. So yeah. I think I was a bully, not that bad though but I was still a bully right? Or do people just consider it as teenager stuffs so it's not as bad? Should I apologize? Because I feel like I should or am I overreacting?