What Women Really Mean (Page 2)

[kigirl33]

Haha I loved this it is so true. every man should read at least the first 2. What we say some times makes no sence but at the time it seems perfectly logical to us(no wonder men think we are crazy lol). We can interperate hyrogliphics but not the common incoded coversation of women.

[Journeyman11]

No, it's just annoying, unchecked selfishness and a lack of accountability. The only reason girls are like this, is that they get away with it.
It's still unbelievably egocentric and fucking annoying, as well as dishonest and manipulative.

[cutebubble]

Sorry I can't really agree with all of this, just the "Leave me alone!"... I think that does usually mean "Leave me alone!". Either the guy has upset her, creeped her out, or harrassing her, or something, or why else would you need to say 'leave me alone' or she just wants a break. So I suggest guys DO give her time alone. And when she's ready, or some time has passed you can start asked her. Or you can ask her what's wrong to begin with, like if you start fighting or etc.

[The-Nash]

Lol, it's funny how a seven word phrase form a guy ("But, the game is one right now") means just that - a seven word phrase("But I don't really feel like moving"). Now, cut that in half (Leave me alone") a three word phrase from a girl means a whole paragraph with some possible footnotes. lol,

that was just a joke, I'm j/k. I actually liked the article a lot.

[toulouse]

"XDacubed2514 days agoAnd this is why guys think girls are retarded and useless. Why can't you just say what you mean or shut the f*** up? If you need a hug say so don't tell them to get lost and then hope to high hell that they read in between the lines and come comfort you! And then get mad when they don't! Girls need to stop playing gamesand just BE REAL! WTF is the point to any of that crap? Grow up!"

lol AGREED :-) :-)

At least out of respect for other women-speak for yourself only

[lillianAngie]

lolz.. but I'm absolutely the opposite of all 6 points.

Come on! you are 29.. I'm 26, I've learnt to be more straight forward because guys are usually very straight forward.

1) When I'm not fine.. I say "I'm upset" or "I'm hurt"

2) it's a nice way of saying "fXXk off"

3) is I like you

4) it'll be nice if you could help

5) I am truly not in a rush to get married and have kids. I'm not ready to confine myself to a family.

6) I never say this.. if I do.. I might mean you are an idiot?

[Kit_Kat88]

1. When I say I’m fine it usually means I’m fine. Well when I’m mad I say I’m fine in a harsh tone sometimes.
2. I’d rather get comfort so I don’t say that. I would say that if he keeps bothering me.
3. I like you is a sentence I say to friends, family, and people I romantically like.
4. Very true but I wouldn’t force him, I’d be disappointed.
5. True with me
6. Lol I think many people and dogs are adorable

[genericname85]

i don't care what women really mean to be honest. if you're an adult who never learned how to say what they mean, i have no business with you anyway. if a person isn't able to express themselfes and articulate what they think properly, they are not able to sustain a healthy relationship.

[Lance1965]

Women that play mind games are not worth trying to understand. Most women are clueless about what they want anyway, just ask them and you will hear a lot of "I don't know's" and "maybe's." Even when they do give you a direct answer they are likely to change their mind at any given moment.

[tonicandgin]

Uh. When I say leave me alone i actually mean LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE! This is why guys can't take no for an answer. It's post like these that think otherwise.

[Anonymous]

I have now experienced this type of hidden meanings but I dont begrudge the woman I love for this. I embrace it and realise that she is just reaching out. I've seen a lot of other forums where guys suggest to play mind games and make the women think that the guy is the best man in the world. It works both ways. It takes two to tango. Those two that can communicate and understand each other, even with hidden meanings and the odd miss communication, are not playing mind games. They are being their true self and are looking for reassurance that their significant other is interested. If it's not reciprocal it's not a relationship, it's not mind games its just the obvious. It's simple but love doesn't always let it work out that way. It's important to always remember to be honest to the one you love and yourself. That goes a long way.

[LogicBomber]

Women should act like adults and not like cryptic spoiled brat children, and then men wouldn't have to decipher their bullshit.
I refuse to allow any female to play these childish games.

If you have issues, say so. If you say you're fine, don't even try to come back later and talk about it, you had your opportunity.

[Liam_Hayden]

1,2,3,5: Agree

4: Trying to manipulate me is the kiss of death. I will do almost anything for someone TILL she tries to manipulate. Then I am hasta la bye bye.

6. This can go both ways, but if you aren't making out when she says it you are probably a prime candidate for the "Friend Zone."

[Anonymous]

Here's the problem with all that, we are direct and it's what we like (you even like that about us), so we get really tired of the "games". It's not that we don't "get it", we do, we're just sick of it. It's so refreshing when we actually come across a woman that does say exactly what she means, and directly!

[Anonymous]

Just to mention one (the adorable thing): that has been the kiss of death for me, and once I put it to a woman (who told me that) point blank when I asked what she meant and asked if that was showing any sexual interest, and she basically said as a brother, no feelings that way at all. To which I replied, "Then I"d rather be a badass, or a charmer, or a..." to which she said:" But you ARE charming!" Ugggh.

[superdudeman]

The key to understanding women is not to listen to what they say, rather look at her emotions and read her body and vibe.

Its more about reading how she's saying things, not her words.

[MarketData]

See this guy gets it. That's why he has a bird on his head and you don't.

[GreyEyedZayah12]

No, I’m quite good and my track record speaks volumes of understanding,
growing up the seventh child between six older and six younger sisters,
twenty-three nieces and two grandmothers over one-hundred and three.
😌

[Sassafras]

I disagree about the adorable comment. As a woman, I have said that to a boyfriend or love interest when they are acting childish in a cute way, and it has nothing to do with viewing them in a platonic way.

[rachelx1991]

#6 I don't think this applies to every girl. If I said I think you;'re adorable, I would mean it as in a 'You're such a nice guy' way where I would want them to be my boyfriend because I would trust them.

[Browneye57]

@WeaponZero - This. Girls who play all those games aren't worth the fucking you're getting. Trust me on this.
And mostly it's the 20-somethings. They haven't a goddam clue. ;)

[Browneye57]

I'm guessing there's some kind of source for these takes as this is at least the dozenth one that looks completely plagiarized. These women just don't dream this shit up by themselves.

[fistsofdissent]

Haha! Here's another you can add to the list, "I just want to be friends..." Guys, USUALLY (meaning there are cases where this is actually true) when a girl says this, she means the kind of friends that never see or talk to each other...ever again. Sometimes the girl just may be too scared to REALLY tell you what she's thinking, maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, I don't know. Unless she really means it, and you two have an actual deep friendship...move on!