Questions: Girl's Behavior

• Today's Males Don't Value Traditional Women

Sure there are likely good men out there who want to be the sole provider and leader of his household and wife. But most males I come across even just in daily life are debauch and severely lacking in morals but full of pride and entitlement. They speak it. I am not simply inferring. I have to overhear the nonsense.

I have been told to get with the times and start fornicating and cheating. My dream of becoming a housewife mother is ridiculed by such males despite my never asking their opinion. Of course the advice to be a manwhore and fornicate as much as possible is never ridiculed, its revered.

• Job Searching Makes me feel Useless

I am college-educated. Yet still can't find a job that is appropriate. I am not educated in a lucrative field like nursing or technology. So I feel pretty useless when I see how unqualified I am for many jobs. I also am not a man so physical labor is not a path for me. My realistic options are retail (it doesn't require as much physical effort as cooking), which I am in now and blessed to get enough hours to survive off of, or stripping/exotic dancing (if worse comes to worse, this is one of the choices i can make).

Even secretary jobs dont seem to be interested in calling me.

My real skills and ability lies in being a mother and wife and taking care of the home. Of course, these skills are not valued by most men of today (such men only value whoredom and being a man-child stuck in adolescence as LONG AS THEY POSSIBLE CAN BE),. In the job market, appropriate cleaning and cooking jobs tend to go to immigrants and/or are very underpaid. Since I support myself and have nobody to lean on, I need a decent paying job.

So my point is... I feel useless. And I don't like that.

I am not trolling*

So I am getting a lot of intense mocking STILL after the altercation I had in Starbucks a couple of weeks ago. Long story short a girl came in I knew from college whos ex I was seeing, asked for a chair randomaly so I told her to get lost.

We argued for literally only 30 seconds or so over her being jealous and she mocked my tan and refereed to be as a "Dorito". So I grabbed her hair for a couple of seconds like I grabbed it from behind and she like stood on my foot and spun and pushed a cream pie/cake in my face. But that was it, wasn't a punch or knockout or long fight.

I am getting consant cream, pieface, pudding jokes, my mother coudnt stop laughing hwen she picked me up. Since mocked over dinner the other night with desert. Am I right to be annoyed, and not see this as any kind of fight just a small altercation?

I don't really like pants most of the time as I live in a hot climate, but when the weather gets cold enough I don't mind wearing pants.

One of my friends though literally NEVER wears pants. She's always in short shorts, or some type of short skirt or dress. Always bare legs basically. The other day I was like, "It's really, really cold today... ya sure you don't wanna put on some pants?" And she flinched and got visually startled, almost jumping back, at the mere suggestion of pants... wow.

I asked her why, and at first she said she'd rather not talk about it, but later on she said that though she barely gets cold on her legs, her mom used to punish her as a kid by making her wear jeans at the beach when she was bad. And since she was so used to being in a bathing suit at the beach, this was incredibly suffocating for her, almost like a prison of some sort. So she basically associates pants with that trauma.

But I'm wondering how common it is for girls to hate pants like this... not for the EXACT same reason as her, obviously, as that's an odd case... but in general, is it common or relatively common for a girl to DESPISE pants like this?

As a girl most of my friends are female, but I feel this'd be an odd topic to bring up, so I'm asking here.