Why am I ignored by men?

[Anonymous]

I'm 25 years old and I have a really difficult time meeting men. I just don't seem to register as an entity on their radar, and I don't know why. I've been called pretty and attractive by non-relatives a lot, and if anything it's my family that thinks I'm ugly, as they criticize my appearance often. Here is a general description of me: 5'8" 130lbs, natural blonde, green eyes, pale skin, good teeth, general hourglass shape, longish legs (on the skinnier side), 32D boobs, small butt. My personality is on the shy and reserved side, but I have a ton of interests (history, science, philosophy, exercise, and writing, to name a few), and my friends say my best traits are my wit and my loyalty. I just don't know what it is about me that puts off men. I feel like I'm running out of time because I'm getting older, and there's not even a glimmer of hope in sight. Can someone please tell me what I'm doing wrong, and why men don't notice me?

[iloveboobs10]

U definitely sound like a beautiful woman, what i suggest is go out and make urself happy do things that make u feel good and in time someone will realize ur true beauty inside and out and ask u out. If u put up a pic it would help, u might be do pretty guys are afraid to ask u out because they might think ur already taken.

[fireguy221]

Well I don't know either I could look wise but ima be honest u dont need to worry about that trust me I have a hard time to get a girl and all that happen is I get ignored. Keep ur head up and just have fun. There a lot of guys who would want u. U just gotta keep swimming

[nerms123]

You sound too hot actually. They probably think you’d never be interested in them.

[Celtero]

Heh, you sound like a female version of myself.

In my experience, women aren't interested in me because I don't exude confidence or dominance and I'm not a very strong conversationalist. Not sure if men are the same way...

But I've heard men aren't as aggressive when it comes to relationships anymore, so you might have to make the first, and second, or even third move or perhaps try online dating where the general intention is clear.

[Protector119]

Well to be honest its bull that your family is berating your appearance, from the sounds of it you look great and your personality seems absolutely stunning.

[TheFlak38]

This is the woman that friendzones men left and right because she has "standards" and then asks why she is so lonely.

[salaarsikandar]

You're reserved. You never tried. Try "texting him first". There must be someone interested in you. You just gotta pay attention.

[PerryDaBud]

Hm, if they don't approach you... then use the uno reverse card! Approach them! :D

[devil_8888]

Maybe you are not socialising with men much...

[Protector119]

All of these are great comment and then you're Comment just sounds like you are... bored.

[Anonymous]

You're probably a freakin guy.