Any men like me? All I do is get taken advantage of by people everywhere lol?

[Anonymous]

At this point i have to have some humor when i think of it.

[lightbulb27]

You are probably empathic, put your trust in too easy and don’t realize some people are diff than you. Time to watch videos in empathic person and how to protect yourself… your energy… boundaries and address inside sounds so you have your own strength of self.

[Asker]

Thanks do you have a video thats good?

[lightbulb27]

start here,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Je5R2Rfia4c

there's web sites dedicated to this topic from women.
wayfindersnow.com/.../

It's really empowering to understand yourself and get control of your space, give you a whole new lease on life!

[lightbulb27]

Honestly, it's dissapointing society does not identify these kids early in life, and protect and enable them better and their parents. Girls as well as I'm dealing with this now with a teen. They need extra attention to develop healthy. That needs built into society. Too many people get hurt, simply because they are "good hearted" or already wounded and it trashes their lives and others for decades.

We have a lot to progress in humanity if we can get on top of preparing people better for life.

[Asker]

He looks so sweet. Thanks.

[dreamstar72]

I’m the one also gets used all the time.

[Asker]

How?

[dreamstar72]

To helpful and that is a sucker flag to most people

[Asker]

Oh... sorry man.

[DarkWinterNights]

Yeah I’ve suffered from this. It takes time, and it’s difficult not to become a bitter and resentful person because of it. You just have to learn to guard yourself. Don’t volunteer your time, money or attention to people. Learn to say no, and develop and enforce healthy boundaries.

[Asker]

Thanks! See i think part of it for me is that im very submissive and i easily follow and want to follow and copy others. I easily admire people. O. o

[Creampiekarl420]

join the club women today are so broken and hurt they don’t even trust an honest guy without just a sexual interest in them I literally can’t date anymore because women believe it’s bullshit when I’m seriously pursuing them and it sucks because it’s like they’re conditioned to be with assholes I think women are just afraid of commitment and I’d like to get married young to an American woman but it looks like I’m gonna have to get a foreign gal

[Asker]

How do i recognize if a mannis genuinely perusing

[Creampiekarl420]

That’s part of the problem too many people lie and people like you expect to be lied to all I can recommend is date seriously and give people the benefit of the doubt and take a break but don’t give up I’ve met some really shitty women but the good ones make it worth while

[Asker]

I have to probably test the men

[Jltakk]

Yep, I'm THE guy that everyone dumps their drama and life stories on. Best advice I can give you is set boundaries. If they cross it, thats on them.