Polls: Girl's Behavior

Be respectful in the description :)

When I go the the bra section of a store I’m always surprised to see that half the stores inventory is this size. This hasn’t changed in the 15+ years I’ve shopped for them. I wonder if people with boobs this size even wear bras. Honestly I wouldn’t if mine where that size. It doesn’t make since. Mean while all the bras in my size should be called “chest support” instead (ugly nude bras). That’s all it is.

Me and other 2 girls want to give our friend something for her bday.

Me and one of the girls think we should give her a necklace cause she doesn't really have.

But the other girl wants to give her a cake cause the friend said she wants cake for her bday.

But it won't be normal, cause she ate cake some days ago, then today, she'll eat cake at her bday, it won't be normal to give her cake again.

I just want to give her something special, but I can't convince that girl.

I know this is dumb, but I really don't know what's better.

How I non violently silenced a BULLY: PART 1.

So, I can’t remember the quote exactly but the essence is — whatever junk you did to earn their ire, will end up in their books! “ I’m wayyyyy paraphrasing so don’t quote me 💦

& I’m def not referring to slander or gossip…more like a nudge in the direction of “STFU! $hitty stuff you do to other people in life, has consequences.”

Well, I grew up in Toulouse, with my great grandmother from age 4-7 and I loved her her friends loved me my friends loved me I loved them, life was beautiful. She passed, due to sone unfortunately ore planning by my actual parents- whom I never really knew-I fell into the hands of a psychologically imbalanced person and we both fell into poverty.

Coming from another culture another language having been gone schooled and encouraged to forge my own path & now living in constant anxiety bc of my guard tan, well, suffice to say, I was peculiar and poor & for some reason, this did not make me popular. 😂

After a few years of being the school “it girl” for all the wrong reasons- I’m 4th grade, I had attracted attention of a girl who just loved to hate me subsequent to her discovery that I had defined abs (1000 chores & a lean diet will do that 🤷🏻‍♀️) I became her pet project.

My strength is my obliviousness to pettiness bc it does not interest me & for some time, I was literal enough that for the most part her antics just flew right by me and I didn’t care. Eventually she realized subtly was not working AT ALL & became as obnoxious as can be….

I always had a very low threshold for irrational statements. I guess she figured this out snd did her best, & succeeded in getting under my skin. She would do ridiculous things that made no sense & were cruel so the combo was meant to be annoying snd humiliating, and it was. And she delivered this chaos over lunch where I was completely stuck with no exit option.

(continued part 2)

By things I mean trying out new restaurants, going to the mall for shopping, visiting new places, running errands on her own.

I am pretty much like that. I do care about my friends and I do enjoy spending time with them but most of the time it is very hard to decide upon any activity when all four of us are together..

I was wondering whether guys find it strange? A possible turn off?

I wouldn't say I aim to be independent but I must admit that doing things on my own is easier, freeing (not having to rely on anyone, wait for anyone, you do what YOU want).

It does NOT mean I wouldn't want to do things with my boyfriend.

Yes I know all of these online sites are very much the same but some have to be based less of photos and more on actual personality, etc. which adds actual value to a relationship.

I tried Match and found the majority of men were not interesting. Most are only reaching out based on looks & when you get to talking to them they really don't have much to offer an intelligent successful woman except their wallets (unsurprisingly a lot were divorced). When I want a partner who'd contribute to my life & I theirs beyond money it was unappealing.

Would you rather have a woman who goes through your phone, doesn't like you having close female friends, etc? But she's loves you dearly and is emotionally expressive. She loves having sex with you.

Or would you rather have a woman who doesn't care about your private life, but you have to constantly keep her from getting bored? She feels like sex with you is a chore, unless you put in the effort and she's not needy in any way? She's emotionally stable. She doesn't believe either partner should check their partner's phone.

:)... the last quote is me tho... sorta.

I would say it's definitely men doing it here's why. The argument goes that women "objectify themselves by wearing revealing clothes. I mean what did they expect men to do". Well women wear revealing clothes because it's hot and/or they're proud of their bodies.

But here's what a lot of people tend to forget: just because you're proud of something about yourself doesn't mean that's all there is to you. Objectifying women isn't about admiring, embracing or celebrating the beauty of the female body. It's a myopic attitude where women are reduced to nothing more than something to look at (i. e. the root of the word objectifying; and object versus a being).

I have a deep voice for a girl, and I sm insecure about it. In voice chat online, whenever I speak there always comes this girl with a high pitched voice from no where and steals the spotlight because she knows she's more attractive than me. I can just have a normal conversation with someone and she will come in and grab the person I'm talking to attention. I feel like having an unattractive voice (deep) as a girl makes people not want to be around me. Literally every other girl I know has a normal or high pitched voice but I have a deep voice. I'm so insecure about it I hate it so much, and the worst part is that I can't change it. It would benefit me if I was male but I am female so it's a curse.

For context, my aunt is 45, and her child with her is 2 years old. She often gets flak from my other family members for "wearing shorts that are too short" or "showing too much cleavage" or "showing her shoulders too much," but I see nothing wrong with the way she dresses, and think she is badass for wearing what she wants, regardless of age. And if I do say so myself, she has the perfect body for wearing more revealing clothes if she wants to. She's clearly in good shape and has strong legs.

Do you get annoyed when you're always the one starting the conversation, or do you not mind always starting them? Or do other people always start your conversations? Do you keep track of how many times you're the one who starts the conversation with each person you interact with? Do you think your level of extraversion or introversion has any effect on the situation?