How do guys view me if I am a 24/7 submissive woman (personalty and everything else)? I get abused a lot especially by men?

[Anonymous]

buut there's up and downsides to being this way like
1. It feels amazing for me
2. I need a leader so it makes sense for me

Its bad cause
1. It feels bad to get abused
2. You get abused a lot by guys (not even talking sex as i dont have premarital sex but guys do sexually harass me a lot ).

Any more?

Updates

+1 y

Positive is guys wanna lead u
Negative is most are incompetent xD and wanna lead me to hell

[ChrisMaster69]

That you need to stand up for yourself.

A sub should not be simply abused that’s so wrong.

A sub needs Trust and Respect.

You should be telling them no and to fuck off basically.

there is passive and there is just not caring.

the latter is dangerous.

You need to stand up, Or get a proper Dom (real lifestyle one).

[Asker]

Yeah i want a leader man. I have trouble on the tightrope between not caring and being passive. I been hurt a lot and sometimes i just dont care anymore.

[ChrisMaster69]

Happy to chat about it anytime

[hahahmm]

You have to identify a guy who is a good leader & right for you. If you want a traditional type guy check out my MyTakes. Also see the one on Leadership. You don't want to get into the situation where you pretend to follow a guy you don't respect.

[Anonymous]

Choice. Make better decisions. When you see redflags then move on. Don't stick around. You can't keep being traumatized until you take action and create boundaries. Heal your past & trauma first before moving on to the next and get therapy if you've been traumatized. Surround yourself with better people.

[MzAsh]

If you allow yourself to be used and abused, you’ll attract predators who want you only for that reason. They’ll run you into the ground. Potentially literally.

[stevo94]

I'm sorry you get abused but if you want to be submissive please choose the right guys and go over ground rules to make sure you don't get abused.

[Asker]

I dont want... Its just how i am xD

[stevo94]

My advice still stands lol

[Asker]

Thank you i hope they will listen and hope to find a good man too.

[stevo94]

I hope you do too. If you ever want to vent just dm me. I'll listen and try to help

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Change is a wonderful thing & maybe you can change your ways & it saddens me to hear that you get abused & hopefully you find your special someone.

[2021biguy]

It's ok if you are, just don't let people push you around.

[bamesjond0069]

Love it! Id abuse you in just the right ways.

[Iron_Man]

Do the best you can