Guys only give me attention or acknowledge me when I sexualized myself?

[Anonymous]

I’m not promiscuous I only dress like it because men do not speak or even acknowledged me if I don’t. Once I get their attention they usually actually find out I’m a pretty interesting person. I have a personality and I like to think I’m pretty. Why do men treat some women like people and only notice me when I look sexual?

[Saiesh30]

I think it's best if you don't sexualize yourself and be patient for the guy who approaches you for the way are. That should be a much more fruitful relation and long lasting too in my opinion.

[Asker]

I’ll keep trying but i’ve never had a man approach or speak to me when i looked wholesome and i did that for years

[Saiesh30]

Trust the process. There's better men out there.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Why would they notice you when you’re not? What sets you apart?

[Asker]

same reason anyone likes anyone, they find me attractive and want to get to know me

[laly520]

u dress such way on purpose for em to notice u then u ask why they react in such way?
maybe next time dont do that n dont put urself as an object for display to get their attention

[Asker]

When i dress normal men ignore me and do not speak to me. I said that in the description if you read it. I spent the first 22 years of my life dressing normal, classy, cute, modest, etc and men never spoke to me and treated me cruelly.🤦🏽‍♀️

[laly520]

dressing the other way isn't a solution either
it would only attract those whos only interested in ur body n sex
they would only see u as a body n nth more

[Asker]

What’s the solution then. If men hate me one way and don’t love me the other either. Doesn’t neither benefit at that point. Should just shoot myself at this point

[laly520]

be patient
there would come a day u will find a person who will like u the way u r

[TooExtraterrestrial]

I don't pay attention to women that dress promiscuously