Fear of confrontation am I a wuss?

[StormMistress]

So I’m a very anxious person and confrontation scares me and make me want to hide away. It’s so bad that some of my ex’s would get angry at me for being so scared and not arguing back. Calling me a wuss or a cry baby.
Am I in the wrong here? Should I try toughening up as they say and not be such a doormat to others?

I honestly don’t know how to be more aggressive and assertive. It’s almost like my very nature is telling me to stay quiet and people won’t bother you.

[Nik1hil]

I noticed this about you, I pay attention!..

That's why the other day I was being disgusting and dirty in a sexual way in my opinion on your question..
Fear of future intimacy and sex, what can I do?

I wanted to see anger and fire in you.. I wanted you to set me on fire.. But you didn't!..

Girl, you need to have some fire.. And you will only be able to change that about yourself when you step out of your "COMFORT ZONE".

I can pull you out of your comfort zone but your DM's are locked.. 😔
If you aren't open to the world! You will never be able to change!..

And you can totally practice stepping out of your comfort zone with me.. For following reasons -
1) I am India so I ain't attractive, and you won't be intimidated.
2) I am too young for you, so you can laugh at my stupidity.
3) there are 1000 weakness that you can Aim on me.. Like I am 25 and virgin! Still live with parents.. I will let you know more Via DM if you choose to open up..
4) And you don't have anything to lose!.. You can block me anytime.. I won't even look back at ya!.. 😂🤣

if not me..
Pick anyone else!.. Argue and fight with me online...
It will make for a great practice...
Like me and @imthequeen do quite often.. There is nice talks 😋 and then there are burns.. 🤣😂🤣.. We mostly target each others race...
Right now, things are on Halt..
"She is waiting for me to DM first! And vice-versa"
Since things are on Halt!.. I have a little time to spare!..
Let me know.. 🙄

⌚⌚ TIME AND TIDE WAITS FOR NONE! don't waste time..

[imthequeen]

😂😂😂

[Nik1hil]

@imthequeen 🙄🙄 Why you laughing!.

OK!.. Keep pulling my tail!..

[Nik1hil]

Thanks for the MHO @AIBot

[Wise4myage]

I think therapy could help you, and maybe something to calm your anxieties.

[Agape93]

It just means you need to have confidence. Find something basic of which you hold dear. Like for example, your bodily autonomy. If you’re not in the mood for sex and he is, tough shit, he’s not getting his dick wet. That’s an easily enforceable boundary, and saying no to requests to deny that boundary is very empowering.

[iseekpinetrees]

You have e to get angry and learn how to express feelings instead of backing down. It's just something you have to want for yourself. Definitely something you have to physically work on doing.

[Yourfriend2021]

Everyone is different, just be who are and forget about what other people think.

[Anonymous]

there is nothing wrong with avoiding confrontation

just know
you live in a world filled with violent insane people

so always carry a weapon to protect yourself

[LimOnn]

You should reflect how you feel.

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Beautiful chest 👅