Does anyone know what it is like to feel useless as a woman?

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Today's Males Don't Value Traditional Women Sure there are likely good men out there who want to be the sole provider and leader of his household and wife. But most males I come across even just in daily life are debauch and severely lacking in morals but full of pride and entitlement. They speak it. I am not simply inferring. I have to overhear the nonsense. I have been told to get with the times and start fornicating and cheating. My dream of becoming a housewife mother is ridiculed by such males despite my never asking their opinion. Of course the advice to be a manwhore and fornicate as much as possible is never ridiculed, its revered. Job Searching Makes me feel Useless I am college-educated. Yet still can't find a job that is appropriate. I am not educated in a lucrative field like nursing or technology. So I feel pretty useless when I see how unqualified I am for many jobs. I also am not a man so physical labor is not a path for me. My realistic options are retail (it doesn't require as much physical effort as cooking), which I am in now and blessed to get enough hours to survive off of, or stripping/exotic dancing (if worse comes to worse, this is one of the choices i can make). Even secretary jobs dont seem to be interested in calling me. My real skills and ability lies in being a mother and wife and taking care of the home. Of course, these skills are not valued by most men of today (such men only value whoredom and being a man-child stuck in adolescence as LONG AS THEY POSSIBLE CAN BE),. In the job market, appropriate cleaning and cooking jobs tend to go to immigrants and/or are very underpaid. Since I support myself and have nobody to lean on, I need a decent paying job. So my point is... I feel useless. And I don't like that.

blank_expression · Accepted Answer

Feeling useless is a state of mind subject to change over time. “Of course, these skills are not valued by most men of today (such men only value whoredom and being a man-child stuck in adolescence as LONG AS THEY POSSIBLE CAN BE)” There are plenty of men that seek a traditional woman and would provide. Most likely, you seek some high-end stud breeding that only come in man whore packages. “Man-child stuck in adolescence” (except I am deep in career and successful) such as myself became this way from many influences. I always attracted many sexually aggressive women-these women are a phenomenon of the feminist movement-they are major whores and that rubbed off on me. The female end game has changed-women don’t need men and so the male goal to take a woman serious has evaporated. Personally, I have sampled all of the psycho women out there that any sane man would ever want and I will say that has made me lose interest in ever being serious about one. My priorities are changing and having fun without relationship hassle is where I am headed.
Just lower your expectations a bit and you will find someone wanting a homemaker.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I don´t know what it feels like a woman but I know what it feels like a man. I don´t have much body strength, I can´t change a tire or solve most of mechanical problems because I´m not very interested in mechanics either.
I despise the modern hook-up culture in a whole and I´m often made of because of that. I don´t see a point why I should be experienced in bed and why I need to live my kinks out...
I know what it is to feel useless because I´m more interested in cooking than in cars. I´m more interested in books than movies/sitcoms. I´m more interested in history than in modern day society.
I´m not good for dating because I´m an over-thinker and way too shy to even try to ask out a woman because I had too many bad experiences doing so.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, men prefer submissive women. The more submissive and docile you are, the more desirable they will find you. You don’t really strike me as a “housewife” kinda woman, or else you’d be one. Clearly, you’re putting out the “independent college graduate” energy and men are picking up on that left right and centre and treating you as such.

mattclark242 · Answer

I don't know. you say your good at being a mom maybe a maid or a care taker I know they do not pay well maybe a babysitter or a nanny. I do not know how it feels to be a useless girl but look you want to school that more than I did. I sure you can finde something. I know guys suck and I do to i do not want to be a man child or a guy that sleep with a lot of girls but I kinda am so I suck but not you. a guy want to feel like thor in avengers infinity war like the most powerful helpful person in the room. a guy dose not want to feel like thor in avengers endgame hopeless He thinks he failed Which, of course he did. even I feel like I should do something smart with my life but I don't know what it is and schools cost a lot and I don't know anyone that want to help me and I should just do it my self. I not sure if you feel the same way but I hope you finde something.

Anonymous · Answer

You appear to be lamenting your choice in going to university, the course you choose to do, and that young women that you've seen will put out without asking any commitment from the men you've seen.
There are plenty of men who would love a straight laced woman of good spirit and build a family with her. Have you not been paying attention to the questions just on this site?
If your surroundings are not working for you, you need to find another place with better work opportunities and better people.

2021biguy · Answer

I'm a guy and do many things. I restore cars, make things out of wood, craftsman, handyman and more. I'm college educated and I'm a nice guy. But from my side, women love sleeping around with different men, are gold diggers, and are dishonest. But not all women are like that. A lot want to trap a man into marriage to have babies to take half his stuff and make him pay child support when they leave him for another man. Marriage isn't what is used to be, you are better off supporting yourself. I'm not a man whore, and you're not useless, don't think that.

MCheetah · Answer

All of these points are BS. Men value traditional women nowadays more than ever! The problem is finding them! I just think you are depressed and around the wrong kind of men. Modern women have it super easy nowadays with feminism and OnlyFans (as toxic and useless as it all is). You should seek some psychological help if you're a young, college-educated, presumably attractive looking woman who is still depressed in 2021.

CHadwww · Answer

I doubt you would be or make a decent wife or better said a traditional wife most likely you're a lazy woman who wants to sit at home and do the bare minimum , and wait for your husband to bring in the pay check get a fucking job no man wants a lazy woman who is completely dependent on him

Stevefiveo · Answer

It's true most guys these days don't appreciate traditional women. But there are a few that do and there aren't many traditional women out there so you are very rare and when the right man comes along, he will appreciate you. I know it took me a long time to find a traditional woman and I appreciate her very much.

rondon06 · Answer

Lol you sound but hurt because you can't get a man to pay for your lifestyle & let you stay at home all day. Blame feminists for this not men. Personally as a man I'm conflicted, the idea of being a provider with a housewife sounds sounds fun but so does dating strong independent women.

Vietnemin · Answer

Wow that sounds sad. Job searching is really hard. I’m working in a biotech company right now and many of the workers are female. They’re all doing cool science and stuff. I think women can be just as smart and useful as anyone else yup.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you tried meeting men in your church? It would seem getting yourself in a religious community would probably put you in contact with like minded people with similar values.

On the job side you say you have a college degree but can't find a job that is appropriate. What was your degree in and what do you deem an appropriate job?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

So far, I've never had the chance to feel that way as a woman. I HAVE felt that way as a man, a number of times!!

Anonymous · Answer

What are you even talking about? Most men want housewives.

InferiorElegy · Answer

No, but I know what it feels like to be a useless man which is worse because men are judge by their usefulness where as females are not judge in that way.

Anonymous · Answer

There are many men still interested in being the sole provider, like a man like me, I always wonder where I can find a woman like you. Young women esply are just not interested in traditional roles

TurkishDİxon3419 · Answer

I don't know where you live, but there should be vocational courses in your country, you can go to them and learn.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

To be honest, no. I can't say

Diversity_Hire · Answer

Just have patience. 💜

KrakenAttackin · Answer

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