Girls, how dunce do you perceive guys are in regards to understanding women?

[lightbulb27]

Dunce means they don't know what they don't know to begin understanding how women really are.

Between dumb and dumber

Slightly dunce

Some guys understand women

They totally understand women

Im too dunce to answer

[SallyTho87]

A lot of men I've encountered, friendships, relationships, etc. know generally how to treat women and are quite respectful, fun to hangout with, shoot the sh1t with, and enjoy being around. Many men can understand women without issue, it just takes time, experience, learning, and to have a women to help the man learn, without casting freakin harsh judgment.
We are ALL human, we're all different, and it takes a great deal of time to understand the emotions, mindset, psychology of the different sex when compared to your own sex.

I have to give men a hand, I see them try, I see them learning about their wives, girlfriends, partners, and doing what they can to help, to understand, and assist in whatever way they are able to.
Women aren't great at understanding men either. Many have this opinion that men don't have feelings, men can be verbally abused, insulted, and belittled just because he IS a man. It's not appropriate.

So long as the guy is trying, and always learning, he gets a 10/10 in my book.

[lightbulb27]

Very well said Sarah!

[DishLady]

Some are really smooth and understand women really well… but play “dunce” for whatever reason.


Others are very young and clueless or inexperienced so they’re kind of just stumbling into situations.


Some are just honest and up front about what they know or don’t know, which is great but very rare.

[lightbulb27]

Nicely said!

[HighValue]

The more a man understands women, the less he trusts them, respects them, or cares about the majority of them.

[lightbulb27]

hummm... I understand that, but I'm thinking you mean "experience". I found once understand them... and see their flaws, I felt more comfortable with them eventhough they are dangerous.
maybe the patient gotta know thyself better, from what I read, I think that's the issue.

[CriticalCatDad]

Agreed, @HighValue
Women aren't worth understanding anyway. Too much to deal with.

[NamerOfStars]

Man, talk about a Freudian slip...

[lightbulb27]

say what?

[Boomchakalaca]

Slightly dunce, but that just comes with age and experience.
Example: 20 y/o male who had no relationship with women and does not interact with them is very dunce
Vs
A 50 y/o man who had 14+ relationships he understands women more than when he was 20

[Nikki1989]

Some men are clueless when it comes to understanding women, and all of those men can be found online. I don't seem to meet them out in the real world.

[CriticalCatDad]

I understand enough to hate them

[lightbulb27]

ok I can understand being hurt by them, I had plenty of that at young age... so I avoided them like the boob onic plauge. but nature being what it is, I did some 'learnin and growing myself. I was the real problem. Now much better dealing with them and not afriad.
Pain creates fear. Overcoming pain conquors fear.
So my answer is... patient... know thyself!