Polls: Girl's Behavior

Yeah so I barely know her and from the start she was unloading her problems onto me and I didn’t even really listen to them or offer much advice. She keeps doing it. Why does she do this? I am attracted to her but I don't know why she does this? Like she doesn’t tell her friends any of this stuff either. Just me. All the time. Why? Why does this happen with some women? They start telling me their problems when I barely know them. Why? thanks

An amazing independent woman that I really like had recently just gotten two small tattoos and I don't know how I feel about that. I know that a person having a tattoo does not make them a bad person but personally I wouldn't get one because to me it seems impure to have tattoos on me. I have grown to know that it's ok to have tattoos if they have a meaning but I don't understand one would make such important decision.

Why is it that I feel this way?

Why do woman want to get tattoos?

Is it normal for woman to get tattoos in modern days?

Recently I saw a discussion regarding this topic in the internet, so thought of asking this. Various people (both males & females) presented different reasons as to why long nails could be a red flag.

Some asked how such women manage to do day to day work since having long nails would make things difficult. One guy said that he finds it annoying when a girl starts typing with long nails.

One woman said that a girl with short nails is likely to have a cleaner butt than a girl with long nails, but another woman replied that it would be a problem only if you use toilet papers. She claimed that she has long nails and she uses a bidet so things are fine.

Others said that their toxic exes had long nails so they see it as a red flag. There were some people who claimed that certain colours and styles of long nails can be considered as a red flag while others may not. They said that especially if the nails are shaped like a claw or the colours are red, orange or yellow it's a sign to run.

I believe that a person's tattoos, music taste and fashion style can tell what sort of a person they are, so I think nails may say something too. Personally, I don't hold a strong opinion if long nails can be a red flag or not. So, what do you think? Red flag or not?

If you're a man who's been in a relationship, you have most likely been misunderstood that caused an argument. Do you think it was intentional?

If you're a woman and you have done that, why do women do it?

Specifically at the gym cause I’ve heard conflicting things that women don’t like to flirt or be flirted with at the gym.


Which I rarely ever do, but sometimes I’ve witnessed a few regulars at my gym do certain things that caught my attention.


Like for example, one girl will try to find ways to do her workouts in close proximity to whatever machine or bench I’m on. And caught her glancing over at me in between her sets. I could be overthinking but yeah


Also. Do women like to flirt at the gym or no?

Asked this woman out at my gym, she said no because she has a boyfriend. We stayed gym buddies since.

Then all of a sudden a couple months later she said she was breaking up with her boyfriend and wanted to take me up on my offer. After the breakup up though things took a turn. She admitted she has interest in me, likes me, but needs time. Since then things have been hit or miss. She doesn’t really text or respond (I barely text her now), no social media interactions on my stuff but does on other people’s.

Yet when I see her in person (usually at her work, she works at that gym) she’s happy to see me, could talk to me all day and does text fit a bit after I leave but then goes silent again. She says she’s getting me a Christmas present and wants to exchange on Christmas Eve after work.

I get she probably needs time, her ex cheated on her and from what I can tell was manipulative (she hasn’t really opened up about it to me). But I guess by mind is split. Part of me is saying her actions speak louder than words (not communicating, she does say she’s horrible at texting). The other part says she just broke up with her ex and is probably trying to work through that and keep me and the situation separate.

What are your opinions?

Keep in mind that historically men were in the productive sphere

while women were in the reproductive sphere

I'm going on vacation with a large group, including girls, and we're going to be staying in a small apartment so quite cramped. I normally sleep in my boxers but my (quite conservative) mom says it would be disrespectful to do that with girls present and would make them uncomfortable. Is that true? (We're all 18/19)

Dated a girl last spring until fall, and we ended up parting ways after she had a severe mental health crisis. We agree to split, and she states that we will grow, and improve upon ourselves then in the future we may get back together when we have both grown.

She encourages me make a tinder app and meet other women to explore my tastes (I don't too busy). Fast forward to this summer, and I help rehabilitate dog. She sees the rescue dog I working with and asks to have it, and she continuously sends me texts about the dog. The entire 14 months we are separated she always asks to go for coffee, and dinner/drinks to catch up. I always come up with an excuse to avoid it.

We also sometimes have 2 hour long conversations once a week. In September she says I am her one true friend, and asks me to babysit the dog I gave her in November for a wedding across the country. No one else can. She drops it off on November 3rd, and we go to dinner where she tells me she was extremely crazy, and understands why I broke up with her, and tells me she is now receiving therapy for her mental/childhood issues. She is also on medication for PTSD due to sexual trauma.

She leaves, and while I watch the dog she engages in almost no contact with me won't answer phone, or respond to texts. On November 19 she apologizes, and admits that she had a crazy few weeks due to drama there.

Now we are talking from November 20th to now, and I feel like things are getting better, and I feel she has grown as a partner. She lets it slip that 14 months ago she made a tinder profile to sleep with a bunch of guys, and still talks on the phone with them? The she says that she was dating a man from June to November while talking to me. What?

Do I have a right to be upset? Or am I overreacting? I am so confused. Any advice please. I have never experienced such a situation. Please help

Just wondering if this would be a common action women make if they are no longer into a guy romantically