Do you find it strange/a turn off if a woman prefers to be active on her own? Doing things by herself?

[Jemini_Crocket]

By things I mean trying out new restaurants, going to the mall for shopping, visiting new places, running errands on her own.

I am pretty much like that. I do care about my friends and I do enjoy spending time with them but most of the time it is very hard to decide upon any activity when all four of us are together..

I was wondering whether guys find it strange? A possible turn off?

I wouldn't say I aim to be independent but I must admit that doing things on my own is easier, freeing (not having to rely on anyone, wait for anyone, you do what YOU want).

It does NOT mean I wouldn't want to do things with my boyfriend.

It is a turn off

It is strange but you do you

It is completely normal

It's welcomed / appealing

[Pudsmucker]

I prefer a woman go to the small or shopping by herself. I do not like to be her escort to these places I am very bored when I go shopping. I know what I want I go in and get it. I do not like grazing in stores, unless it's grocery shopping. I like to see what I'm buying to eat. I'm very particular on my fruits and vegetables especially. I'm very finicky when it comes to avocados. Once I take them to the checkout I tell the clerk how many avocados I have. I do not let the clerk touch my avocados.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I see, an avocado-man

[Pudsmucker]

I am quite finicky with avocados. Avocados if they're bruised they're worse than bananas.

[Andres77]

You like what you like and ur not gonna be a passenger in anyone else’s life. Nothing wrong with that.

[LazerBean]

I do not think that men would find it unappealing per se, and they may even find it attractive. However, most men are not going to approach a woman who seems like they would rather be alone. So it may still negatively impact your dating life.

[Jemini_Crocket]

How would you describe a woman who seems like she wants to be left alone? I am worried I am look like that even though I try to be friendly and open.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Doesn't do eye contact (or look around in general), looks in her phone constantly, seems uncomfortable/nervous, looks constantly at someone else specifically (so I think she's into him), sits in a spot close to the corner and far from other people.

[Jemini_Crocket]

@YourFavoriteFriend Well, then I am doomed lol My work consits of making phone calls and texting even after going home from back and I am shy around men who stare so I can't really look at them even when I feel my best. :|

[YourFavoriteFriend]

But honey, why do you think that you are doomed? You can always try to develop and change something things about yourself. Isn't this the point anyways? I mean, I also didn't wanted to cold approach girls until now but I thought about doing it some weeks ago and I'm trying. It's hard but it's awesome to see yourself changing for the better.

[Jemini_Crocket]

@YourFavoriteFriend But you should also stay true to yourself, no? I mean trying to be something that you're not... it usually dpesn't go well but I get what you mean. :)
I will try to put myself out there more, new situations and places.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Oh, girl! Trust me! You never know till you try! I have changed a lot of things on myself over the years. To both how I behave and to what I want and I am more happy than ever! You MUST make things that make you uncomfortable WHEN you believe that you shouldn't be uncomfortable. You should always think "what if" and "would I like/prefer that?". For example, when people tell me that they are shy, I think that this is something that everyone should change. You have 0 reasons to be "shy" and not been confidence and appear that you want to leave and do things. Just look at someone you like and make eye contact with them and smile. Never hurts to let them know you are interested. For pro, approaching would be the next thing. But trust me, if you are shy, you are missing SO SO MUCH!!! Are there specific things you want to talk about? You seem like an interesting person. DM me if you are interested.

[weysally]

I do a lot of what you do, I find it comfortable

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I do like it when there is balance and most of her FREE time is spend with me. Other than that, I like a woman who's active and does things. But it's a HUGE turn off when a woman wants to spend a lot of money. I mean, I know that this is what women do and I have accepted it but I still wish and search for a woman that will spend as less of possible and in general will not have the desire to spend a lot of money on useless things that don't truly matter.

[Jacobbbb]

I see no issue with it. I mean I relate to it. I like doing some things alone also it lets me catch my breath for a minute plus it's relaxing/requires less energy

[Jemini_Crocket]

Exactly :)

[Finchie40]

I usually do things on my own, not saying I wouldn’t want a relationship again but I am in no rush less drama lol

[NathanDavis]

yeah... if you are not going to be around much, then it would not be an off or an on... they just won't be around, they are more of a none... lol

[MCheetah]

It is neither a positive nor a negative to me. I couldn't care less either way. Although I can see how that would make some men feel neglected or unappreciated by her.

[Havthrills]

That's fine. She can be herself. That's what is the best. What could be wrong with that?

[BoobMan]

As long as it doesn't mean you'd prefer to do it alone rather than with me, it's all good!

[Guanfei]

I like it, because it's a bit boring when a woman doesn't even try.

[Makeushiver]

ard for me to pass judgement when I've had as much sex by myself

[exitseven]

it is good to have outside interests. I voted D.

[Anonymous]

I would prefer to do things together, what if I can't trust you?

[krin_m]

It is quite normal in my opinion!

[Rockstarrrrr]

Wolf chick yeah it's more of a turn on...

[CoolCatMar1]

It's normal

[Alex8736]

more of a turn on