Yes I have gone by myself to bars/clubs multiple times and probably will continue to do so on occasion in the future. Even though I don't really like going out by myself, there's a few reasons why I've done it in the past and will probably keep doing it:
1. I've moved around a bit since becoming an adult and I would go out to try and meet new people. I've had some friendly conversations with people, but haven't had much luck in actually making friends in these places.
2. I'm prone to isolating myself and letting anxiety get the better of me, so every once in a while I just force myself to get out and do something. It usually starts out a little nerve-racking, but once I'm there for a little bit the anxiety subsides and I can enjoy having a change of scenery.
As a side note, I've never felt unsafe going by myself, and if I drink I make sure to stay within my limits.
3. Every once in a while I just get the urge to wanna go dance. If there's an event that's playing the stuff I'm into, then I might go for an hour or two, get my song/dance fix then go home. I really don't care about socializing with anyone when this is the reason I go out.
That pretty much sums it up for me I think.
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Club is really not my scene. Only time i go is when someone drags me there. If i really needed a drink I'll have someone who's old enough to legally drink go to the liquor store and buy the drinks i want
When I was younger I went to clubs a lot, and I preferred solo. When I went with wing-men, they'd kind of mess up my whole game and I'd usually end up returning home empty-handed. The one exception was wing-women. If I ended up going with a female friend, and she was talking to me and laughing and we were having a good time, for some reasons girls often approached a lot in those situations, including one ridiculous night where two girls fought over who gets to go home with me. Maybe they thought I was safe since I had the female friend by my side.
Never have, but it'd encourage you to talk to and dance with others, that's for sure.
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I haven't but I would. Typically I go out primarily for the music and usually meet new people anyway. So i dont have a problem with going it alone at the start.
Probably not. I've never been to a club before though.
Yes, but never sober. The alcohol and atmosphere is relaxing even if you’re a loner you can live vicariously watching others dance and socialize. You never know if someone will approach you. As a side note if you are a girl byself at a bar you will be quite approachable because you have no man near you or friends so your motives are less ambiguous just tell a loved one where you are going so its more safe and pack some kind of weapon.
Back in the day, before smartphones and Tinder, I enjoyed going alone because I could take social chances without friends seeing if I fell flat on my face on the dancefloor, or got slapped in the face by the chick in the pink dress.
I do go to bars and clubs alone. I don’t go out a lot but I get the urge to get out of the house and socialise and be around people music fun so if I do then I just pluck up the courage and go.
I have gone in afternoon if that counts.. lol. but usually in night we are with friends.. though i would like to try once..
I go to bars and clubs alone all the time. Hell, even on my previous 3 birthdays I’ve been to clubs alone 😂. Don’t let it stop you I guess.
When I was a teenage and then a 20-something TFL/incel alone was the only way that I went anywhere.
Nightclubs and bars were a complete waste of money and time.Yes I have. And now I never go to clubs. My thing is the Internet. Much better use of my time and saves money.
All the time. Especially when I'm traveling alone. Whats the big deal? You afraid the boogie man will come or are you just afraid to take you life into you own hands.
Definetly not. Too loud and I dont drink alcohol. Im also not a social person but I wish i had friends.
No, I wouldn't but I don't see anything wrong with people doing so.
no. I saw few people actually alone multiple times. Before few weeks one dude randomly approached us and started cracking stupid jokes, i felt bad for him.
Yes, went by myself numerous times.
Only a few times left the club alone ;)I've never been to a club, but I definitely would if I could! wouldn't be like the guy in the pic though, I would be out there having fun and meeting every new person I could xD
bar yes club no. you should have friends at a club to back you up. as a guy, you talk to the wrong girl or some drunk guy gets you in trouble in some round about way, you need people there for you
I have in the past. I haven't in many years now though.
Definitely not. I only have fun there if I'm with friends
I don't think I would even go with friends. Too loud, too crowded, drinks are too expensive, and I can't dance.
No. I don't like starting conversations with strangers so it would be boring as hell and I wouldn't see the point of doing that.
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