I've been friends with this guy at my work for over a year and we really get on well. He's a little older than me but we hit are friendship off because we both love animals and the same kind of music.
He has two dogs and he's always inviting me to come see them in the car park after work when his girlfriend comes to pick him. I try to talk to his girlfriend but she doesn't say much at all which is strange.
He's even let me dogsit them whilst he's goes away and given me cash for it. Because of this he knows were I live.
He often finds ways to turn up to my house which my family have started to find strange. For example something of mine will go missing and he'll happen to be the one to find it and drop it off at my house or will be talking about a certain type of food or drink in the supermarkets and he'll buy it for me and drop it off for me to try.
I don't him he doesn't need to that and but I'll pay him back but he always insists on paying.
I honestly thought this guy was really sweet, innocent and kind. I remember one time one of his dogs died when it was still a pup and he came into work crying and I was trying to comfort him like a friend would and I thought nothing more of it.
Then today one of are mutual friends says "your very trusting aren't you?" I asked them what they meant by that and they replied explaining but it was strange but this guy were friends with knows we're I live and let's me and other young girls at work come to see his dogs in the back of his car.
When this mutual friend said this it did make me think but I said "he's a sweetheart I don't know what you mean, he's too innocent to be like that" he said "are you sure we definitely know two different versions of him, the man is always talking about women".
I just thought It was him being a sweet old man and nothing more of it but we're co workers not family or anything surly on new years I shouldn't be the first person he thinks of calling.
