Yes I know all of these online sites are very much the same but some have to be based less of photos and more on actual personality, etc. which adds actual value to a relationship.
I tried Match and found the majority of men were not interesting. Most are only reaching out based on looks & when you get to talking to them they really don't have much to offer an intelligent successful woman except their wallets (unsurprisingly a lot were divorced). When I want a partner who'd contribute to my life & I theirs beyond money it was unappealing.
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My advice? Invest in a dating app/site like eharmony or any similar pay-to-enter site. Already I feel like dating apps are a scam, with men just looking to hookup, not wanting anything serious things of that nature. Paying to find a match isn’t ideal and may make you feel some kind of way, but I think your chances would be better, because if a guy is will to spend money on the app then he’s more serious about actually finding someone to date.
But Match is paid that's the irony. I could understand if it was Plenty of Fish or something cheap like that.
I haven’t used a dating app since 2020, but I did try Match for a min and it was free to do the basic things, but to unlock more features. Is that still what it is? Because if so then I don’t think those sort of apps are the best choice. As long as there’s the ability to swipe and interact for free, you’ll still be encountering those scummy sort of men. The only app I can think of that’s pay to access is eharmony (I’m sure there are others), and when it costs money to even browse and match, I think that’s when you find more potential. Of course I wouldn’t say that all apps without the paywall are hopeless, I actually know a few women who have found partners through match. It’s just harder.
*but Costs money to unlock more features
They are all designed to put you on display.
Go join/do something new. Find new people there.
I've heard E Harmony is the best.