Girls would you or do you go to pubs or clubs by yourself?

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I'm 45. I go bars and clubs by myself because there are not any women my age that want to. They prefer afternoon coffee shop or mediation class 😒

I spent my 20's in a relationship with an older man with drinking problems so we travelled the world but didn't go bars/clubs.

I had some time after thar relationship in my early 30's going out but had younger mates in their mid-20's to go with.

Then I was single mum raising my kids. So didn't go out at all for like 10 years.

Now I love it. And I'm way more confident at my age.

Seriouslyjojo · Accepted Answer

To be totally honest it is a bit nerve racking to go alone and I’d much rather be with someone I trusted, but most of my friends are either not the type to go to a bar or club, or not old enough to drink (by 1 year; gonna have so much fun when she’s old enough though).

So yeah I would go by myself and have before, but I don’t really recommend it unless you can find a group of girls, or a nice guy who you feel comfortable with asking to take you to your car/Uber.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

i could for a club or a certain type of bar, though really prefer going with people. i used to try going to random bars alone, but never again. did that when i was 16-18 and it was 99% dudes. depending on the bar it was either middle age dudes sipping cheap beer playing money games and horse race betting or 20-30yo thirsty construction worker dudes that will come hit you up immeditately

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I voted simply because I wanted to see the results. Women who don't go out alone should not complain about not being able to find a guy. I realize there are safety concerns, but you don't have to go home with a guy, and you can take Uber/Lyft/Cab home afterwards.

If you want to meet a man, put yourself out there. Men do it.

strateguy632 · Accepted Answer

i wouldn't, just buy the six pack for a bit more than one botle at the pube, frij it chill , then blast music at home.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I've totally done it before. I've gone sober and a little pre-gamed. A little liquid courage always helps me feel confident enough to enter a chat with people I don't know.

Unless I'm having the time of my life with a group of girls I found while out - I do try to tuck in around by midnight or whenever the club ratio starts turning into a sausage fest.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I go with my friends... lately, not so often as earlier :D

I think I made my decision and don't see any reason to go to loud places like clubs

and I frequent one Irish Pub with my friend... but also sometimes go there alone, especially to listen to my fav band

Viola_456 · Answer

Yes i go alone. I dont have problem to go home alone at night. If someone tries to rob me or anything... I Wish them good luck, couse they dont want to piss me off when im drunk 😂

DishLady · Answer

I do, but only the places where I know the owners and the neighborhood really well. I won’t just hop into a random bar/pub for a drink.

GeminiDiamond · Answer

I use to if everyone was busy, and I dated. I'm not sitting home looking out my window. Take an Uber, tell the driver give me your number to pick me back up, if I need it. Don't get too 'runk. Bars and clubs have security and there's police. Yes.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I don’t go to clubs or bars since I’m below drinking age. Even when I am 21 I don’t think I’d want to go anyway

chrissykerdock · Answer

a hotel bar i would throw on a minidress and you'll find a man who'll buy you drinks and want blowjobs in his room

NYlatefun · Answer

Not a girl here but I do go to pubs/bars by myself every now and then, particularly if I’m traveling. I usually end up meeting people. And sometimes hooking up.

HaleyWalker · Answer

If I even look at the pub or a club I would get tackled by the bouncer person

Kaylei2006 · Answer

And get your drink spiked, I'm good, I need to me 21 first

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I would on occasion back in the day. I have no desire to reclaim my youth and would rather get a good night's sleep nowdays.

MK1997 · Answer

I feel it would be very depressing. I did it once I ordered a drink then went home and cried

Jennz6 · Answer

I work at the Club 💃

Angie03 · Answer

I have but on business or wild traveling making acquaintances fast which turns to friendship.

Anonymous · Answer

Because your friends probably have lives and a husband. They don't want to be around a bunch of alcoholic broke down men

Joshgag2000 · Answer

At that age I would focus on my children instead of going out

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No I'm always with at least one friend.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Love the confidence! Keep it up!

Anonymous · Answer

They don’t

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